27 Ways to Know If You've Found the Right Relationship for You

[karolina 0]

In news read, wished to share .

There is nothing more glorious than falling in love! What a wonderful feeling it is when, after all that searching and seeking, you finally hook up with that compatible mate. But wait! How can you know that the person you think is right for you, is really right for you?

All you have to do is make sure that you ask the appropriate questions. At the right time and place, I suggest the two of you exchange answers to the following questions:

Kids or no kids

Smoking or no smoking

Drinking or no drinking? (Same for drugs)

Religious beliefs: Match? Blend? Clash

Who works? Who stays home (especially when the kids come along)

Who wants to live where?

Who controls the checkbook

What is his/her personal relationship with his/her family? Too distant? Too close Too weird? Appropriate to your standards?

How are holidays spent? At home? With family? Alone? Vacationing

Windows opened or closed? Heat/AC on or off

What side of the bed must you (he/she) sleep on

Where to spend vacations? Leisure time

Sick: Left alone or babied

Appropriate gift giving: birthdays? Yuletide holidays? Special occasions

Who does what around the house

What is acceptable hygiene

What are his/her hobbies, pastimes

Preferences: Music? Movie? Book favorites

Favorite foods

Pets or no pets? What kind

Decisions about the children: School, church, discipline, allowance, extra curricular activities, friends, and curfew?

Mealtimes: Early or late

Furniture: Vintage or contemporary

Sleeping habits: Four hours or eight?

More compatibility factors

If this list is not enough to help you determine whether or not your new love is right for you, try these:

How does your new love handle a crisis?

Behave in public places?

Treat your friends and family?

I also think you can tell a great deal about your new mate by the way he treats his mother and how she treats her father. Observing how a person regards that parent is key in establishing how he or she will treat you!

[ramos96 1]

Nice lil survey to try.

Thanks,

Ramos

[Sheriff Uling 3]

This is a must have list for all online daters...

[Ban Hammer 13,342]

#28 ky or no?

[jundp 191]

I like the list. I think P and I discussed most of those before we even met face to face the first time. Then came the shampoo problem So maybe add to that list weird beliefs of one. I refuse to buy cosmetics/shampoo/etc unless they are "cruelty free" or buy from companies who are known for animal testing. This led to a pretty funny (now) argument in a grocery store in Germany over what type of shampoo to buy.

Hee hee. Sometimes I'm surprised this man really wants to marry me.

[Fandango 1,439]

Some of those questions are really quite important...but I wouldn't scrap a relationship over 'ac: on or off?' issues

[karolina 0]

Certainly I not the greater supporter of such interrogations, but many in them are always very important in serious attitudes. Many fine questions can reduce to a problem in family. Clearly it if two persons are reasonable, they will find, an opportunity of their decision - but actually best you start to build family with the person about which really know... As it is useful to learn that loves your honey and that exasperate it. The people who are not having lacks, have very few advantages…Very important when in family listen the each other and respect with interests the each other.

[karolina 0]

Some of those questions are really quite important...but I wouldn't scrap a relationship over 'ac: on or off?' issues

'ac: on or off?' issues