Getting married on the first date

[Huth 0]

•* Forgive the mistakes, because I am using the translator

 

This is not what I wanted to do now because I saw a lot of bad information about it, but my fiance doesn't want to wait any longer and wants to get married on the first date, we met 1 year and 8 months ago

 

He wants to apply for a CR1 visa after the wedding, but I am very afraid of being denied or receiving RFE, my parents will be witnesses of marriage, he has proof of purchase of the ring, he will also bring a gift in my name from when he served at the  Afghanistan, we were going to take a lot of pictures here, we have pictures of conversations since 2019, but I'm not sure, I also want to get married here, but I'm afraid of ruining everything

When we got to know each other after about 4 months, he went to serve in Afghanistan and spent months there, and when he returned the pandemic intensified in my country and banned him from entering, it is already 1 year and 8 months

 

These would be the only evidence we would have

•Proof of purchase of the ring

•gift from afghanistan in my name

•photos together / wedding photos / photos of conversations 2019/2020/2021

•Stamp and ticket proving entry here in my country

•a hotel voucher

 

I need opinions please, it will be very important 

[Boiler 45,525]

Where did you meet? This was not a date?

 

High fraud Consulates do want to see a lot of time together.

[Letspaintcookies 2,310]

Could you tell us a bit more about the situation? Which country are you from? Is there an age gap between the two of you? Do you share the same religion?

 

[Huth 0]

5 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Onde você se conheceu? Isso não foi um encontro?

 

Os consulados de alta fraude querem muito tempo juntos.

We met on a social networking site

[Huth 0]

6 minutes ago, Letspaintcookies said:

Você poderia nos contar um pouco mais sobre a situação? De qual país você é? Existe uma diferença de idade entre vocês dois? Você compartilha a mesma religião?

 

I am from Brazil, and the age difference is 7 years old, he is 30 years old

[JeanneAdil 6,510]

wants to get married on the first date, 

 

you and he have not met in person yet?

 

if so,  this is not the best way to do this

many get denied for not spending enough time together after meeting on social media /  that is not the reason that is listed on a 221 g of denial / other reasons are listed as the CO will not believe the relationship is real 

 

you could really meet and perhaps get engaged but he should return for a 2nd visit to marry

he should meet your parents and friends

you need to know him in person as "online "  people are not quite the same as "in person"

 

the whole process for spouse visa is taking almost 2 years so if he can return again to be with you for more visits ,  it would be good

age difference is not a biggie here

religions may be 

time spent together is important

family approval is important

 

you don't want to go thru a denial as that means case is returned to the US and the USC hears why denied about 6 months later and has to go thru a long process to dispute the issues the CO at embassy listed / its long when denied

its not as long when meet one time and return for a marriage but still it is not fast or easy or cheap

but CR1 and a marriage is better than fiancee k1

[Huth 0]

12 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:

quer se casar no primeiro encontro, 

 

você e ele ainda não se conheceram pessoalmente?

 

em caso afirmativo, esta não é a melhor maneira de fazer isso

muitos são negados por não passarem tempo suficiente juntos após a reunião nas redes sociais / esse não é o motivo listado em 221 g de negação / outros motivos são listados como o CO não acreditará que o relacionamento é real 

 

você poderia realmente conhecer e talvez ficar noivo, mas ele deveria retornar para uma segunda visita para se casar

ele deve encontrar seus parentes e amigos

você precisa conhecê-lo pessoalmente, pois pessoas "online" não são exatamente o mesmo que "pessoalmente"

 

todo o processo de visto de cônjuge está demorando quase 2 anos então se ele puder voltar novamente para estar com você para mais visitas, seria bom

diferença de idade não é importante aqui

religiões podem ser 

o tempo que passamos juntos é importante

a aprovação da família é importante

 

você não quer passar por uma negação, pois isso significa que o caso é devolvido aos EUA e o USC ouve o motivo da negação cerca de 6 meses depois e tem que passar por um longo processo para contestar as questões que o CO na embaixada listou / é longo quando negado

não é tão longo quando nos encontramos uma vez e voltamos para um casamento, mas ainda não é rápido, fácil ou barato

mas CR1 e um casamento são melhores do que a noiva k1

It's a bit complicated, for me the k1 is not a good idea, because from what I saw this visa is taking too long, but even so I think that in my case a k1 would have less chance of being denied

[igoyougoduke 1,656]

1 hour ago, Huth said:

•* Forgive the mistakes, because I am using the translator

 

This is not what I wanted to do now because I saw a lot of bad information about it, but my fiance doesn't want to wait any longer and wants to get married on the first date, we met 1 year and 8 months ago

 

He wants to apply for a CR1 visa after the wedding, but I am very afraid of being denied or receiving RFE, my parents will be witnesses of marriage, he has proof of purchase of the ring, he will also bring a gift in my name from when he served at the  Afghanistan, we were going to take a lot of pictures here, we have pictures of conversations since 2019, but I'm not sure, I also want to get married here, but I'm afraid of ruining everything

When we got to know each other after about 4 months, he went to serve in Afghanistan and spent months there, and when he returned the pandemic intensified in my country and banned him from entering, it is already 1 year and 8 months

 

These would be the only evidence we would have

•Proof of purchase of the ring

•gift from afghanistan in my name

•photos together / wedding photos / photos of conversations 2019/2020/2021

•Stamp and ticket proving entry here in my country

•a hotel voucher

 

I need opinions please, it will be very important 

evidence is weak. you need more evidence 

[JeanneAdil 6,510]

11 minutes ago, Huth said:

It's a bit complicated, for me the k1 is not a good idea, because from what I saw this visa is taking too long, but even so I think that in my case a k1 would have less chance of being denied

nope

one visit and can be denied just as easy denied as spouse visa and not faster anymore

[Huth 0]

3 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:

não

uma visita e pode ser negado tão facilmente negado quanto o visto de cônjuge e não mais rápido

What a complicated thing, now I understand why many people give up 

[Nitas_man 3,100]

1 hour ago, Huth said:

•* Forgive the mistakes, because I am using the translator

 

This is not what I wanted to do now because I saw a lot of bad information about it, but my fiance doesn't want to wait any longer and wants to get married on the first date, we met 1 year and 8 months ago

 

He wants to apply for a CR1 visa after the wedding, but I am very afraid of being denied or receiving RFE, my parents will be witnesses of marriage, he has proof of purchase of the ring, he will also bring a gift in my name from when he served at the  Afghanistan, we were going to take a lot of pictures here, we have pictures of conversations since 2019, but I'm not sure, I also want to get married here, but I'm afraid of ruining everything

When we got to know each other after about 4 months, he went to serve in Afghanistan and spent months there, and when he returned the pandemic intensified in my country and banned him from entering, it is already 1 year and 8 months

 

These would be the only evidence we would have

•Proof of purchase of the ring

•gift from afghanistan in my name

•photos together / wedding photos / photos of conversations 2019/2020/2021

•Stamp and ticket proving entry here in my country

•a hotel voucher

 

I need opinions please, it will be very important 

Well

 

We married on first visit.  It never was an issue.

20 minutes ago, igoyougoduke said:

evidence is weak. you need more evidence 

Why

[Huth 0]

7 minutes ago, Nitas_man said:

Nós vamos

 

Nós nos casamos na primeira visita . Isso nunca foi um problema.

Por que

I saw cases here of people who got married by proxy with only 1 visit in person, and were approved, but it must be a matter of luck too

[Nitas_man 3,100]

4 minutes ago, Huth said:

I saw cases here of people who got married by proxy with only 1 visit in person, and were approved, but it must be a matter of luck too

Luck?

 

Arranged marriages get approved, proxy marriages get approved.  (We) married two days after meeting in person.  What does luck have to do with it?  
 

Burden of proof is did you have a legitimate, legal marriage.  This is not very hard to overcome.

 

Please have your fiancé sign up

Edited May 22, 2021 by Nitas_man

[Huth 0]

7 minutes ago, Nitas_man said:

Sorte ?

 

Os casamentos arranjados são aprovados, os casamentos por procuração são aprovados. (Nós) nos casamos dois dias depois de nos conhecermos pessoalmente. O que a sorte tem a ver com isso?  
 

O ônus da prova é se você teve um casamento legítimo e legal. Isso não é muito difícil de superar.

 

Por favor, peça ao seu noivo para se inscrever

your visa was CR1?  The problem for me is the evidence, but I will try to resolve it later this year

[Nitas_man 3,100]

4 minutes ago, Huth said:

your visa was CR1?  The problem for me is the evidence, but I will try to resolve it later this year

K3 actually but the I130 and I129F were approved same day.

The evidence we submitted with our petition was a marriage certificate

The evidence brought to the interview was taxes (filed married), health insurance (enrolled after marriage), and proof

we were in constant communication

A legal document of marriage is all the proof needed that it happened.

I have no idea what other “evidence”

you are referring to.

Edited May 22, 2021 by Nitas_man