NEED URGENT ADVICE

[Gloria asamoah 8]

I’m soo stressed and depressed right now I went for my interview for my N400 I’m already a 10 year green card holder I have no criminal records or any thing I’m divorced to my spouse and had all the necessary documents I passed all the texts and then he started grilling me about my ex and why he will help me if he was abusive cos he was that’s what led us to break up the officer wouldn’t understand why when I came to the country I was a house wife and depended on my ex for 4 years he then said my case is too big but made me sign my name change I needed and all the other forms I had to sign then told me he can’t make a decision and gave me decision cannot be made at this point I don’t know what to do I’m soo worried 😟 and also I forgot certain dates from the past he was asking me 

[aaron2020 11,651]

When you file to naturalize, USCIS can examine your entire immigration history.  The CO may suspect that you married for a green card and that your relationship was not a real marriage.  

[Gloria asamoah 8]

Oh wow so where do I go from here I’m soo worried 

[Lil bear 4,088]

3 minutes ago, Gloria asamoah said:

Oh wow so where do I go from here I’m soo worried 

Right now there is nothing you need to do ...  wait until you get notified of the decision.   Hopefully you will find that how you interpreted the interview wasn’t how it really was .. and that you are approved. If it is a different outcome you will

then be able to get specific support and direction for moving forward ,. no one can tell you what you need to do before the USCIS gives you their decision and reason.   Keep doing what life is for you right now. 

[Gloria asamoah 8]

16 minutes ago, Lil bear said:

Right now there is nothing you need to do ...  wait until you get notified of the decision.   Hopefully you will find that how you interpreted the interview wasn’t how it really was .. and that you are approved. If it is a different outcome you will

then be able to get specific support and direction for moving forward ,. no one can tell you what you need to do before the USCIS gives you their decision and reason.   Keep doing what life is for you right now. 

Thank you 🙏 I will try my best! how long does it normally take to hear a response from them? 

[Ontarkie 14,145]

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[Ife2020 37]

Yu should burn some candles and call upon your angels and ancestors to help yu with this case, Sis!

[bing10 114]

11 hours ago, Gloria asamoah said:

Thank you 🙏 I will try my best! how long does it normally take to hear a response from them? 

 

Most people seem to hear in about 3 weeks. 

 

Sorry it was a stressful experience, the interviewer may have been seeing if you'd crack and reveal something incriminating, or he may have been having a bad day and took it out on you.

 

As others have said, right now all you can do is wait and try not to worry. I expect your status will just change to approved in the next few weeks.

 

[mycase17 114]

13 hours ago, Gloria asamoah said:

I’m soo stressed and depressed right now I went for my interview for my N400 I’m already a 10 year green card holder I have no criminal records or any thing I’m divorced to my spouse and had all the necessary documents I passed all the texts and then he started grilling me about my ex and why he will help me if he was abusive cos he was that’s what led us to break up the officer wouldn’t understand why when I came to the country I was a house wife and depended on my ex for 4 years he then said my case is too big but made me sign my name change I needed and all the other forms I had to sign then told me he can’t make a decision and gave me decision cannot be made at this point I don’t know what to do I’m soo worried 😟 and also I forgot certain dates from the past he was asking me 

I'm really sorry to hear about the situation. But I read somewhere that at this point, the burden is on USCIS to prove that your marriage was fraudulent which is opposite when you apply for your green card (Burden is on you to prove your marriage is legitimate). So I think you will be fine since they don't have any proof that your marriage was not real + you didn't reveal anything. 

 

I'm in a similar boat as you, got married but things didn't work out and I'm applying as a divorcee for my N-400. Could you take documents at the interview that you had with you wife. I'm bit confused if I should take documents like joint lease, bank statements, utilities bill etc at my N-400 interview. 

[Scandi 4,105]

I wouldn't worry tbh. Sometimes they like to grill peiple to see if they crack, how they react etc. If your marriage was indeed bonafide then don't worry, you'll be approved even if it'll take a little while.

[bsd058 296]

Sorry to hear you're going through this. They are trained to be cynical and suspicious. It keeps fraudsters on their toes, but still seems very rude. I mean, you've been here for at least 5 years. Abusive people aren't always abusive 24/7 like in the movies. So I get why you are stressed about an inquiry like that. But, in any case, the only thing you can do now is wait. What will be will be. And, tbh, you're already here. I doubt they'll think you used your husband to merely get a green card (and by extension, to naturalize). They usually catch something like that in the immigration interview (for the green card). Let us know what happens. Rooting for you.

[canadian_wife 1,808]

14 hours ago, Gloria asamoah said:

Thank you 🙏 I will try my best! how long does it normally take to hear a response from them? 

 

You can see my timeline but it took me about 2 years after a decision could not be made on my case.

 

Good luck

[Russel1995 163]

Read the reviews for any interview here for any immigration benefit.

 

Stressful interviews are more than common, and many are still approved.  I think it's just a technique used to squeeze out confessions or cause people to fear and slip up.

[Gloria asamoah 8]

13 hours ago, Ife2020 said:

Yu should burn some candles and call upon your angels and ancestors to help yu with this case, Sis!

 

12 hours ago, mycase17 said:

I'm really sorry to hear about the situation. But I read somewhere that at this point, the burden is on USCIS to prove that your marriage was fraudulent which is opposite when you apply for your green card (Burden is on you to prove your marriage is legitimate). So I think you will be fine since they don't have any proof that your marriage was not real + you didn't reveal anything. 

 

I'm in a similar boat as you, got married but things didn't work out and I'm applying as a divorcee for my N-400. Could you take documents at the interview that you had with you wife. I'm bit confused if I should take documents like joint lease, bank statements, utilities bill etc at my N-400 interview. 

 I only brought my divorce decree, marriage certificate and taxes but he didn’t even ask for the taxes . Just the divorce decree then he just went on even asking me why was I attracted to my ex when I first met him🙄

[Gloria asamoah 8]

3 hours ago, Russel1995 said:

Read the reviews for any interview here for any immigration benefit.

 

Stressful interviews are more than common, and many are still approved.  I think it's just a technique used to squeeze out confessions or cause people to fear and slip up.

Wow thank you for your response that’s a lot cos it’s like you can’t even move on with your life and have to keep bring things from 10 years ago that’s already over he even asked me what attracted me to him the first day I met him! Like what? It’s been 10 years!! How in the world I’m I supposed to remember that ugh!