Visa Interview Issues... Spouse Not Picking Up Phone...

[Murph4865 597]

I guess something happened at the interview today cause site was updated saying refused snd i still have not heard from her, so as of 1pm philippine time i told her to contact me or go back home.  I can not have someone in my life that does not want to communicated on such a important thing we have fought so hard for,  after a K1 and now this one i think i am done with immigration.

 IT IS SAD SOME GET APPROVED OTHERS DO NOT OR HAVE TO WAIT YRS. when this government just lets these buttheads walk across the borders and give them everything they want while the rest of us try and do it the legal way costing thousands of dollars to go threw this process and they are apparently turned down, for who knows what reason which is now my case since someone does not want to communicate with me. Thank you all for the help i will be leaving the site real soon, no sense in me staying if not continuing on with this and my marriage.   Bye all

[Adventine 3,196]

Let's take a step back. "Refused" does not mean denied. There are many others here who have experienced the same status on CEAC. Some see the status change several times between "refused" to some other status and finally to "issued."

 

As for your wife not contacting you quickly... We don't know what happened. I advise you not to do anything rash as you have come so far and are very close to the finish line.

[flicks1998 1,044]

12 minutes ago, Murph4865 said:

I guess something happened at the interview today cause site was updated saying refused snd i still have not heard from her, so as of 1pm philippine time i told her to contact me or go back home.  I can not have someone in my life that does not want to communicated on such a important thing we have fought so hard for,  after a K1 and now this one i think i am done with immigration.

 IT IS SAD SOME GET APPROVED OTHERS DO NOT OR HAVE TO WAIT YRS. when this government just lets these buttheads walk across the borders and give them everything they want while the rest of us try and do it the legal way costing thousands of dollars to go threw this process and they are apparently turned down, for who knows what reason which is now my case since someone does not want to communicate with me. Thank you all for the help i will be leaving the site real soon, no sense in me staying if not continuing on with this and my marriage.   Bye all

What time was the interview?  They cannot bring phones into the embassy and if she was the only one attending the interview and didnt have someone waiting outside for her, she wouldnt be able to bring her phone at all until she got back to the hotel.  Also, there could be other delays as well.  I would give it more time.  Its Friday, rush hour morning.  Traffic is always worse on Fridays. 

[payxibka 10,045]

I'm confused,  its only 9am in Manila at the moment not 1pm.

[Murph4865 597]

7 minutes ago, flicks1998 said:

What time was the interview?  They cannot bring phones into the embassy and if she was the only one attending the interview and didnt have someone waiting outside for her, she wouldnt be able to bring her phone at all until she got back to the hotel.  Also, there could be other delays as well.  I would give it more time.  Its Friday, rush hour morning.  Traffic is always worse on Fridays. 

Interview was at 6:30 this morning and she left phone in her boarding room

[Murph4865 597]

4 minutes ago, payxibka said:

I'm confused,  its only 9am in Manila at the moment not 1pm.

Interview was at 6:30 should not take this long the site was updated today july 23rd there saying refused and i have not heard from her not responding by email or video or messanger

[Murph4865 597]

10 minutes ago, flicks1998 said:

What time was the interview?  They cannot bring phones into the embassy and if she was the only one attending the interview and didnt have someone waiting outside for her, she wouldnt be able to bring her phone at all until she got back to the hotel.  Also, there could be other delays as well.  I would give it more time.  Its Friday, rush hour morning.  Traffic is always worse on Fridays. 

She left at 5am to go to embassy, which was couple blocks away

[payxibka 10,045]

Just now, Murph4865 said:

Interview was at 6:30 should not take this long the site was updated today july 23rd there saying refused and i have not heard from her not responding by email or video or messanger

I have been in your shoes, I know what you are feeling.   My wife was very embarrassed and ashamed to call me.

[Murph4865 597]

1 minute ago, payxibka said:

I have been in your shoes, I know what you are feeling.   My wife was very embarrassed and ashamed to call me.

I am hurt cause i know the interview is over by now and only couple blocks away from room, she has always communicated with me over everything, never asked for anything in 6 yrs now. I have kept bills payed and food every month even started construction on house to help build it. I am so hurt over this, she broke my trust last month by taking immigration money to get something with out asking me for it

[flicks1998 1,044]

Maybe they are processing the visa now. The Embassy knows you have no time left and maybe they have told her to wait. As @Adventine says “refused” doesn’t mean refused.  There are plenty of threads on that here.  Despite the stress, I say give it a little more time.  Things work slowly there anyway. 

[Crazy Cat 41,888]

7 minutes ago, Murph4865 said:

I am hurt cause i know the interview is over by now and only couple blocks away from room, she has always communicated with me over everything, never asked for anything in 6 yrs now. I have kept bills payed and food every month even started construction on house to help build it. I am so hurt over this, she broke my trust last month by taking immigration money to get something with out asking me for it

Maybe there is an explanation.  Don't give up hope yet.  We are all hoping for the best for you.

Edited July 23, 2021 by Lucky Cat

[Murph4865 597]

Just now, Lucky Cat said:

Maybe there is an explanation.  Don't give up hope yet.  We are all hoping for the best for you.

I am hurt, that i know interview is over with cause of the site updated and she has not contacted me

[Crazy Cat 41,888]

Just now, Murph4865 said:

I am hurt, that i know interview is over with cause of the site updated and she has not contacted me

When my wife was interviewed, her status changed to refused because they needed a divorce certificate.  She spent the rest of the day getting the document and sending it to the consulate.  

[flicks1998 1,044]

1 minute ago, Lucky Cat said:

When my wife was interviewed, her status changed to refused because they needed a divorce certificate.  She spent the rest of the day getting the document and sending it to the consulate.  

Exactly.  There can be a ton of reasons and with only 14 days left before the visa expires, maybe she is caught up in something and the embassy is working with her.  

 

 

[Murph4865 597]

8 minutes ago, Lucky Cat said:

When my wife was interviewed, her status changed to refused because they needed a divorce certificate.  She spent the rest of the day getting the document and sending it to the consulate.  

I made sure she had everything original of all cause of what i found on this site and the advice that was given throught-out the yrs. i keep checking site