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Patience grasshopper...

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Has the wait for visas etc hurt or helped your relationship?  

68 members have voted

  1. 1. Has the wait for visas etc hurt or helped your relationship?

    • It wasn't so bad, except for the lack of laundry!
      5
    • It helped us get to know each other really well and made us stronger.
      39
    • Having to be apart so long was very hard to take, but it was okay once we were together again...
      19
    • After so long apart, it feels like I married a stranger... we have to get to know each other all over again.
      1
    • Our relationship didn't survive the wait.
      1
    • Wait? Visa? We didn't know anything about that when we got married and it was a nasty surprise to be seperated.
      0
    • We didn't wait. We married on the spur of the moment and haven't been apart.
      3

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Toshtishtash Proficient

Toshtishtash   1

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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: England
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We aren't married yet, but I think this whole being apart thing definitely has done and will continue to do us good. It has made our relationship extremely strong. We talk about everything and we have gotten to know eachother a lot better than we probably would have done otherwise! And I know 100% that if we can get through this whole process and still have exactly the same love for eachother that we do now, then we are in it for the long run. I believe that if you can get through something like this then you can get through just about anything.

I agree though that I would much prefer being with him full time though!!!

Our K1 Journey

November 5th 2005 - ♥ Tash & Chris met ♥

June 11th 2007 - We posted the I129F :D

June 19th 2007 - USCIS received date

June 22nd 2007 - NOA1 received

November 16th 2007 - NOA2 - 156 days from filing

November 24th 2007 - Hard copy of NOA2 received

December 15th 2007 - Packet 3 received

January 18th 2008 - Packet 3 returned

February 13th 2008 - Packet 4 received

March 4th 2008 - Medical @ 1.00pm

March 5th 2008 - INTERVIEW @ 10.00am - APPROVED!!

March 11th 2008 - Visa received!

April 30th 2008 - Flying home at last!!!!! (POE: Dulles - Washington DC)

July 12th 2008 - Wedding date!

Now for AOS!

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Zee Bee Grand Master

Zee Bee   61

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ghana
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We are not done with the waiting yet.

The wait is a rollercoaster of emotions because we have no idea when it is going to end. Once we get that interview date the wait will not be that bad. At least I will have something solid to look forqard to instead of the neverending blackhole of USCIS.

But it has made us stronger than either of us thought. We are better able to read each other and be there for each other when times are tough. It has taught us that we have more patience than either of us imagined. And no matter what, we are going to make it through this in one piece

THIS PROCESS IS NOT GOING TO BREAK US!!!

:)

Mama to 2 beautiful boys (August 2011 and January 2015)

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