Culture Based Narcissism?

[LionessDeon 2,060]

31 minutes ago, TBoneTX said:

Folks, let's minimize posts about 90-Day Fiance, or those posts will have to be removed.

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One doesn't contact ICE for this.

 

The proper avenue is the FDNS officer at the nearest USCIS office.

Go in person, carrying all the objective evidence of the fraud that you can collect.

Include the A# of the individual whom you're reporting.

Ask for the FDNS officer.

Be polite and unemotional.

Explain that you have objective evidence of relationship fraud for "your expert analysis."

(This will relax and flatter the FDNS officer, who will be used to emotional complainers.)

Hand it all over, thank the FDNS officer for accepting it, and leave.

Sadly, you'll never hear anything further, but at least you've done all that you could.

There is actually a category on the ICE reporting site for fraudulent marriage. But knowing USCIS for reporting is good information too. 
He is currently trying to get his physically abusive brother here through a young American girl half his age that my ex works with. She has no idea what’s going on. His mother is here illegally housed at hotel chain who supplies her a room in exchange for room cleaning. 

Edited March 15, 2022 by LionessDeon

[TBoneTX 45,223]

1 hour ago, LionessDeon said:

There is actually a category on the ICE reporting site for fraudulent marriage.

This is good to know; however, ICE has had its hands full for years with no end in sight, and it seems to focus on group illegalities (e.g., workers in meat-processing plants) than on individual cases.  USCIS is prepared and equipped to deal with the latter.

1 hour ago, LionessDeon said:

1.  She has no idea what’s going on.

2.  His mother is here illegally housed at hotel chain who supplies her a room in exchange for room cleaning. 

If you're inspired, collect objective evidence for these and submit it (1., separately) to USCIS and (2.) to ICE.

[LionessDeon 2,060]

24 minutes ago, TBoneTX said:

This is good to know; however, ICE has had its hands full for years with no end in sight, and it seems to focus on group illegalities (e.g., workers in meat-processing plants) than on individual cases.  USCIS is prepared and equipped to deal with the latter.

If you're inspired, collect objective evidence for these and submit it (1., separately) to USCIS and (2.) to ICE.

Thank you.  Any advice on how/what objective evidence includes?

[Boiler 45,434]

I assume he has removed conditions if not that is another story might even have naturalized by now. 

Where is he in the process?

 

[TBoneTX 45,223]

1 minute ago, LionessDeon said:

Any advice on how/what objective evidence includes?

In general, anything that would convince a neutral or skeptical stranger of your point.

  -- printed transcripts of admitting to illegal acts or nefarious intent

  -- photos of someone "caught in the act" of whatever it is

  -- third-party evidence of incriminating acts (e.g., credit purchases for self or lover)

 

Others here will have more to add.

[LionessDeon 2,060]

Just now, Boiler said:

I assume he has removed conditions if not that is another story might even have naturalized by now. 

Where is he in the process?

 

ROC complete.  I assume he will quickly file for naturalization. He wanted us to file for his mother while we were married. I didn’t want to. He wasn’t working fast enough for her and she visited with a muli entry visa in 2020 and never went back. He told me he wants to file for her and “lots of people get through”. 

[TBoneTX 45,223]

2 minutes ago, Boiler said:

I assume he has removed conditions if not that is another story might even have naturalized by now. 

Good point.  If evidence of fraud is strong enough, it can affect naturalization status.

Again, of course, learning the results from USCIS would never happen.

[LionessDeon 2,060]

3 minutes ago, TBoneTX said:

In general, anything that would convince a neutral or skeptical stranger of your point.

  -- printed transcripts of admitting to illegal acts or nefarious intent

  -- photos of someone "caught in the act" of whatever it is

  -- third-party evidence of incriminating acts (e.g., credit purchases for self or lover)

 

Others here will have more to add.

Ugh you know I had WhatsApp transcripts that i cannot locate now! 😭

[TBoneTX 45,223]

1 minute ago, LionessDeon said:

I assume he will quickly file for naturalization.

Compile and submit your evidence ASAP, then.

Just now, LionessDeon said:

I had WhatsApp transcripts that i cannot locate now!

Keep looking, and contact technical help if necessary (WhatsApp or private).

[TBoneTX 45,223]

The alternative to submitting evidence, especially if it seems incomplete or weak to you, is to try to let go,  forget the whole matter, and "look ahead, not back."  This completely sucks, but sometimes it's the only realistic option.

[Boiler 45,434]

So he will be applying for naturalization under the 5 year rule

 

 

 

 

 

[LionessDeon 2,060]

13 minutes ago, Boiler said:

So he will be applying for naturalization under the 5 year rule

 

 

 

 

 

Yep

[LionessDeon 2,060]

19 minutes ago, TBoneTX said:

The alternative to submitting evidence, especially if it seems incomplete or weak to you, is to try to let go,  forget the whole matter, and "look ahead, not back."  This completely sucks, but sometimes it's the only realistic option.

I know I am looking ahead. I just feel the need to speak out about this so maybe others won’t get hurt like I did.  Reporting him may be too late for sure. 

[Pinkrlion 2,715]

32 minutes ago, LionessDeon said:

Ugh you know I had WhatsApp transcripts that i cannot locate now! 😭

If you had WhatsApp back up to your google account, the transcripts are there.  

[LionessDeon 2,060]

Just now, Pinkrlion said:

If you had WhatsApp back up to your google account, the transcripts are there.  

I don’t believe I did but thanks for the tip!