Confused with my status

[inalem 0]

Hi, I been here in the US for 8 months now and out of status, my husband and I has a rocky marriage because we keep arguing about things, We only filed my papers last May 24 and I received my biometrics appointment 3 weeks prior to the date. Today supposed to be my biometrics but my husband said he couldn't take me there becoz he can't leave work. But a week before my schedule he said that it will be his parents that will take me to the place since he can't. And then, 2 days before he took me with him at work just to know that he can't take me to my biometrics. I am becoming suspicious that he really wants to hold my papers becoz he keeps pending them. He is a welder and when he don't feel like working, he will not just go to work for a reason of being lazy. I don't know what to do anymore, I want my papers soon so I can get a job and do somethin besides being left alone at the house and doin nothing. I was able to work for a couple of months without papers coz I was forced to do so because we keep on fightin and he don't give me any money whenever he leaves out of town for work. I quit becoz I was afraid with my status of not having my papers at hand and my coworker keeps spreading rumors that I am messing around which is not true. He gets mad at me if I go somewhere without his knowledge, he keeps accusing me talking to guys online. Sometimes when we argue, he will say he don't really care what I do but he always question me whom I am talkin on the phone or chatting online. What do you think I can do to hurry up my papers? I just want my papers so I can help him financially and my family overseas. I feel like everyday my life is being waisted doin nothin and waiting for nothin. I am so confused. Pls give me any advice.

[Lona.C. 16]

Sorry to hear your marriage is not as expected , if I was in your shoes I would ask my self do I realy want to live like this ,if so , isnt it time for some marriage consuling dont I deserve to be treatded like a wife ? if so you could remind your spouse he signd the papper to suport in every way when he signd the marriage certificate hope things will work out for you good luck ,,,, Lona