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K1 Horrible Ending!! Fiance arrived with kid but turns out she is already married!

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I was so very excited to start this process. I was feeling like a would have a family that truly loved me. I fought for 1 and half years to bring this women and her child to the US. I sent money every

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You can send her home, since she lied  on her k1 visa  application that both of you not married at the time of filling.i think its a felony .she could be barred  for rest of her life for applying  🇺🇸

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Oh, I am lucky.  My better half is a treasure.   Presumptuous is an odd word for you to use. I just gave an example of what worked for me.  It actually is presumptuous for you to comment on

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32 minutes ago, Lutherbass3 said:

Never…I repeat…NEVER bring someone with a kid to the US!!! If you want a ready made family, you can get that ####### here!!! 

That seems rather harsh.  

 

Brought my wife and her 17 year old here more than 15 years ago.  We are still a happy, close family.  I have a great relationship with her daughter, and now the daughters husband and her two children.

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On 9/30/2021 at 11:41 PM, DeleteAccount said:

So just a quick update and thank you so much for some tough love and kindness. Some times you need that after something like this. The scary thing is that I did marry her, she insisted when she got to the US. I loved her so I agreed to it. Besides I was told the daughter had no father and I wanted to do the right thing and adopt her so she could feel secure and have a good dad. I have since communicated with her biological father and he is wonderful. I found a true friend with him. So the truth is she has a wonderful Ukrainian father who does care for her! We are in good communication, I want to make sure that the daughter is safe. I have broke all ties with the wife and she signed for the documents (she has been served) for voided annulment. This means that we were never married because she was already married. I did some digging and found everything needed to prove she is still married. So every thing is now looking up for me. I would be curious on how to report something like this so this doesn't happen to someone else. She did commit fraud for lying on the application by saying she was free to marry. Any feed back on how to get this to the right authorities would be helpful, maybe even to others. One last thing, please say a prayer for the wife and the daughter. People don't just act this way, something bad must have happened to make her this way and even the worst of people have some glimmer of light in them. That is maybe what I saw in her, a little glimmer of light.

What were the warning signs you mentioned?

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What were the warning signs you mentioned?

The signs I ignored were, she was very short with me about anything to do with her past. I never got to meet any of her friends, she would say that they were all jealous. I was not able to post any pictures of our Ukraine trip when we were together or mention our relationship. Come to find out it was because her husband from Norway has a social media presents. She was very mean to me about just about everything, I chalked it up to where she lived and that maybe she was just nervous and under a lot of stress. When she got to the US she was absolutely awful!!! Come to find out she was trying to cause problems for me and get the green card with out me!!! I am not sure I will ever be able to do this again, I really tried to be the best guy that I could be. I was willing to adopt her child and I paid for everything. She never offered to help or ever paid for anything. Looking back now I think I was just lonely and fooled myself and made excuses for her. I would just say I got gut feelings on a lot of this and I should have listen to my intuition. Go with your gut, it usually is the truth!

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Our journey:

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September 2007: Met online via social networking site (MySpace); began exchanging messages.
March 26, 2009: We become a couple!
September 10, 2009: Arrived for first meeting in-person!
June 17, 2010: Arrived for second in-person meeting and start of travel together to other areas of China!
June 21, 2010: Engaged!!!
September 1, 2010: Switched course from K1 to CR-1
December 8, 2010: Wedding date set; it will be on February 18, 2011!
February 9, 2011: Depart for China
February 11, 2011: Registered for marriage in Wuhan, officially married!!!
February 18, 2011: Wedding ceremony in Shiyan!!!
April 22, 2011: Mailed I-130 to Chicago
April 28, 2011: Received NOA1 via text/email, file routed to CSC (priority date April 25th)
April 29, 2011: Updated
May 3, 2011: Received NOA1 hardcopy in mail
July 26, 2011: Received NOA2 via text/email!!!
July 30, 2011: Received NOA2 hardcopy in mail
August 8, 2011: NVC received file
September 1, 2011: NVC case number assigned
September 2, 2011: AOS invoice received, OPTIN email for EP sent
September 7, 2011: Paid AOS bill (payment portal showed PAID on September 9, 2011)
September 8, 2011: OPTIN email accepted, GZO number assigned
September 10, 2011: Emailed AOS package
September 12, 2011: IV bill invoiced
September 13, 2011: Paid IV bill (payment portal showed PAID on September 14, 2011)
September 14, 2011: Emailed IV package
October 3, 2011: Emailed checklist response (checklist generated due to typo on Form DS-230)
October 6, 2011: Case complete at NVC
November 10, 2011: Interview - APPROVED!!!
December 7, 2011: POE - Sea-Tac Airport

September 17, 2013: Mailed I-751 to CSC

September 23, 2013: Received NOA1 in mail (receipt date September 19th)

October 16, 2013: Biometrics Appointment

January 28, 2014: Production of new Green Card ordered

February 3, 2014: New Green Card received; done with USCIS until fall of 2023*

December 18, 2023:  Filed I-90 to renew Green Card

December 21, 2023:  Production of new Green Card ordered - will be seeing USCIS again every 10 years for renewal

 

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