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Critical situation!!! Spouse Wants to Leave. 1-751 please help me!

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Argentina
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5 minutes ago, Lemonslice said:

Unless they are in jail, it is possible.  Just something they are choosing not to do.  🤷‍♀️

 

OP said it has to do with a scholarship and an agreement between home country and host university 🤷‍♀️
I was the first that suggested to relocate and he said it’s not possible for the above reasons. Whether I buy them or not is a whole other story.

FROM F1 TO AOS

October 17, 2019 AOS receipt date 

December 09, 2019: Biometric appointment

January 15, 2020 RFE received

January 30, 2020  RFE response sent

Feb 7: EAD approved and interview scheduled

March 18, 2020 Interview cancelled

April 14th 2020: RFE received

April 29, 2020 Approved without interview

May 1, 2020 Card in hand

 

REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS

February 1, 2022 package sent

March 28, 2022 Fingerprints reused

July 18, 2023 approval

July 20, 2023 Card in hand

 

N400 

January 30,2023: Online filing

February 4th, 2023: Biometric appointment

June 15th, 2023: Case actively being reviewed

July 11th, 2023: Interview scheduled.

August 30th, 2023: Interview!

August 31st, 2023: Oath ceremony scheduled.

Sept 19th, 2023: Officially a US citizen!

 


 

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: India
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Im so sorry to hear about your situation,  but when there is to much distance between anything...it leaves an open space and the opportunity for the void to be filled. I pray that you and your wife can find the love you once shared.  Put your marriage 1st,  school will always be there. If you love her you need to prove it and she will stay.  Nothing is worth losing love. Focus on saving your marriage and the rest will fall into place.. Best wishes. 

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On 12/5/2021 at 8:53 PM, Lemonslice said:

Unless they are in jail, it is possible.  Just something they are choosing not to do.  🤷‍♀️

 

There's no issue with that if it's temporary.  The bigger issue is the fact that their relationship is going in the wrong direction.

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Vietnam
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Well, if you really want the green card then you need to get some good legal advise and legal representation to try convince USCIS your marriage is legit.  It sounds as though you won't be able to solve this problem on your own. Yeah it's going cost money but you should find a way to hire someone to help you and be your advocate. I think that's what you need right now  As they say, "If there's a way there's a will"

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K-1 Visa Interview:

POE :

SS Application Sent:

2017-10-17, Approved!:D

2017-12-6

2017-12-12

Married:                      2018-1-8

SS Card Received:     2018-1-16

SS Application Sent(Name Change):  2018-1-17

AOS Application Sent:   2018-2-8

SS Card Received (Name Change):     2018-2-12

 

AOS Application Delivered:      2018-2-13

AOS Application Accepted:     2018-2-22

AOS NOA1 Received:       2018-2-26

AOS/EAP Biometrics NOA Received:   2018-3-2

AOS/EAP Biometrics Appointment:  2018-3-12

Interview Scheduled:       2018-7-6  

EAP/AP Card Received:    2018-7-19

Original interview Date :2018-8-24  (USCIS Rescheduled due to Hurricane):cry:

Rescheduled Interview Date :2018-10-2, Approved!!  :D

GC Received :             2018-10-18 :thumbs:

SS Card Update :         2018-10-19

SS Card Received:      2018-10-26

ROC

ROC Application Sent via FedEx:  2020-7-2

ROC Application Received :2020-7-6

Rec'ed Text, Case # Assigned : 2020-7-11

Check Cashed: 2020-7-13

NOA Received: 2020-7-22

Case Transferred : 2021-11-10

Biometrics Applied:. 2021-5-12😄

 ROC Interview passed: : 2021-7-4🥳

N-400

 Eligible to file for US Citizenship : 2021-7-4🥳

 N-400 filed online : 2021-12-1🥳

Biometrics reused

Passed Interview  : 2022-4-27🥳

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12 hours ago, chancecody said:

I am very surprised about the mocking of experienced people in this thread. There are many good advice already said but we could do without the mocking from everyone because the OP is clearly distraught. The OP mentioned that this arrangement was disclosed in the AOS interview so the marriage is bonafide . I can’t imagine seeing my spouse once every 3-4 months but each of our situation is different. Just because it is different from our norm does not give us the right to mock others. Sure, he may have contributed to the problems with his marriage but no need to mock his spelling mistakes or making accusations about someone’s sexuality. I am referring at all the “laughing emojis” and insensitive jokes at the expense of the person who is clearly having marital problems. He did not post here to be judged or to be made fun of. He asked advice on next steps….with good advice from some people.

 

VJ community was created to help one another. Kudos to the people who truly gave good advice without the mocking. 

Great post.  A lot of people suggesting that the couple living separately is a death knell.  It's not - such cases are quite common, and it's not a big deal as long as OP explains the situation in a letter.  I saw some people even telling him his wife should come first before college and whatnot - honestly not sure how it's anyone's business.  What matters is if it relationship is bonafide, not how they run every matter of their relationship.

 

IMO the only problem OP has is if he gets an interview, the spouse may withdraw from being a sponsor.

 

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Wales
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For the sake of the record the OP said this: She told me we can be like friends or i can find “ boyfriend or so”

 

Now that does not sound like a valid relationship for removing conditions.

 

She is still on the hook for the I 864 btw. She can not withdraw it.

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“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Argentina
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3 minutes ago, Moe428 said:

A lot of people suggesting that the couple living separately is a death knell.  It's not - such cases are quite common, and it's not a big deal as long as OP explains the situation in a letter.  I saw some people even telling him his wife should come first before college and whatnot - honestly not sure how it's anyone's business.  What matters is if it relationship is bonafide, not how they run every matter of their relationship.

Have you even read the original post? OP is worried because he doesn't know how a possible separation/ divorce might affect ROC. It's not just about the living arrangement.

FROM F1 TO AOS

October 17, 2019 AOS receipt date 

December 09, 2019: Biometric appointment

January 15, 2020 RFE received

January 30, 2020  RFE response sent

Feb 7: EAD approved and interview scheduled

March 18, 2020 Interview cancelled

April 14th 2020: RFE received

April 29, 2020 Approved without interview

May 1, 2020 Card in hand

 

REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS

February 1, 2022 package sent

March 28, 2022 Fingerprints reused

July 18, 2023 approval

July 20, 2023 Card in hand

 

N400 

January 30,2023: Online filing

February 4th, 2023: Biometric appointment

June 15th, 2023: Case actively being reviewed

July 11th, 2023: Interview scheduled.

August 30th, 2023: Interview!

August 31st, 2023: Oath ceremony scheduled.

Sept 19th, 2023: Officially a US citizen!

 


 

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Taiwan
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7 minutes ago, Moe428 said:

Great post.  A lot of people suggesting that the couple living separately is a death knell.  It's not - such cases are quite common, and it's not a big deal as long as OP explains the situation in a letter.  I saw some people even telling him his wife should come first before college and whatnot - honestly not sure how it's anyone's business.  What matters is if it relationship is bonafide, not how they run every matter of their relationship.

 

IMO the only problem OP has is if he gets an interview, the spouse may withdraw from being a sponsor.

 

So, visiting a couple days every 3 to 4 months is a bona fide relationship?  Add to that the spouse's "friends" comments.  Actually, "how they run their relationship" is important to USCIS, else there would be no I-751 in existence....

 

For the record, I think the I-751 should be eliminated completely. 

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2 minutes ago, ra0010 said:

Have you even read the original post? OP is worried because he doesn't know how a possible separation/ divorce might affect ROC. It's not just about the living arrangement.

Yes, I mentioned that in the part of my post that you conveniently didn't quote, and also in my previous posts.

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Wales
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1 minute ago, Moe428 said:

Yes, I mentioned that in the part of my post that you conveniently didn't quote.

Yet you consider this a bonafide relation?

 

 

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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2 minutes ago, Crazy Cat said:

So, visiting a couple days every 3 to 4 months is a bona fide relationship?  Add to that the spouse's "friends" comments.  Actually, "how they run their relationship" is important to USCIS, else there would be no I-751 in existence....

 

For the record, I think the I-751 should be eliminated completely. 

No, USCIS isn't trying to micromanage anyone's relationship.  They care if the relationship is bonafide.  A 1000 couple may have 1000 different arrangements. Just run a Google search on couples living separately and filing AoS or I-751.  It's extremely common.

 

I agree about the bolded part. That's the part that's problematic I think.

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2 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Yet you consider this a bonafide relation?

 

 

I think you are taking my comments out of context.  I am saying living separately isn't a big deal, but that OP might run into problems because the spouse may want to separate.  More emphasis on the former because a lot of people on this thread have made a big deal of it.

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Wales
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1 minute ago, Moe428 said:

I think you are taking my comments out of context.  I am saying living separately isn't a big deal, but that OP might run into problems because the spouse may want to separate.  More emphasis on the former because a lot of people on this thread have made a big deal of it.

People are responding to this situation, not some theoretical other.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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