Removing conditions package - am I paranoid about too little evidence?

[dentsflogged 352]

Hubby and I have been married 3 years in December.

 

I'll admit I kinda dropped the ball in terms of evidence so this is what we have to send in:

 

• Joint insurance cards for cars
• Joint health insurance (me on his); insurance statements showing both of us using it as well as statements from the HSA showing me using it (husband has had a great run of health the last year or so while I've had complications post-covid)
• Joint bank account - it's in both our names; he is the only one who deposits into it as I've been using my primarily cash income (bartender) towards projects on the house we are purchasing (I've been doing this for a year - we are buying his childhood home from a family member so we have been working on it/living in it rent-free but don't own it yet)
• Title company documents showing our intent to purchase the house and an in-progress mortgage application.
• Receipts and in-progress photos of the work we have had done on the house; cheques written by me to pay for it. 
• IRS returns/stimulus notices.
• Travel plans that are coming up (October & November)
• Copies of documents where he's named as the beneficiary for my work-provided life insurance
• Various bills and statements in both of our names
• Documents about the adoption of our dog; ongoing vet-care for him, photos of us with him
• Various photos - new house progress

 

I was going to send in copies of drivers licences to show the same address on those, but I noticed there's an error on mine which I never saw before (the wrong person's signature) and the earliest appointment I can get to go in and have that fixed is in another 10 days plus then delivery time for the new card will be at least a week (it took 9 days last time) and I want to get this in ASAP. 

 

Does this look like it should be OK?   Covid really shot a lot of our plans for travel and even for having a proper 'wedding' which we'd talked about doing for our 2 year anniversary so I feel like compared to some we don't really have enough to show our lives as fully as we should. 

 

 

[Letspaintcookies 2,310]

Sounds plenty to me. Seriously I don't see why you should be worried and all the things you have hold more value than any travel pictures and hotel receipts.

[LirikVJUser 28]

44 minutes ago, dentsflogged said:

Hubby and I have been married 3 years in December.

 

I'll admit I kinda dropped the ball in terms of evidence so this is what we have to send in:

 

• Joint insurance cards for cars
• Joint health insurance (me on his); insurance statements showing both of us using it as well as statements from the HSA showing me using it (husband has had a great run of health the last year or so while I've had complications post-covid)
• Joint bank account - it's in both our names; he is the only one who deposits into it as I've been using my primarily cash income (bartender) towards projects on the house we are purchasing (I've been doing this for a year - we are buying his childhood home from a family member so we have been working on it/living in it rent-free but don't own it yet)
• Title company documents showing our intent to purchase the house and an in-progress mortgage application.
• Receipts and in-progress photos of the work we have had done on the house; cheques written by me to pay for it. 
• IRS returns/stimulus notices.
• Travel plans that are coming up (October & November)
• Copies of documents where he's named as the beneficiary for my work-provided life insurance
• Various bills and statements in both of our names
• Documents about the adoption of our dog; ongoing vet-care for him, photos of us with him
• Various photos - new house progress

 

I was going to send in copies of drivers licences to show the same address on those, but I noticed there's an error on mine which I never saw before (the wrong person's signature) and the earliest appointment I can get to go in and have that fixed is in another 10 days plus then delivery time for the new card will be at least a week (it took 9 days last time) and I want to get this in ASAP. 

 

Does this look like it should be OK?   Covid really shot a lot of our plans for travel and even for having a proper 'wedding' which we'd talked about doing for our 2 year anniversary so I feel like compared to some we don't really have enough to show our lives as fully as we should. 

 

 

Driver licenses with the same address are a very strong evidence along with irs tax returns, joint bank statements and apartment leases/house mortgages 

 

Do you have joint credit card statement?

[Allaboutwaiting 2,503]

You could add 401k beneficiary information, mail addressed to both -as proof of shared residence-, affidavits from friends or relatives, shared credit cards.

[SalishSea 17,829]

6 minutes ago, Allaboutwaiting said:

affidavits from friends or relatives,

This is not considered good evidence.  OP has plenty of much higher quality evidence.

[SoCal2021 201]

1 hour ago, dentsflogged said:

Hubby and I have been married 3 years in December.

 

I'll admit I kinda dropped the ball in terms of evidence so this is what we have to send in:

 

• Joint insurance cards for cars
• Joint health insurance (me on his); insurance statements showing both of us using it as well as statements from the HSA showing me using it (husband has had a great run of health the last year or so while I've had complications post-covid)
• Joint bank account - it's in both our names; he is the only one who deposits into it as I've been using my primarily cash income (bartender) towards projects on the house we are purchasing (I've been doing this for a year - we are buying his childhood home from a family member so we have been working on it/living in it rent-free but don't own it yet)
• Title company documents showing our intent to purchase the house and an in-progress mortgage application.
• Receipts and in-progress photos of the work we have had done on the house; cheques written by me to pay for it. 
• IRS returns/stimulus notices.
• Travel plans that are coming up (October & November)
• Copies of documents where he's named as the beneficiary for my work-provided life insurance
• Various bills and statements in both of our names
• Documents about the adoption of our dog; ongoing vet-care for him, photos of us with him
• Various photos - new house progress

 

I was going to send in copies of drivers licences to show the same address on those, but I noticed there's an error on mine which I never saw before (the wrong person's signature) and the earliest appointment I can get to go in and have that fixed is in another 10 days plus then delivery time for the new card will be at least a week (it took 9 days last time) and I want to get this in ASAP. 

 

Does this look like it should be OK?   Covid really shot a lot of our plans for travel and even for having a proper 'wedding' which we'd talked about doing for our 2 year anniversary so I feel like compared to some we don't really have enough to show our lives as fully as we should. 

 

 

You have plenty of good evidences. Copies of Driver licenses are good additional strong evidences.  My suggestion is to include what you have (showing both of you live at same address) with a brief description that you just become aware of the issue with signature and that you are going to DMV to fix it but you will not have enough time to get it back in time.  

 

Also, consider sending the following if you have them:

• Bank Safe Deposit box lease agreement (if any)
• Copy of any Wills or Advance Health Directives (if any)
• Joint credit card statements 
• Apt contents insurance (rental policy) statement (if any)
• Screenshots of Amazon Prime/Costco/AAA membership and USPS Informed delivery (if any)

Most of all relax...we all lived thru COVID and hence very limited travels.

[Rocio0010 5,579]

- tax returns

-retirement accounts 

- bills

- home insurance 

- joint bank statements 

[Joyoussinger 1,425]

I think your evidence looks good. You mention a joint bank account, and I would just add that you should send statements (every page) that cover the entire time you've been married.  I'm sending one statement for each quarter.

[hendo25 11]

21 hours ago, dentsflogged said:

Hubby and I have been married 3 years in December.

 

I'll admit I kinda dropped the ball in terms of evidence so this is what we have to send in:

 

• Joint insurance cards for cars
• Joint health insurance (me on his); insurance statements showing both of us using it as well as statements from the HSA showing me using it (husband has had a great run of health the last year or so while I've had complications post-covid)
• Joint bank account - it's in both our names; he is the only one who deposits into it as I've been using my primarily cash income (bartender) towards projects on the house we are purchasing (I've been doing this for a year - we are buying his childhood home from a family member so we have been working on it/living in it rent-free but don't own it yet)
• Title company documents showing our intent to purchase the house and an in-progress mortgage application.
• Receipts and in-progress photos of the work we have had done on the house; cheques written by me to pay for it. 
• IRS returns/stimulus notices.
• Travel plans that are coming up (October & November)
• Copies of documents where he's named as the beneficiary for my work-provided life insurance
• Various bills and statements in both of our names
• Documents about the adoption of our dog; ongoing vet-care for him, photos of us with him
• Various photos - new house progress

 

I was going to send in copies of drivers licences to show the same address on those, but I noticed there's an error on mine which I never saw before (the wrong person's signature) and the earliest appointment I can get to go in and have that fixed is in another 10 days plus then delivery time for the new card will be at least a week (it took 9 days last time) and I want to get this in ASAP. 

 

Does this look like it should be OK?   Covid really shot a lot of our plans for travel and even for having a proper 'wedding' which we'd talked about doing for our 2 year anniversary so I feel like compared to some we don't really have enough to show our lives as fully as we should. 

 

 

Covid killed our travel plans as well...I noted that in our Cover Letter.

[ms_bobdog 501]

Plenty of good evidence. I wouldn't worry.