My boyfriend is planning to overstay in the US

[Alisa00 0]

Hey Guys,

I was wondering if anyone here can advise me on what to do. My boyfriend travelled to the US on a tourist Visa and was supoose to travel back home(Guyana) on 3rd October but the night he was supoose to leave,he messaged and say he is not coming back. I am 5 months pregnant and he choose to just leave me and his unborn son. I need him back here to help out. I do not want my baby to grow up without a dad and I am just 21 years old. When i spoke to him about it, he said he is working and has a better life there. Please guys I really really really need your help. 

 

[aaron2020 11,651]

Sorry that you are in a tough situation.

 

Unfortunately, there is very little you can do. 

 

There isn't an immigration question here.  There's nothing you can do to bring him to the US.

 

You can sue for paternity when your son is born, but you will be giving him parental rights.  

[Crazy Cat 41,850]

23 minutes ago, Alisa00 said:

When i spoke to him about it, he said he is working and has a better life there.

Living and working illegally in the US?  

[Alisa00 0]

@Crazy Cat, 

Yes he is planning to overstay and work illegal in the US

 

[JeanneAdil 6,505]

12 minutes ago, aaron2020 said:

Sorry that you are in a tough situation.

 

Unfortunately, there is very little you can do. 

 

There isn't an immigration question here.  There's nothing you can do to bring him to the US.

 

You can sue for paternity when your son is born, but you will be giving him parental rights.  

He is in US and is working and plans to  stay / tourist visa /she wants him back to Guyana to support the child

 

[carmel34 3,626]

Get a good family law attorney and ask if your boyfriend is expected to pay child support, and if so, what actions are available to you.  He may find it difficult in the US and go back to Guyana eventually, or be deported, and when he does he may be liable for paying you.  An attorney may be able to convince your boyfriend to send money to you.  So sorry this has happened, good luck!

[Daphne . 1,861]

As mentioned before, there really isn't an Immigration question here so people will not be able to help you... 

[Boiler 45,499]

I think this is an immigration question, she wants to know how to get him deported.

[Adventine 3,196]

Sorry to say but I think you are better off without a boyfriend who doesn't want to face his responsibilities as a father.

[Allaboutwaiting 2,503]

8 minutes ago, Boiler said:

I think this is an immigration question, she wants to know how to get him deported.

Which wouldn't make him go back to her and help.

[Boiler 45,499]

3 minutes ago, Allaboutwaiting said:

Which wouldn't make him go back to her and help.

Sounds like she thinks it would, I have no idea if that reflects reality.

[Crazy Cat 41,850]

2 hours ago, Alisa00 said:

I was wondering if anyone here can advise me on what to do

I'll ask.  Exactly what kind of advice are you seeking?

Edited October 7, 2021 by Crazy Cat

[Rocio0010 5,579]

Hi OP, so sorry you’re in this situation! This is an immigration forum and he chose to follow this path. There is little advice we can give you. I guess if it gives you peace of mind, you can get in touch with USCIS and tell them about the situation. I’m not sure you can do more than that. 
Side question: are you sure you want this type of guy around your baby?

[SusieQQQ 11,586]

33 minutes ago, Adventine said:

Sorry to say but I think you are better off without a boyfriend who doesn't want to face his responsibilities as a father.

As Carmel points out he hopefully can be held at least to the financial responsibilities. 

[Boiler 45,499]

Wonder if Guyana is strong on that and there is the proving paternity issue and his in in the US.