CR1 VISA SPOUSE TRICKED ME AND WANT ONLY TO GET THE GREEN CARD

[Queentheone2021 2]

10 hours ago, SteveInBostonI130 said:

Hello,

 

This is unfortunate.  Thankfully you discovered this now and not after your spouse immigrated.

 

Just be sure that your intuition/feeling are correct and not a temporary reaction to your spouse not contacting you.  That does sound very suspicious, but we have had posters here who withdrew petitions after a fight and regretted it a couple months later.  It seems your case took about a year and a half to process.  If the two of you get back together, then you will basically have to start all over with the process after the embassy denies this visa.

 

It looks like you did what's needed to withdraw you petition.  It is up to the embassy now to review the case. 

Thank you and no I will never regret this ever ....

[Queentheone2021 2]

13 hours ago, TBoneTX said:

Agreed that he's saving you a lot of time and heartache.

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Yes That's right. and I apologize I was typing fast and my keypad was acting up. Thank you

[Mr Genuis 91]

On 10/20/2021 at 7:03 PM, arken said:

If the embassy already mailed you back, just wait. It's not like they will jump to his file and return his passport without the visa. Whoever got your message, they will put your email/withdrawal notice in his file. Whenever the CO reviews his file (could be today, next week or next month), will see your withdrawal intent and will not issue the visa.

 

Having said that, i hope you are making the correct steps and not responding as an outburst that you may regret.

 

May be it's the right step if you truly believe he was planning to just use you. I'd say follow up to the embassy's email again. Not sure how you put your withdrawal intent, i'd write a withdrawal letter with info of both person's, case ID, sign and date, scan it and attach while following up to the embassy's email just to make it more formal withdrawal.

 

On 10/20/2021 at 6:42 PM, Queentheone2021 said:

Hi everyone I hope anyone can advice me or share any information would be so helpful , and much appreciated. 

I am the wife/ petitioner who live in the united statesThe spouse live overseas - Saudi Arabia we had our wedding cermoney on November 29th 2019 so menaning we are legally married and have an official marriage certificate, I only met him twice one month after the cermoney I came back to united states where I live and around march 2020 I decided to apply for his petition and we got our approval long story short he had his intrvew at riyadh embassy September the 7th 2021 and everything was completed and ok however he was missing one document so they gave him refusal notice under section 221g  so good thing his case is still on refusal and the status show its refused but I am not sure it might still be on AP and he didn't tell me anything or update that he gave them the missing document, so there is a chance he might sent the document and the case only going under administrative process and after he get the approval for visa.   My spouse tricked me and he is using me to enter the United States and to get a green card. I truly believed we were in real marriage  we only been married for less than 2 years and now after long distance relationship I recently found out  he been lying to me and this isn’t  a healthy and authentic relationship.He disappeared right after he attended the interview there is no communication between me and him until today he is not answering his phones or emails or anything. I reported this to both the Riyadh embassy in Saudi Arabia and NVC I SENT A REQUEST TO WITHDRAW MY PETITION AS SOON AS POSSIBLE TO BOTH EMBASSY AND NVC SIGNED UNDER MY NAME AND ALL THE REASONS FOR THIS REQUEST HOWEVER THE NVC ADVISED ME THE CAN HELP WITH THIS AND THE EMBASSY IS THE ONE CAN ASSIST ME THE EMBASSY EMAILED ME BACK AND TOLD ME THEY PUT A NOTE ON MY FILE SINCE THERE IS NO VISA ISSUED FOR HIM YET BUT THE CASE WILL SATY PENDING AND IT IS NOT WITHDRAW UNTIL NVC OFFICIAL CONTACT THEM. I ALSO REQUESTED THE EMBASSY TO RETURN HIS PASSPORT BEFORE ANY VISA APPROVAL AND THEY TOLD ME THTA THEY WILL SEND IT BACK TO HIM UPON MY REQUEST BUT WHEN I CHECKE THE STATUS OF HIS PASSPORT ONLINE IT SAYS THAT IT IS STILL WITH THE US EMBASSY. NOT SURE IF IT IS UPDATED BUT I AM VERY AFRAID THAT HE GET THE VISA APPROVAL AND COME TO THE STATES TO GET THE GREEN CARD I REALLY WANT TO AVOID ANY PROBLEMS AND STOP THIS PETITION PROGRESS BEFORE HE ENTER THE STATES AND THINGS GET MORE COMPLICATED. I TRIED TO CALL THE RIYADH EMBASSY AND THEY SAID THEY ONLY CAN BE CONTACTED BY EMAIL AND THEY WILL ANSWER THERE HOWEVER THEY DIDN'T GET BACK TO ME WITH ANY UPDATE FOR MY CASE.  THANKS FOR TAKING YOUR TIME TO READ ALL THIS AND THANK YOU IN ADVANCE    

He has not responded to you and yet he has not submitted the document to the embassy, don't you think something terrible could may have happened to him? Him not responding to you..,have you investigated why? Contact his family? Go to check on him? Why do you think so early he has an intend just to get the green card?  Most people who want to get just green card will not act like that. They will stay humble and lovely until they get into U.S.A. Then they go away. Did you do the right thing by withdrawing? May be. Could it be he was caught  up by unforseen circumstances and that's why has not reach out to you? May be. They only way is to fine out what is happening to him? Have you had quarrel with him before? Has he show. Any sign of fake? Only you know the Answer. Most people do this an regrate after. However you have done your part by reporting it to the nvc and the embassy. So it has been included in his file the is no way he can passed the interview and get the visa after you reported him. It is not posable. 

[Queentheone2021 2]

No It's not like that  , too bad I called him from different number and he answered me also I found out he blocked my number  so yeah I am glad I did report him before visa issued .

[Queentheone2021 2]

8 minutes ago, Mr Genuis said:

 

He has not responded to you and yet he has not submitted the document to the embassy, don't you think something terrible could may have happened to him? Him not responding to you..,have you investigated why? Contact his family? Go to check on him? Why do you think so early he has an intend just to get the green card?  Most people who want to get just green card will not act like that. They will stay humble and lovely until they get into U.S.A. Then they go away. Did you do the right thing by withdrawing? May be. Could it be he was caught  up by unforseen circumstances and that's why has not reach out to you? May be. They only way is to fine out what is happening to him? Have you had quarrel with him before? Has he show. Any sign of fake? Only you know the Answer. Most people do this an regrate after. However you have done your part by reporting it to the nvc and the embassy. So it has been included in his file the is no way he can passed the interview and get the visa after you reported him. It is not posable. 

And I will never ever regret doing this trust me 🙂 not me 

[Queentheone2021 2]

10 minutes ago, Mr Genuis said:

 

He has not responded to you and yet he has not submitted the document to the embassy, don't you think something terrible could may have happened to him? Him not responding to you..,have you investigated why? Contact his family? Go to check on him? Why do you think so early he has an intend just to get the green card?  Most people who want to get just green card will not act like that. They will stay humble and lovely until they get into U.S.A. Then they go away. Did you do the right thing by withdrawing? May be. Could it be he was caught  up by unforseen circumstances and that's why has not reach out to you? May be. They only way is to fine out what is happening to him? Have you had quarrel with him before? Has he show. Any sign of fake? Only you know the Answer. Most people do this an regrate after. However you have done your part by reporting it to the nvc and the embassy. So it has been included in his file the is no way he can passed the interview and get the visa after you reported him. It is not posable. 

And why would I regret doing this to somone was fake and liar never ever.:)