I-751 denied, what's next?

[Johnny6751 4]

7 minutes ago, da95826 said:

That is a good list, just collect statements over the whole marriage, you can add W2/1099 from work as they show addresses at the time, anything mailed to both you could be added. beneficiary of insurance or investment accounts, and birth records if children together.

Oh yeah,  i forgot to mention his 1099, my W2, also print outs from the usps delivery email service.

[lloy0076 6]

On 2/2/2022 at 5:28 AM, zacharynsw said:

my husband was very good to me for the first 3 years together and the first 2 years of our marriage.
turns out he just got sick of me, made new friends and wanted to go out drinking, having fun as a single guy. and I did not like that. 

 

 he doesn't help me with anything, the only thing that makes this marriage exist yet are the feelings I have for him.

I don't think he has feelings for me anymore or for anybody else. in my humble opinion he has some kind of mental health problem, something that could be a kind of autism or just sociopathy (seriously).

 

 

How much drinking? If it is excessive - and if he "sleeps excessively at home due to alcoholism as might be defined by DSM-V" - it may be easier to build a picture of an abusive relationship; both for VAWA or a divorce judge.

Edited February 7, 2022 by lloy0076
(add why you'd want to do that)

[zacharynsw 2]

6 hours ago, lloy0076 said:

 

How much drinking? If it is excessive - and if he "sleeps excessively at home due to alcoholism as might be defined by DSM-V" - it may be easier to build a picture of an abusive relationship; both for VAWA or a divorce judge.

 

thanks for helping me guys, I told my story here quickly but I'll try to explain it better for you.

 

my husband was a sweetie until some time ago, he has never had friends before in his life, and he started a new job where he met several ( straight )guys who drank every day, and my husband got excited about those friendships and left the relationship in the background. he would never answer my calls.

 

I know it's going to sound like I was jealous of friendships, but that's not it.

 

he slept nights away from home. leave home for work at 4 am (he was the co-workers' driver) and get home 9-10 pm, drunk. every day. drunk, drunk, no calls, not text message. he would spend $ 700 ( im not joking, paying for drinks for his co-workers ) in 1 night, and then on the next day would ask me $300 to go out again.

 

On Saturday and Sundays would just disappear with co-workers and leave me alone at home and would show up only in the next morning.

I had Covid, I was really sick, and he did NOTHING. he did not even come home to help me.

 

I think he was in love with one of his ( straight ) co-workers. I saw a message he sent him when he was drunk

 

my life became hell. Over time he lost his car and started to depend on my car for work. but the damage was already done. he became angry with me for being complaining about his friendships.

the case of my husband is really psychiatric, he is sweet with other people, he does everything for them, but for me he does nothing.

 

Why did I stay with him? Look, I still love him, despite everything, and even though I knew I was the only one fighting for the relationship, I felt like things could get back to normal.

 

After the interview, he is not taking seriously that I was denied, and said that if it's best for me to leave, I'd better leave.

 

I'm really devastated (much more coz of my relationship)

 

I know the wisest thing would be for me to leave the house and send him into space, but if it was easy I would have done it years ago.

 

I don't know why they scheduled an interview for the ROC as the paperwork was very well prepared by me.

Well, I honestly still don't know what to do.

 

I hired a paralegal to help me with the paperwork, although I could do it myself but I preferred to have some help.

 

if my case is denied again, can i still re-apply multiple times until an immigration judge deports me? worst case scenario I would like to at least go to college here before have to go overseas

 

thank you guys

[lloy0076 6]

 

 

Whilst I'm only reading one side of the story, it would be difficult not to conclude that your husband's drinking behaviour was at least problematic. It sounds like it is out of control. Even without the alcohol problem, completely ignoring you when you can demonstrate no good reason why he would do so, sounds very callous and mean to me.

 

I don't know why they requested a ROC but they can do so for any reason I guess.

 

I'm sorry to hear your story.

Edited February 7, 2022 by lloy0076
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File with a divorce waiver sure.

[mindthegap 2,589]

2 hours ago, zacharynsw said:

if my case is denied again, can i still re-apply multiple times until an immigration judge deports me? 

Yes, you can.

There is no limit to how many times one may file an I-751, and they all must be approved before any court hearing can continue. Should court proceedings start, they will be stayed (paused) until adjudication of any outstanding ones. 

Long way off. Get a fresh one filed and put it out of your mind for a while. 

[Savva 222]

On 2/1/2022 at 9:08 PM, zacharynsw said:

I'm still shocked and after spending a few days killing myself in my thoughts, I decided to ask for help.

I also wanted to ask people not to judge my relationship because I already have too many people telling me I told you so

 

I've been married to a US citizen since 2017 and got my green card in 2018. The guy has been an (removed) to me for a long time now and I've put up with it all in silence. He had already committed all kinds of nonsense to me but I stayed there, fighting for something that didn't exist.

 

01 month ago we received the letter with the date of the interview for the second green card,

 

1 week before the interview, in an angry attack he told me that he would not go to the interview.

I was scared, but honestly I didn't think he really wasn't going. as much as he seems to hate me, I pay half of everything in this house and he doesn't have the money to pay for everything.

Well, he just didn't go to the interview (he stayed home sleeping) and obviously, my case was denied

 

I know it's ridiculous for me to post this, but we're still married on paper and living together.

 

After the interview I returned home, he was still sleeping and didn't ask me anything about the interview

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Well, I don't even have much to say about this relationship, Ive been doing therapy for almost 2 years trying to get out of this....if this can be called a relationship, but well, I really don't know what to do now.

 

I still haven't received any letter, but what about my Job? Do I have to quit my job? my understanding is that I lost my work rights

 

can i reapply?

 

If I reapply am I at risk of being deported at any time?

 

I really don't know what to do. I wanted to do a lot of research beforehand because it's hard to trust lawyers too much, especially when I don't have a lot of money

 

 

 

Thanks for your patience

I was in the same sex marriage, with same scenario that you have, if you can't fix your marriage, reapply on your own and start the divorce process as USCIS will give you 90 (maybe more due to covid) days to submit the divorce decree!