VAWA, Part 23

[gimmievisa 1]

My husband of 8 months wants to kick me out of the home we both have our names on.

I'm 100% financially dependent on this guy. I came on a tourist visa sold my stuff back home to be married and do AOS at some point here in US. I thought we were happy and going to have a bright future together. We were planning to start our process this week.. He started to verbally and emotionally abuse always trying to blame me for everything since I'm here. Months of arguing caused my self esteem to be crippled. I don't have friends or family here. All his friends and family are on his side and They don't want to hear my side of story.. Yesterday he threw away my things and said I need to get out of his house ( both our names are on the lease). I was begging for him to calm down. Where will I go? I called the police as he was not willing to talk any sense. So the police said to him he had no right to kick me out. But now he had a new thing to say about me...'I called the police on him'. He even said I don't deserve to do the AOS and don't deserve to become a citizen like I'm beneath him.

I texted a domestic violence helpline all the while in shock this is happening to me. They said I could still do the AOS as I'm going through domestic violence.  I want to know anything about this if anyone knows. Thankyou for reading . Sorry for the sad post. I'm still I'm shock as I really love him but he apparently doesn't so he treats me this way.

[Reister 56]

4 hours ago, Happyhappy2020 said:

Hi all,

Is it common when I485 is request Ed to be held that they go and deny the I130 while waiting for 360? Will this count as a visa denial on your record and will be black mark on your file?

 

Thank you!

It won’t count as a black mark . It’s normal practice to deny I -130.  There is nothing to be worried about . 

[Reister 56]

5 minutes ago, Djean said:

My husband of 8 months wants to kick me out of the home we both have our names on.

I'm 100% financially dependent on this guy. I came on a tourist visa sold my stuff back home to be married and do AOS at some point here in US. I thought we were happy and going to have a bright future together. We were planning to start our process this week.. He started to verbally and emotionally abuse always trying to blame me for everything since I'm here. Months of arguing caused my self esteem to be crippled. I don't have friends or family here. All his friends and family are on his side and They don't want to hear my side of story.. Yesterday he threw away my things and said I need to get out of his house ( both our names are on the lease). I was begging for him to calm down. Where will I go? I called the police as he was not willing to talk any sense. So the police said to him he had no right to kick me out. But now he had a new thing to say about me...'I called the police on him'. He even said I don't deserve to do the AOS and don't deserve to become a citizen like I'm beneath him.

I texted a domestic violence helpline all the while in shock this is happening to me. They said I could still do the AOS as I'm going through domestic violence.  I want to know anything about this if anyone knows. Thankyou for reading . Sorry for the sad post. I'm still I'm shock as I really love him but he apparently doesn't so he treats me this way.

There is always help dear . Call the Hotline the ly should be able to find a shelter near where you live .  . DM me if you have any more questions . 

[Vawa&U 70]

My case Vawa approved today 

thank you Sandra , winning , apolo. Demise, Sharma’s for all those people on here . 

Just now, Vawa&U said:

My case Vawa approved today 

thank you Sandra , winning , apolo. Demise, Sharma’s for all those people on here . 

x

New Card Is Being Produced

On August 5, 2021, we ordered your new card for Receipt Number EAC1, and will mail it to the address you gave us. If you move, go to www.uscis.gov/addresschange to give us your new mailing address.

[shiva32 240]

4 minutes ago, Vawa&U said:

My case Vawa approved today 

thank you Sandra , winning , apolo. Demise, Sharma’s for all those people on here . 

x

New Card Is Being Produced

On August 5, 2021, we ordered your new card for Receipt Number EAC1, and will mail it to the address you gave us. If you move, go to www.uscis.gov/addresschange to give us your new mailing address.

Congratulations!! Please give us your timeline so far. 

[sheima 510]

7 hours ago, Sk1992 said:

Hi @sheima congratulations 🎈🎊… this is such an amazing news..!! Finally your journey has came to an end… our timelines are quite similar..i applied in August 2019 and I clearly remember that we were approved only few days apart from each other..! I was approved in April too. But I haven’t had any updates on i485  as yet. I did send my medicals with my initial package though. Can you please tell what kind of updates did you get on i485 and which local office you have had? 

No update till August 3. 2021 day before yesterday when the Uscis app pops up with the good news  my case is so super fast.

 

my local office is federal plaza NYC office 

yours is on the way 🙏

Edited August 5, 2021 by sheima

[Still Hopeful 32]

23 minutes ago, Vawa&U said:

My case Vawa approved today 

thank you Sandra , winning , apolo. Demise, Sharma’s for all those people on here . 

x

New Card Is Being Produced

On August 5, 2021, we ordered your new card for Receipt Number EAC1, and will mail it to the address you gave us. If you move, go to www.uscis.gov/addresschange to give us your new mailing address.

Congratulations 🎉🍾 

[sheima 510]

2 hours ago, Nick2020 said:

I have very similar timeline.

My I-360 was approved in May-2021 - but no update on I-485 Yet.

what is your filed office? Mine is Long Island NY

Federal plaza NYC  my interview was waived,

usually almost everyone’s I-485 stays silent till you get approve,

don’t worry yours is coming 🙏

1 hour ago, Pinkrlion said:

OMG Congrats!

Thank you very much 🙏

[sheima 510]

1 hour ago, Pinkrlion said:

OMG Congrats!

Thank you very much 🙏

[sheima 510]

30 minutes ago, Vawa&U said:

My case Vawa approved today 

thank you Sandra , winning , apolo. Demise, Sharma’s for all those people on here . 

x

New Card Is Being Produced

On August 5, 2021, we ordered your new card for Receipt Number EAC1, and will mail it to the address you gave us. If you move, go to www.uscis.gov/addresschange to give us your new mailing address.

Congratulations 🇺🇸🗽

[HustlingStill 156]

30 minutes ago, Vawa&U said:

My case Vawa approved today 

thank you Sandra , winning , apolo. Demise, Sharma’s for all those people on here . 

x

New Card Is Being Produced

On August 5, 2021, we ordered your new card for Receipt Number EAC1, and will mail it to the address you gave us. If you move, go to www.uscis.gov/addresschange to give us your new mailing address.

Finally !! Congrats so happy to see all these approval coming 

[Zzz___1 141]

1 hour ago, Djean said:

My husband of 8 months wants to kick me out of the home we both have our names on.

I'm 100% financially dependent on this guy. I came on a tourist visa sold my stuff back home to be married and do AOS at some point here in US. I thought we were happy and going to have a bright future together. We were planning to start our process this week.. He started to verbally and emotionally abuse always trying to blame me for everything since I'm here. Months of arguing caused my self esteem to be crippled. I don't have friends or family here. All his friends and family are on his side and They don't want to hear my side of story.. Yesterday he threw away my things and said I need to get out of his house ( both our names are on the lease). I was begging for him to calm down. Where will I go? I called the police as he was not willing to talk any sense. So the police said to him he had no right to kick me out. But now he had a new thing to say about me...'I called the police on him'. He even said I don't deserve to do the AOS and don't deserve to become a citizen like I'm beneath him.

I texted a domestic violence helpline all the while in shock this is happening to me. They said I could still do the AOS as I'm going through domestic violence.  I want to know anything about this if anyone knows. Thankyou for reading . Sorry for the sad post. I'm still I'm shock as I really love him but he apparently doesn't so he treats me this way.

Sent you a PM 

[Vawa&U 70]

30 minutes ago, Sk N said:

Finally !! Congrats so happy to see all these approval coming 

Thank you 

31 minutes ago, sheima said:

Congratulations 🇺🇸🗽

Thank you 

[FeDaniela 673]

1 hour ago, Djean said:

My husband of 8 months wants to kick me out of the home we both have our names on.

I'm 100% financially dependent on this guy. I came on a tourist visa sold my stuff back home to be married and do AOS at some point here in US. I thought we were happy and going to have a bright future together. We were planning to start our process this week.. He started to verbally and emotionally abuse always trying to blame me for everything since I'm here. Months of arguing caused my self esteem to be crippled. I don't have friends or family here. All his friends and family are on his side and They don't want to hear my side of story.. Yesterday he threw away my things and said I need to get out of his house ( both our names are on the lease). I was begging for him to calm down. Where will I go? I called the police as he was not willing to talk any sense. So the police said to him he had no right to kick me out. But now he had a new thing to say about me...'I called the police on him'. He even said I don't deserve to do the AOS and don't deserve to become a citizen like I'm beneath him.

I texted a domestic violence helpline all the while in shock this is happening to me. They said I could still do the AOS as I'm going through domestic violence.  I want to know anything about this if anyone knows. Thankyou for reading . Sorry for the sad post. I'm still I'm shock as I really love him but he apparently doesn't so he treats me this way.

Please Gather as much evidence you can, You can apply thru Vawa, Get a copy of his passport or birth certificate to proof his US Citizenship. Get that Police Report as well. Copy of the Lease, any bills, with both name together, We have a lawyer in the group @sandranj You can hire her if she is available contact her for more info,.  

[gimmievisa 1]

42 minutes ago, FeDaniela said:

Please Gather as much evidence you can, You can apply thru Vawa, Get a copy of his passport or birth certificate to proof his US Citizenship. Get that Police Report as well. Copy of the Lease, any bills, with both name together, We have a lawyer in the group @sandranj You can hire her if she is available contact her for more info,.  

Thanks for your reply. I have called the police but didn't file any report as there was no physical violence but more of emotional and verbal abuse. And throwing my things and forcing me to vacate my own home. But the police said my call was recorded and I don't know how to use that for VAWA. How can I get police report for that kind of abuse ? Does this lawyer charge me I'm not financially independent.