K3 interviews in Amman,Jordan.. plz share

[In Gods Hands 0]

Hello everyone

Ok.. so I'm asking early..but thats just the way I am.. Knowledge is powerful.

Looking for experiences, insights, words of wisdom, highlights, forewarnings etc. of K-3 interviews in Amman? Petitioners or Beneficiaries, please share.

I'd also like to know how long, before interview, would my husband be able to get medical and police paperwork done? I read that some require medical done same day. We'd like to have all ready and not have to add more wait times once NVC sends I-129F to Embassy. We do have agency working with us.. but so far, it seems that I've been getting more info from my own research and VJ. Had to email lawyer re: new fee increase & direct filing (eff. July 30,2007), and updated version of I-129F..(had to redo it last minute before sending). Lawyer told me once I get I-129F case # to send it to her and she will work with my husband to get him ready. Hmmm... I guess I've learned to look into and do my best to stay on top of things, even if we hired someone.

Oh.. contact info in paperwork.. My husbands phone#, Agency's address (in place of beneficiary address), My address and phone #. I hope no problems with this.

Alhumdullilah!!! Praise and thanks to God!!

Gwen Ahmad

Forever

[dollface41601 0]

My husand and i are a little different, we did DCF....So we had to interview to submit the i-130 and then interview 7 months later for the visa....the first interview we were drilled for hours on our marriage and the consul stated to me prvately that she felt i was getting paid for the marriage and she was sure it was fraud and sofyan would never get the visa and blaa blaa blaa...the 2nd interview we walked right up to the same lady, we were both scared sh*tless, she laughed and said, oh kelly,,,your still here, you mean to tell me all these 9 months u never left jordan? i laughed back and told her, "i told u i wouldnt leave without my husband." she asked sofyan who sponsored him, he stated my that I (his wife) and my dad did, and she said ok, raise your right hand, swear in, blaa blaa blaa, welcome to the US....SO, we had very different experiences...one pleasant, one not so much....my best advice....NEVER let the consul see your nervous...once i started to get scared from all the drilling, she made it that much worse...know how to answer any question they may ask....good luck

[irahaymeh 0]

We were scheduled for a K3 interview on April 18, 2007. We were informed of this date by email in September, 2006 as I set up to get notices through email from USCIS. The packet was sent from the Amman embassy with all the needed documents, i.e., medical, police certificate, etc. In December, we received another email that our I130 had been approved and we received the packet with documents for that interview as well. So, on April 18th, my husband went for his interview and interviewed under the I130 rather than the K3. He arrived here on May 17; received his social security card 3 weeks later, and he received his green card last week. We hired an attorney here in Atlanta, however, like you, I continued to research, prepare and expedite the process myself. And of course, I always received valuable input and and guidance through experienced VJ members. Hope this helps.

Irene

[AInfante-Saraireh 0]

They want to see proof that this is a valid marriage. 1. photos 2. copy of plane tickets 3. communication 4. you can support him financially.

[a1angied 0]

For the medical you need the case number. I had all the paperwork and my husband had his madical done with the case number only. I didn't have an attorney I jsut had the guidance of fellow VJ'ers and seemed to get through it without any problems.

[In Gods Hands 0]

For the medical you need the case number. I had all the paperwork and my husband had his madical done with the case number only. I didn't have an attorney I jsut had the guidance of fellow VJ'ers and seemed to get through it without any problems.

How long before K-3 interview did he get medical done? Did he get his police clearance at the same time? I just want us to do all that we can to alleviate any extra delays.

[a1angied 0]

As soon as I told him that we got the list of things to get he went and got the Police certificate and the medical was done 2 weeks before. We got a call saying that our interview was moved from Aug to March and they called him 2 weeks before so we rushed and got everything done. the only thing that was not right was the notarized paper that the bank attached the stamo and that was not accepted, so had to have it redone and fedex back. Trust me it is not cheap trying to get something to Jordan in a couple of days.

[unique love 0]

Hello everyone

Ok.. so I'm asking early..but thats just the way I am.. Knowledge is powerful.

Looking for experiences, insights, words of wisdom, highlights, forewarnings etc. of K-3 interviews in Amman? Petitioners or Beneficiaries, please share.

I'd also like to know how long, before interview, would my husband be able to get medical and police paperwork done? I read that some require medical done same day. We'd like to have all ready and not have to add more wait times once NVC sends I-129F to Embassy. We do have agency working with us.. but so far, it seems that I've been getting more info from my own research and VJ. Had to email lawyer re: new fee increase & direct filing (eff. July 30,2007), and updated version of I-129F..(had to redo it last minute before sending). Lawyer told me once I get I-129F case # to send it to her and she will work with my husband to get him ready. Hmmm... I guess I've learned to look into and do my best to stay on top of things, even if we hired someone.

Oh.. contact info in paperwork.. My husbands phone#, Agency's address (in place of beneficiary address), My address and phone #. I hope no problems with this.

Alhumdullilah!!! Praise and thanks to God!!

Gwen Ahmad

Forever

BE Careful your are in dngerous

I feel your pain, But please don't waste a year like I did. This is my story,

I also was with a man from jordan I am muslim smart attractive funny. I loved him and thought he loved me. I waited for him for almost five years during that time I sent him money took care of his family when he came ect...

You name it I did it. I look Arab I speak Arabic and I cook Arabic I took on the role of being the perfect Arab wife.

I been around the culture my whole life trust me when I tell you this I did nothing wrong.

I went to see him every year his family loved me everyone treated me with respect and kindness inviting me for dinner going shopping with me ect...

We I thought where in love. He alwasy told me how much he loved me and I was his everything.

Behind my back last year I found out he got engaged to another women in his country!

When I first heard of it I thought the person telling me was jealouse of me because she is not happy wiht his brother so I thought our relationship made her jealouse.

When I comfronted him I was laughing and told him what she said.

And that is when I found out it was true! I could not beleive it! And even after I found out he said "I was his love blah blah blah"

I hung out even after that thinking maybe his family put presure on him ect...

Well he just had his wedding and I did nothing but feel misserable for almost a year thinking it was not true because he continued to lead me on making me think that he was not going to go through with it.

I am telling you those men from Jordan will lye cheat steal anything to come to the USA. And the sooner you realize it the faster you will be able to move on!

I have a hard head and I could not believe someone would use me like that. I also thought I am very attractive smart have a little money know the culture religion why would he not want me??????

But it is true they marry thier own kind no matter what and if they do stay with an american women it is because papers then the kids come and they are very loyal to thier children.

I was married before to a Palestinian that is how I know so much about the culture we had 3 children together whom I raised muslim and when I ended up divorced he was on a plane ASAP going back home to marry a women from over there.

Let me put you in the head of a middle eastern man

They are raised in an enviroment (remember I lived over seas for two years) watching the fatther go off to work all day long and left alone with the mother (Arab women have a hate for american women just like some black women do for white women because they feel like we take thier men) So the kids are at home being raised by women who dislike american women then they are raised seeing the mother never leave the home not even to shop. In thier country women do not leave the home unless she is older or escorted by a man. And most men do not want to escort their women out because they don't want to have a problem with other men.

The men are raised that women are below them and women are here to serve thier needs.

Now this will raise eyebrows but I am telling you this is a true statement (remember I am muslim) But the islam they practice in the middle east is to thier likeing.

They think of american women as slutty and they will date have fun with us but when it comes to staying married long term(unless you get knocked up when he is trying to get his papers) they want to marry thier own kind.

When they marry thier own kind they know the women will take care of them cook clean ect...and never complain.

They then have affairs because they look at the wife like the virgin marry who is the mother of thier kids so it is kind of hard for them to be sexually wild with the mother of thier kids.

If you look at the culture unless your blind you will see most Arab men secretly have affairs but will never leave thier wife.

Because they know 100% thier wife will never leave them it is thier culture and if she does her family will not accept it she will be an outcast.

The Arab women will cook clean take care of his mother bare his kids carry heavy thing and never complain!

She is bread like that. I know I live thier thier husband is thier life they are not a real women unless they are married.

And the women know if they do not do what they should he will take another wife.

They dont like american women because we dont listen.

If you want to go back to him start kissing his butt and he will take you back.

In the Holy Quran GOD promissing them virgins in heaven that is the ultimate heavan so what do you think then they want on earth???

Trust me when I tell you this I am telling you because I have a very very big heart and I hurt and had pain for almost a year living in a fantasy and it took me a real long time to get it in my head that this man used me.

The last words I had with him I was crying and told him I heard he was getting married this summer and he said yes his whole family was there for the party, laughing eating having a good time and then he said could he call me later?

I said no I want you to be happy good bye.

And that was that after five years of my life of doing nothing but giving and doing.

It made me sick to know that his family whom I did everything for and acted to me like I was so special behind my back was finding him a wife.

It made me sick to know that all his sisters and mother where dancing at his wedding and everyone laughing having a good time why I was hurt and crying.

This culture is monster have no feeling for man kind. I am not the only one that this has happen too. I just thought I was specail because I was muslim and I looked Arab but I am telling you the family will pretend to like you just to get what they can.

Thier whole purpose in life is to come to america! I lived in the middle east I was all over the middle east they are very very poor culture imagine you live in poverty where you are living 10 people in a house no one making decent money you will lye cheat steal to get what you want.

I beleive his plan was to marry her come here live with me and us work here make good money so he can support his family there.

I know a few Arab men(remember I been around the culture 20 years) that are married in thier country and living here in america with an american women that has no clue!

When the american women goes back home they send the wife to her mothers house!

The Arab women does not care because she is convinced her husband loves her and using the american girl.

Arab women are bread from little on to STAND BY YOUR MAN! They will never question him they are just happy to have someone take care of them.

I have arab friends now that are men and they tell me even though they are married when they go back home the mother is begging them to marry another one.

The women themself beleive they are not worthy they are convinced that they are nothing without the husband and they will do anything in thier power to keep him happy including letting him marry another women.

When I was over sea's my sister inlaw had 3 kids she went home one day and found a young girl in her home her husband married and told her to bad deal with it.

She left but ended up living in a very poor situation with her father and mother who where old so she ended up going back and accepting it.

When this happen all the women in the family where extra nice to thier husbands for fear it was going to happen to them.

PLEASE REMEMBER don't try to think like them they think different we marry for love they marry to reproduce!

Thier love thier life is not a women it is thier kids!

And they marry a women for her to bare kids and take and raise them to be good muslims.

If you go back to the middle east you will see the men have tons of male friends women are not thier friends we are just to bare kids.

They hang out all day with other males go home at night eat have another baby and then go back to work and to hang out with the guys.

Once a week they will stay home relax and family members will come to visit.

Think about it when ever you see an arab man here in this country he is with his friends and if he is with a women she is walking with the kids and he is rushing her through a shopping mall ect...

You will never seee them holding hands walking hugging. It is a rare thing and if you do you better beleive they are young or just got married.

I feel bad for you but I wrote all this in hopes that I help you because I was stupid and I really thought that he loved me.

I cannot beleive that another human being could use you but they can they are not like us american people have compasion for life.

God will protect you and will give justice you will be ok.

GOD BLESS YOU!

this was not intended to offend you I am trying to help I wish someone would have told me instead everyone did not want to hurt me so they kept telling me he loves me but is confused. In the end that only hurt more because I lost allot of good oppurtunities waiting for him.

GOD BLESS AND IF YOU NEED TO TALK SHOOT ME AN EMAIL

[MHS 0]

Hello everyone

Ok.. so I'm asking early..but thats just the way I am.. Knowledge is powerful.

Looking for experiences, insights, words of wisdom, highlights, forewarnings etc. of K-3 interviews in Amman? Petitioners or Beneficiaries, please share.

I'd also like to know how long, before interview, would my husband be able to get medical and police paperwork done? I read that some require medical done same day. We'd like to have all ready and not have to add more wait times once NVC sends I-129F to Embassy. We do have agency working with us.. but so far, it seems that I've been getting more info from my own research and VJ. Had to email lawyer re: new fee increase & direct filing (eff. July 30,2007), and updated version of I-129F..(had to redo it last minute before sending). Lawyer told me once I get I-129F case # to send it to her and she will work with my husband to get him ready. Hmmm... I guess I've learned to look into and do my best to stay on top of things, even if we hired someone.

Oh.. contact info in paperwork.. My husbands phone#, Agency's address (in place of beneficiary address), My address and phone #. I hope no problems with this.

Alhumdullilah!!! Praise and thanks to God!!

Gwen Ahmad

Forever

BE Careful your are in dngerous

I feel your pain, But please don't waste a year like I did. This is my story,

I also was with a man from jordan I am muslim smart attractive funny. I loved him and thought he loved me. I waited for him for almost five years during that time I sent him money took care of his family when he came ect...

You name it I did it. I look Arab I speak Arabic and I cook Arabic I took on the role of being the perfect Arab wife.

I been around the culture my whole life trust me when I tell you this I did nothing wrong.

I went to see him every year his family loved me everyone treated me with respect and kindness inviting me for dinner going shopping with me ect...

We I thought where in love. He alwasy told me how much he loved me and I was his everything.

Behind my back last year I found out he got engaged to another women in his country!

When I first heard of it I thought the person telling me was jealouse of me because she is not happy wiht his brother so I thought our relationship made her jealouse.

When I comfronted him I was laughing and told him what she said.

And that is when I found out it was true! I could not beleive it! And even after I found out he said "I was his love blah blah blah"

I hung out even after that thinking maybe his family put presure on him ect...

Well he just had his wedding and I did nothing but feel misserable for almost a year thinking it was not true because he continued to lead me on making me think that he was not going to go through with it.

I am telling you those men from Jordan will lye cheat steal anything to come to the USA. And the sooner you realize it the faster you will be able to move on!

I have a hard head and I could not believe someone would use me like that. I also thought I am very attractive smart have a little money know the culture religion why would he not want me??????

But it is true they marry thier own kind no matter what and if they do stay with an american women it is because papers then the kids come and they are very loyal to thier children.

I was married before to a Palestinian that is how I know so much about the culture we had 3 children together whom I raised muslim and when I ended up divorced he was on a plane ASAP going back home to marry a women from over there.

Let me put you in the head of a middle eastern man

They are raised in an enviroment (remember I lived over seas for two years) watching the fatther go off to work all day long and left alone with the mother (Arab women have a hate for american women just like some black women do for white women because they feel like we take thier men) So the kids are at home being raised by women who dislike american women then they are raised seeing the mother never leave the home not even to shop. In thier country women do not leave the home unless she is older or escorted by a man. And most men do not want to escort their women out because they don't want to have a problem with other men.

The men are raised that women are below them and women are here to serve thier needs.

Now this will raise eyebrows but I am telling you this is a true statement (remember I am muslim) But the islam they practice in the middle east is to thier likeing.

They think of american women as slutty and they will date have fun with us but when it comes to staying married long term(unless you get knocked up when he is trying to get his papers) they want to marry thier own kind.

When they marry thier own kind they know the women will take care of them cook clean ect...and never complain.

They then have affairs because they look at the wife like the virgin marry who is the mother of thier kids so it is kind of hard for them to be sexually wild with the mother of thier kids.

If you look at the culture unless your blind you will see most Arab men secretly have affairs but will never leave thier wife.

Because they know 100% thier wife will never leave them it is thier culture and if she does her family will not accept it she will be an outcast.

The Arab women will cook clean take care of his mother bare his kids carry heavy thing and never complain!

She is bread like that. I know I live thier thier husband is thier life they are not a real women unless they are married.

And the women know if they do not do what they should he will take another wife.

They dont like american women because we dont listen.

If you want to go back to him start kissing his butt and he will take you back.

In the Holy Quran GOD promissing them virgins in heaven that is the ultimate heavan so what do you think then they want on earth???

Trust me when I tell you this I am telling you because I have a very very big heart and I hurt and had pain for almost a year living in a fantasy and it took me a real long time to get it in my head that this man used me.

The last words I had with him I was crying and told him I heard he was getting married this summer and he said yes his whole family was there for the party, laughing eating having a good time and then he said could he call me later?

I said no I want you to be happy good bye.

And that was that after five years of my life of doing nothing but giving and doing.

It made me sick to know that his family whom I did everything for and acted to me like I was so special behind my back was finding him a wife.

It made me sick to know that all his sisters and mother where dancing at his wedding and everyone laughing having a good time why I was hurt and crying.

This culture is monster have no feeling for man kind. I am not the only one that this has happen too. I just thought I was specail because I was muslim and I looked Arab but I am telling you the family will pretend to like you just to get what they can.

Thier whole purpose in life is to come to america! I lived in the middle east I was all over the middle east they are very very poor culture imagine you live in poverty where you are living 10 people in a house no one making decent money you will lye cheat steal to get what you want.

I beleive his plan was to marry her come here live with me and us work here make good money so he can support his family there.

I know a few Arab men(remember I been around the culture 20 years) that are married in thier country and living here in america with an american women that has no clue!

When the american women goes back home they send the wife to her mothers house!

The Arab women does not care because she is convinced her husband loves her and using the american girl.

Arab women are bread from little on to STAND BY YOUR MAN! They will never question him they are just happy to have someone take care of them.

I have arab friends now that are men and they tell me even though they are married when they go back home the mother is begging them to marry another one.

The women themself beleive they are not worthy they are convinced that they are nothing without the husband and they will do anything in thier power to keep him happy including letting him marry another women.

When I was over sea's my sister inlaw had 3 kids she went home one day and found a young girl in her home her husband married and told her to bad deal with it.

She left but ended up living in a very poor situation with her father and mother who where old so she ended up going back and accepting it.

When this happen all the women in the family where extra nice to thier husbands for fear it was going to happen to them.

PLEASE REMEMBER don't try to think like them they think different we marry for love they marry to reproduce!

Thier love thier life is not a women it is thier kids!

And they marry a women for her to bare kids and take and raise them to be good muslims.

If you go back to the middle east you will see the men have tons of male friends women are not thier friends we are just to bare kids.

They hang out all day with other males go home at night eat have another baby and then go back to work and to hang out with the guys.

Once a week they will stay home relax and family members will come to visit.

Think about it when ever you see an arab man here in this country he is with his friends and if he is with a women she is walking with the kids and he is rushing her through a shopping mall ect...

You will never seee them holding hands walking hugging. It is a rare thing and if you do you better beleive they are young or just got married.

I feel bad for you but I wrote all this in hopes that I help you because I was stupid and I really thought that he loved me.

I cannot beleive that another human being could use you but they can they are not like us american people have compasion for life.

God will protect you and will give justice you will be ok.

GOD BLESS YOU!

this was not intended to offend you I am trying to help I wish someone would have told me instead everyone did not want to hurt me so they kept telling me he loves me but is confused. In the end that only hurt more because I lost allot of good oppurtunities waiting for him.

GOD BLESS AND IF YOU NEED TO TALK SHOOT ME AN EMAIL

I'm very sorry that you're going through this but ALL middle eastern men are not like this and I'm getting tired of seeing this same post spammed all over the boards and I think there are many here who will agree with me!

[Aymerlu 3]

[In Gods Hands 0]

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AhmadGwen4evr' post='1031696' date='Jul 7 2007, 08:24 AM'

Hello everyone

Ok.. so I'm asking early..but thats just the way I am.. Knowledge is powerful.

Looking for experiences, insights, words of wisdom, highlights, forewarnings etc. of K-3 interviews in Amman? Petitioners or Beneficiaries, please share.

I'd also like to know how long, before interview, would my husband be able to get medical and police paperwork done? I read that some require medical done same day. We'd like to have all ready and not have to add more wait times once NVC sends I-129F to Embassy. We do have agency working with us.. but so far, it seems that I've been getting more info from my own research and VJ. Had to email lawyer re: new fee increase & direct filing (eff. July 30,2007), and updated version of I-129F..(had to redo it last minute before sending). Lawyer told me once I get I-129F case # to send it to her and she will work with my husband to get him ready. Hmmm... I guess I've learned to look into and do my best to stay on top of things, even if we hired someone.

Oh.. contact info in paperwork.. My husbands phone#, Agency's address (in place of beneficiary address), My address and phone #. I hope no problems with this.

Alhumdullilah!!! Praise and thanks to God!!

Gwen Ahmad

Forever

BE Careful your are in dngerous

I feel your pain, But please don't waste a year like I did. This is my story,

I also was with a man from jordan I am muslim smart attractive funny. I loved him and thought he loved me. I waited for him for almost five years during that time I sent him money took care of his family when he came ect...

Okaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay... seems like this warning was sent out by original poster "TIKBJ" with good intentions.. I read it a few days ago.. talked to my husband about things we ALREADY spent hours and hours going over.. Well, my husband had a lot to say regarding this.. but one thing that stood out.. He says, "look at your hand..not all fingers are the same". He conveyed to me how bad he felt for these women who have been used like this... he also understands how it could happen and does happen even though he doesnt agree with it. He's upset with these men because they are also making it harder for the men out there who are sincere, fully committed, truly in love, and ready to take care and prioritize their wife (as his #1 and new family unit) the way God wants them too. Our hearts go out to all those who have been hurt in such a way.

So now.. anyone want to share regarding original post??? interview experiences etc..

Thanks

Gwen and Ahmad

[*Maureen* 0]

I believe that my husband's interview was about 10 minutes. All that time gathering evidence and the woman just flipped through the photoalbum, glanced at the letters and asked like 4 simple questions.