Getting married on the first date

[Nitas_man 3,100]

1 hour ago, Huth said:

Estou falando das minhas provas, depois de ver alguns comentários aqui, não estou confiante, grande risco de ter meu visto negado

English

[Loren Y 2,755]

You say he can't visit you in Brazil, I was there a month ago, and have a return trip in September. Why can't he visit you in Brazil? 

[Ontarkie 14,226]

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[PaulaCJohnny 713]

1 minute ago, Ontarkie said:

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I post in both languages to help her. Why my post was deleted? Was in English too 🤨

[PaulaCJohnny 713]

5 hours ago, Huth said:

 

The evidences that you claim to have are week for an CR1/IR1 visa.

Compare your case with others is a mistake. Doesn't matter how long people knew each other or how they married,  the evidences that is a real marriage is the key, and this you don't know about the other couples. Focus in your case.

You will need to prove that you and your husband share a married life, don't necessarily you need to live together but you can be his beneficiary in life and health insurance,  joint bank account, joint credit card, normal things that a couple shares.

 

Good luck

[Nitas_man 3,100]

24 minutes ago, Paula&Johnny said:

The evidences that you claim to have are week for an CR1/IR1 visa.

Compare your case with others is a mistake. Doesn't matter how long people knew each other or how they married,  the evidences that is a real marriage is the key, and this you don't know about the other couples. Focus in your case.

You will need to prove that you and your husband share a married life, don't necessarily you need to live together but you can be his beneficiary in life and health insurance,  joint bank account, joint credit card, normal things that a couple shares.

 

Good luck

You may be being a little optimistic about all the magical joint things one can share with an overseas spouse.

 

Hopefully the petitioner can join for some feedback, beneficiary may he having a little difficulty with translation.

[Letspaintcookies 2,310]

Is the USC in the military? Sounds a bit like. If so, he can add you to DEERS and make you an emergency contact, beneficiary of his military life insurance and all those things. That's a good thing to add to your list of evidence.

[PaulaCJohnny 713]

2 hours ago, Nitas_man said:

You may be being a little optimistic about all the magical joint things one can share with an overseas spouse.

 

Hopefully the petitioner can join for some feedback, beneficiary may he having a little difficulty with translation.

I did all this in my home country for my husband! So no magic at all 😉 Is not just in the US that a couple can share things to proof the relationship, can be made in the home country too

Edited May 23, 2021 by Paula&Johnny

[Nitas_man 3,100]

33 minutes ago, Paula&Johnny said:

I did all this in my home country for my husband! So no magic at all 😉 Is not just in the US that a couple can share things to proof the relationship, can be made in the home country too

Well

 

Based on personal experience and 15 years on this site ima brief you it wasn’t necessary to get a petition processed and a visa issued 

 

Just sayin’

Edited May 23, 2021 by Nitas_man

[WaterLeaf 200]

3 hours ago, Paula&Johnny said:

The evidences that you claim to have are week for an CR1/IR1 visa.

Compare your case with others is a mistake. Doesn't matter how long people knew each other or how they married,  the evidences that is a real marriage is the key, and this you don't know about the other couples. Focus in your case.

You will need to prove that you and your husband share a married life, don't necessarily you need to live together but you can be his beneficiary in life and health insurance,  joint bank account, joint credit card, normal things that a couple shares.

 

Good luck

This... there are other things out there that can help you bring in additional proof. Like once married, put his name on the house/deed, car insurance, etc. I think someone made a big list of possibility that helps. If someone can link to that thread on here that will be great so a lot of things won't go missing. Gym membership and so on. Lots of variety to try.

[Penguin_ie 5,993]

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[HKS 169]

6 hours ago, WaterLeaf said:

This... there are other things out there that can help you bring in additional proof. Like once married, put his name on the house/deed, car insurance, etc. I think someone made a big list of possibility that helps. If someone can link to that thread on here that will be great so a lot of things won't go missing. Gym membership and so on. Lots of variety to try.

There are many things that have to have spouse in person and sign to add them to these things. It is not always possible. 

[Letspaintcookies 2,310]

I would like to get back to OPs first statement. Do you don't want to get married on the first meeting because of how it would look like for immigration or because you feel it's not the time yet to get married? If you have a gut feeling that you don't know him enough and you would rather spend more time to get to know each other then don't get married just yet no matter if you have enough evidence for your relationship or not.

[Boiler 45,525]

How can you know someone enough if you have yet to meet?

[Huth 0]

11 minutes ago, Letspaintcookies said:

I would like to get back to OPs first statement. Do you don't want to get married on the first meeting because of how it would look like for immigration or because you feel it's not the time yet to get married? If you have a gut feeling that you don't know him enough and you would rather spend more time to get to know each other then don't get married just yet no matter if you have enough evidence for your relationship or not.

I want to marry him, but the problem is immigration, I've tried to convince him to live here, but he already said that he doesn't want to live in my country, and just yesterday he called my mother and said again that he doesn't want to marry  in the second meeting