I-485 Overstay on ESTA

[SalishSea 18,142]

6 hours ago, Pandora Gadomska said:

Now I'm thinking I do have to file the I-864. I think the amendment means that if you don't meet the guidlines or support that he still can't be denied... I'm all confused on this. I keep reading it trying to understand the wording of it all

You definitely have to file the I-864.  

[SalishSea 18,142]

3 hours ago, Pandora Gadomska said:

I don't have anyone in the world except my daughter and husband. From what I'm understanding, they aren't rejecting applications for income but I don't know. Worse case scenario, I can move to Poland, Peru or anywhere in Europe. I'm just trying to keep my family together. My current home in PA is preferable, but home will be where ever we can all be together. 

The public charge law has not changed at all.   You’re conflating the I-944 with the I-864.   
 

His AOS can definitely be denied if you’re not qualified to sponsor him, and he will not be eligible to work for at least 8 months.

 

This precise scenario is the drawback to adjusting from a B visa.

[Suudsu 66]

2 hours ago, Pandora Gadomska said:

My husband is working class and much younger than me.

A large age gap may be a perceived to be a red flag.

[M&D2021 44]

9 hours ago, USC4SPOUSE said:

Include the G-1145 for each form you submit to get a text message alerting you when USCIS accepts them.  https://www.uscis.gov/g-1145

Not trying to hijack this thread, but from my read of the G-1145 instructions, you only need to submit one copy to the entire packet, even if it has multiple forms. It's not a big deal to print out three copies and include in the same packet, but I'm curious if others have had experience with just submitting one copy to the front of the entire packet (485/765/131) and receiving notifications for each.

[SalishSea 18,142]

2 hours ago, Suudsu said:

A large age gap may be a perceived to be a red flag.

Especially when the woman is older, and with marginal income prospects.