Can't You Sue If They Asked This Question?

[Teddy406 0]

I think I'm in the minority here but I don't find any of those "offensive". Nosy yes, but not totally offensive. After all, these are marriage-based AOS questions. Much of the "joint" documentation requested (including photos) can be easily staged or obtained... it's not as easy to fake in-person interaction.

My take on interview questions is this: I think they are less concerned with the actual answers (unless your answers raise red flags) and more interested in the way you answer, interact with each other and your body language. You can tell a lot about a person through speech patterns and body language. Anyone who's been through a lot of questions by CBP can attest to this. Example: "Where do you work? What do you do? How many people work there? How many people do what you do at work? Do you rent or own? Who are you visiting? etc.". When asked these things they're paying close attention to your speech patterns and body language when you answer.

I've read elsewhere questions that are WAY too specific for a spouse to know (e.g. how many pairs of shoes does the wife own?). Most husbands wouldn't know the answer but if they did that might also be a red flag that the couple practiced their answers.

Yeah, I'd agree. I've only done my K1 interview, but I dont think the key is to get all the questions "right", it's to ask a lot of questions to "suss you out" . They ask you lots of questions and judge your reactions and character, ask you "gimme" questions to see your standard mood/response, then ask "other" questions to see how you respond.

I mean, if they asked if the baby was yours and you were a little indignant, I wonder if that would even count against you? It seems like a natural reaction to me if someone questions the parentage of your child.

[Emancipation 2]

Eh, I'd be happy to show them "pictures" if they just granted me an approval without putting me through the wringer! They can't keep it though, they'd have to hand it right back.

MISA THAT's halarious!! Ahhhh thanks for the giggle!

[misa 2]

Eh, I'd be happy to show them "pictures" if they just granted me an approval without putting me through the wringer! They can't keep it though, they'd have to hand it right back.

MISA THAT's halarious!! Ahhhh thanks for the giggle!