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[.yana 597]

1 hour ago, Allaboutwaiting said:

The OP never called her fiancé husband, why stating he's not her husband yet? She stated so herself.

I stand corrected as I misread OP’s post. FWIW the spelling is husband-to-be but my bad anyway

[millefleur 5,046]

42 minutes ago, Tutti said:

I asked, him and he told me it was about driving on ice.

That's a bit weird. I mean seeing as how you guys aren't even married yet, I don't know, sounds like he might have doubts or something. I assume he came over on a K-1 visa? Or did you meet him in the US and he was already here?

[Tutti 4]

Strange and unsettling for sure. Yes, he came on a K-1 visa. Perhaps it's time to call it off and let him return home or figure out how he's going to stay. I do not need someone in my life that thinks they are better or upset with American (women in particular). Go home, there are plenty of desperate and lonely women there; they are not all models like the character in this YouTube program thinks. Wipe off their makeup and they are the same as us.

[Caboose29 173]

13 hours ago, Tutti said:

I asked, him and he told me it was about driving on ice.

So are you implying he's being duplicitous about the video?  That's what it sounds like.  If so, there are bigger issues at hand.

[.yana 597]

7 hours ago, Tutti said:

Strange and unsettling for sure. Yes, he came on a K-1 visa. Perhaps it's time to call it off and let him return home or figure out how he's going to stay. I do not need someone in my life that thinks they are better or upset with American (women in particular). Go home, there are plenty of desperate and lonely women there; they are not all models like the character in this YouTube program thinks. Wipe off their makeup and they are the same as us.

How is your communication otherwise? How is your relationship?

 

Just because he watched one video - doesn't mean that he agrees with the content. For all we know he may have just been watching another video about driving on ice then this one was next on the playlist, and he didn't even know about it. Or he may have watched it and disagreed with all of it. You know him best, you need to judge him based on his character not just one video he watched. If he agrees with the guy from the video - I bet his actions would make it obvious. 

[Boiler 45,402]

I have an auto play enabled on You Tube and that can take you down some very interesting rabbit holes.

[millefleur 5,046]

9 hours ago, Tutti said:

Strange and unsettling for sure. Yes, he came on a K-1 visa. Perhaps it's time to call it off and let him return home or figure out how he's going to stay.

So, if he came here on a K-1, just some things to be aware of: he probably doesn't have any way to stay here unless you follow through with marriage and AOS. I assume he's aware of that? He can't just enter the US on a K-1, not marry and abandon the whole point of the visa, his visa will expire and then he will be considered here illegally. Whoever signed the I-864 sponsorship would still be technically responsible should he use any means tested benefits.

 

K-1 does not give him any rights to stay here on his own. It's basically a single entry, one time visa whose sole purpose is getting married in the US. If for some reason it doesn't work out and the marriage does not go through, he needs to leave and return home before the K-1 expires to avoid any issues with USCIS.

[TBoneTX 45,090]

9 hours ago, millefleur said:

he needs to leave and return home before the K-1 expires

Gentle clarification:  the K-1 was "dead on arrival at POE."  It's the 90-day stay ("marry or leave the U.S.") that would expire.   

Edited December 11, 2021 by TBoneTX

[Tutti 4]

On 12/10/2021 at 1:40 PM, Boiler said:

I have an auto play enabled on You Tube and that can take you down some very interesting rabbit holes.

What is auto play? Sometimes you need to head down the rabbit holes.

[Boiler 45,402]

Basically You Tube chooses the next videos you may want to watch and lines them up so if you have it on it just continues playing no need to hit the go button.

 

Now it uses what you have been watching I assume to determine what to put in the queue, so most of my stuff is Military History or Football, however should you click on a few things for example on here then it can send you off in a different direction.

[Tutti 4]

On 12/11/2021 at 8:18 PM, Boiler said:

Basically You Tube chooses the next videos you may want to watch and lines them up so if you have it on it just continues playing no need to hit the go button.

 

Now it uses what you have been watching I assume to determine what to put in the queue, so most of my stuff is Military History or Football, however should you click on a few things for example on here then it can send you off in a different direction.

Interesting, thanks for sharing that. I don't use youtube, but can see how algorhythms could make that possible.