Divorcing

[Rocio0010 5,580]

Just now, Beltre0519 said:

Ok got it, basically let him go on his own, I don't have to attend.

 

Exactly. If he doesn;'t inform USCIS of the divorce, and you have an interview and don't show up, he'll have to explain why. 

If he gets approved without an interview and fails to inform USCIS of his divorce, he's going to be in hot waters when he naturalizes, because he needs to inform of the divorce. 

[Mike E 11,741]

Just now, Rocio0010 said:

Exactly. If he doesn;'t inform USCIS of the divorce, and you have an interview and don't show up, he'll have to explain why. 

If he gets approved without an interview and fails to inform USCIS of his divorce, he's going to be in hot waters when he naturalizes, because he needs to inform of the divorce. 

When he naturalized and/or when he petitions a foreign love child or his next spouse.  Etc.  

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1 minute ago, Rocio0010 said:

Exactly. If he used you, I would let him freak out and figure out the situation himself. Focus on you and your own life now.

Thank you. Yea he can ask his sister in law and twin bother they only have 3 years here in the USA and he thinks that they know more than me,  I came when I was 3 years own and going on 44. He basically did it to himself. 

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3 minutes ago, Mike E said:

When he naturalized and/or when he petitions a foreign love child or his next spouse.  Etc.  

But how will they ever know if he fails to tell them on paper? Will the court notify USCIS. Because I'm not going to send the divorce papers or go to the interview. 

[Crazy Cat 41,982]

3 minutes ago, Beltre0519 said:

But how will they ever know if he fails to tell them on paper? Will the court notify USCIS. Because I'm not going to send the divorce papers or go to the interview. 

When you fail to attend the I-751 interview, it will immediately create a crisis for his immigration status.  He must then explain why, and he will have to produce a divorce decree and more.  The courts will not contact USCIS. 

Edited March 3, 2022 by Crazy Cat

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4 minutes ago, Crazy Cat said:

When you fail to attend the I-751 interview, it will immediately create a crisis for his immigration status.  He must then explain why, and he will have to produce a divorce decree and more.  The courts will not contact USCIS. 

Thank you! probably come up with a lie why I couldn't make it, he will def not tell them we got divorce. But not worrying about that anymore.  Thankkkkkk youuu so much for your input and knowledge. You guys guided me the right way and will take our advice.  @Crazy Cat @Mike E @Rocio0010 @Timona 😀

[Rocio0010 5,580]

1 minute ago, Beltre0519 said:

probably come up with a lie why I couldn't make it, he will def not tell them we got divorce.

Perfect, let him shot himself in the foot

[Mike E 11,741]

22 minutes ago, Beltre0519 said:

But how will they ever know if he fails to tell them on paper? Will the court notify USCIS. Because I'm not going to send the divorce papers or go to the interview. 

Well if he lies on his naturalization application the background check will likely catch  it.  If he tells the truth then he will in trouble. Or if it is found out later such as by CBP, he will be in trouble. 

Edited March 3, 2022 by Mike E

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3 minutes ago, Mike E said:

Well if he lies on his naturalization application the background check will likely catch  it.  If he tells the truth then he will in trouble. Or if it is found out later such as by CBP, he will be in trouble. 

He did it to himself basically. : ) 

[mushroomspore 3,044]

25 minutes ago, Beltre0519 said:

Thank you! probably come up with a lie why I couldn't make it, he will def not tell them we got divorce. But not worrying about that anymore.  Thankkkkkk youuu so much for your input and knowledge. You guys guided me the right way and will take our advice.  @Crazy Cat @Mike E @Rocio0010 @Timona 😀

Haha the funny thing is that telling USCIS that you are getting divorced with a pending I-751 is TOTALLY NORMAL and the easy way to go about it. Sooo many couples do it. You can't predict life so lots of people do undergo divorce after filing a joint I-751. Your ex lying and thinking that's gonna help him somehow with USCIS??? Well that speaks to....very low levels of intelligence. But it's ultimately not your circus and not your monkey. Wishing you all the best as you move on.

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51 minutes ago, mushroomspore said:

Haha the funny thing is that telling USCIS that you are getting divorced with a pending I-751 is TOTALLY NORMAL and the easy way to go about it. Sooo many couples do it. You can't predict life so lots of people do undergo divorce after filing a joint I-751. Your ex lying and thinking that's gonna help him somehow with USCIS??? Well that speaks to....very low levels of intelligence. But it's ultimately not your circus and not your monkey. Wishing you all the best as you move on.

Thank you! Love the circus monkey line.. 

[Cathi 5,771]

You are no longer a part of his immigration journey. You have enough to worry about, let him worry about his own future. If he fails to tell USCIS about the divorce or lies about it, that is not your problem. Let him screw it up for himself, he deserves everything he gets. And if I were you, I wouldn't mention anything you've been told here. Let him find out for himself that trying to cover up the fact that he's divorced will not have the ending he wants. hopefully he'll get deported. 

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5 hours ago, Cathi said:

You are no longer a part of his immigration journey. You have enough to worry about, let him worry about his own future. If he fails to tell USCIS about the divorce or lies about it, that is not your problem. Let him screw it up for himself, he deserves everything he gets. And if I were you, I wouldn't mention anything you've been told here. Let him find out for himself that trying to cover up the fact that he's divorced will not have the ending he wants. hopefully he'll get deported. 

Thank you I’m not saying anything. You reap what you sow.