Divorce

[Dgreat 2]

What's the implications to file for a divorce to oversea? I want to end the marriage with my wife in Ghana as I got the NOIR but I don't want to respond to the uscis anymore 

[JeanneAdil 6,583]

see a lawyer in your state and file /  he or she will know how to do this

[Dgreat 2]

1 minute ago, JeanneAdil said:

see a lawyer in your state and file /  he or she will know how to do this

Can my wife refused to sign? 

[SalishSea 17,980]

1 minute ago, Dgreat said:

Can my wife refused to sign? 

Even if she does, there are ways around that.

[SalishSea 17,980]

Was the NOIR issued because they suspect it to be a green card marriage?

[Dgreat 2]

4 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

Was the NOIR issued because they suspect it to be a green card marriage?

Not really. I'm not interested in her anymore. Could she drag the time longer before other ways around? 

[JeanneAdil 6,583]

25 minutes ago, Dgreat said:

Can my wife refused to sign? 

she can refuse 

you need to know your state's divorce laws 

some states you need to file a separation paper and wait a year to finalize the divorce

depends on the state

see a divorce lawyer

meantime when you do not respond to the NOIR the case is in limbo

write to the office handling the NOIR and state you are withdrawing the petition

and understand this is devastating to the poor woman who married you,  so keep correspondence kind as you are breaking the heart and dreams of someone you professed to love

[SalishSea 17,980]

1 hour ago, Dgreat said:

Not really. I'm not interested in her anymore. Could she drag the time longer before other ways around? 

Wow.  Poor lady.  Hopefully she finds someone who makes sure he's interested before marrying her.

[Dgreat 2]

1 hour ago, JeanneAdil said:

she can refuse 

you need to know your state's divorce laws 

some states you need to file a separation paper and wait a year to finalize the divorce

depends on the state

see a divorce lawyer

meantime when you do not respond to the NOIR the case is in limbo

write to the office handling the NOIR and state you are withdrawing the petition

and understand this is devastating to the poor woman who married you,  so keep correspondence kind as you are breaking the heart and dreams of someone you professed to love

First 30 days given had gone and I don't feel like to respond. The NOIR is just simple but I don't want to continue. What if I don't write to the uscis for withdrawal of the petition? 

[JeanneAdil 6,583]

2 hours ago, Dgreat said:

First 30 days given had gone and I don't feel like to respond. The NOIR is just simple but I don't want to continue. What if I don't write to the uscis for withdrawal of the petition? 

u asked    

we told u

you don't have to listen

[LBX 44]

4 hours ago, Dgreat said:

What's the implications to file for a divorce to oversea? I want to end the marriage with my wife in Ghana as I got the NOIR but I don't want to respond to the uscis anymore 

Know your state law and the different types of divorce you can file (fault / no fault). 

[LBX 44]

4 hours ago, Dgreat said:

Can my wife refused to sign? 

Yes she can, especially if she feels the terms of the divorce are not favorable to her when it comes to alimony and equitable distribution of assets acquired post marriage.  Then you will move to litigate to get it resolved and depending on your state you may be required to pay her "pendente lite" (a type of alimony) until the dispute is resolved.  Therefore, it is best to be fair to her especially if she has done nothing wrong so you get it over with quickly and amicably.

[Zoeeeeeee 797]

13 hours ago, Dgreat said:

Not really. I'm not interested in her anymore. Could she drag the time longer before other ways around? 

Wow. What a diamond you are. 🗑

[African Zealot 1,455]

For those judging him for saying he’s interested in her anymore I think you need to get off your moral high horses. You have no details of the nitty gritty issues and some people see no point sharing the details of their relationship woes with anonymous strangers on the internet.

 

Not interested in her anymore may sound flippant but there’s could be very legitimate issues triggering it.

 

It is what it is, he’s committed no crime.

 

@Dgreat You may want to modify your delivery, sometimes it may affect the type and quality of responses or advice you receive.

Edited April 6, 2021 by African Zealot

[Dgreat 2]

1 hour ago, African Zealot said:

For those judging him for saying he’s interested in her anymore I think you need to get off your moral high horses. You have no details of the nitty gritty issues and some people see no point sharing the details of their relationship woes with anonymous strangers on the internet.

 

Not interested in her anymore may sound flippant but there’s could be very legitimate issues triggering it.

 

It is what it is, he’s committed no crime.

 

@Dgreat You may want to modify your delivery, sometimes it may affect the type and quality of responses or advice you receive.

What the total days and extension days to respond to the uscis?