WHO PAYS FOR ALL THE PLANE TICKETS

[allousa 1]

I have something to say about this topic ..... Are you getting mad because you feel you are buying a husband .? are you feeling upset because you are supporting your love ?.... Ok !!!

I would like to say to those that the feel its already a scam... MOVE ON . Why are u still beeing with your love ? OR U cant , huh ? Let me just tell you something ... You have no respect for your love for your man .. because other wise you will not get amd at the whole situation from the begining and you still even seen how he will react once he will have a stabe work and a stable salary ... you are getting mad at a situation you put your self onto it .. and no one forced you to buy a ticket or send money .. SO i would like to say move on because your mariage will not lust .. Move on because it will be always a fight and always putting him down like he is a small ###### walking this earth .. You are buying a husband thats what you think .. . Oh dear that is a very bad way of thinking and u r already just in the begining ... I can tell ya why he dont wanna talk to you as much as before .. because he doesnt need a reminder each time of beeing a small insect needs help from you or beeing like a cat walking around your legs waiting to get food ...

I would like to mention That the right ... Supporting a husband that he doesnt have a job ... It's a sign of a good wife , caring and a loving one ....

Think about your husband as he is a part of you . Think about supporting him as you putting your mony on your saving account .. because no man will forget what his wife will do for him ... and let me tell you ... you Probably didt spend more than $ 10.000 , and if you gonna put your husband down because of that then i am sorry i wish i can know who is your husband so i can tell him find a way to get what you spent on him and give it back to you and then move on ... we might be from a poor countries .. but our pride is priceless .

I don't even know where to start with this one.

You dont have to know how to start .. because this is not for you ... because you are just like peezy ... and other ugly mouth .. And i want to ask you ... From a very very long time a been asking my self ... how your husband and peezy's husband stand you ? .. So i would like to ask you directly now .

This guy is hilarious.

My husband feels the same way I do about anything I post. In fact, he thinks MENA VJ is a sickness and really would prefer it would go away. Thanks for asking, you are such a doll.

So why do you continue to post on VJ...if you find it distasteful? Is insulting people ad nausem some kind of sport for you? I find your holier than thou attitude...well...hmmm...repugnant.

Most of us are here to just get along, get some answers and help each other going through tough situations. It would be respectful that those who wish to argue, not just you Peezy, honor that.

Let this topic go!

There have been as long as I can remember on VJ many, many debates about Islam and how the Quran can be interpreted. Peezey AND OTHERS have shared what they know about Islam, and yes they have clarified certain points about money in Islamic marriages.

What is wrong with that? Haven't you been a member here long enough to know that there are ALWAYS debates going on in this forum?

Clearly you have a problem with Peezey. She is not the only one here who has corrected others on Islamic marriages which you will see if you read the topic.

The problem I have is with people that simply come on this board to be argumentative. I don't have a problem at all with people debating an issue. When it devolves into "my point of view is better than yours", I believe it ceases to be a debate.

I have no issue with people debating Islam. I don't know enough about it to even enter into the discussion.

Peezy made the statement about VJ being a sickness...so why even post here? I've yet to see a post from Peezy that was any where near congenial! And I didn't just call Peezy out either.

[allousa 1]

So why do you continue to post on VJ...if you find it distasteful? Is insulting people ad nausem some kind of sport for you? I find your holier than thou attitude...well...hmmm...repugnant.

Most of us are here to just get along, get some answers and help each other going through tough situations. It would be respectful that those who wish to argue, not just you Peezy, honor that.

Let this topic go!

Did you get a badge with your position as Posting Police Officer?

You should definitely follow your own advice let it go if it's meaningless to you.

Do I not have the same freedom of commenting as you do? You felt so compelled to blast me a few days ago about a comment that was completely taken out of context. You made all these assumptions about me, yet you don't even know me. I just don't see the point of being so nasty.

[peezey 0]

Peezy made the statement about VJ being a sickness...so why even post here? I've yet to see a post from Peezy that was any where near congenial! And I didn't just call Peezy out either.

I'd say you shouldn't hold your breath waiting such a post from me in a thread where I'm attacked when all I've done is listed facts about Islamic marriage---the same as many others---by a muslim man who also says women should pay for men from poor countries.

[sarah and hicham 3]

I have something to say about this topic ..... Are you getting mad because you feel you are buying a husband .? are you feeling upset because you are supporting your love ?.... Ok !!!

I would like to say to those that the feel its already a scam... MOVE ON . Why are u still beeing with your love ? OR U cant , huh ? Let me just tell you something ... You have no respect for your love for your man .. because other wise you will not get amd at the whole situation from the begining and you still even seen how he will react once he will have a stabe work and a stable salary ... you are getting mad at a situation you put your self onto it .. and no one forced you to buy a ticket or send money .. SO i would like to say move on because your mariage will not lust .. Move on because it will be always a fight and always putting him down like he is a small ###### walking this earth .. You are buying a husband thats what you think .. . Oh dear that is a very bad way of thinking and u r already just in the begining ... I can tell ya why he dont wanna talk to you as much as before .. because he doesnt need a reminder each time of beeing a small insect needs help from you or beeing like a cat walking around your legs waiting to get food ...

I would like to mention That the right ... Supporting a husband that he doesnt have a job ... It's a sign of a good wife , caring and a loving one ....

Think about your husband as he is a part of you . Think about supporting him as you putting your mony on your saving account .. because no man will forget what his wife will do for him ... and let me tell you ... you Probably didt spend more than $ 10.000 , and if you gonna put your husband down because of that then i am sorry i wish i can know who is your husband so i can tell him find a way to get what you spent on him and give it back to you and then move on ... we might be from a poor countries .. but our pride is priceless .

I don't even know where to start with this one.

You dont have to know how to start .. because this is not for you ... because you are just like peezy ... and other ugly mouth .. And i want to ask you ... From a very very long time a been asking my self ... how your husband and peezy's husband stand you ? .. So i would like to ask you directly now .

This guy is hilarious.

My husband feels the same way I do about anything I post. In fact, he thinks MENA VJ is a sickness and really would prefer it would go away. Thanks for asking, you are such a doll.

So why do you continue to post on VJ...if you find it distasteful? Is insulting people ad nausem some kind of sport for you? I find your holier than thou attitude...well...hmmm...repugnant.

Most of us are here to just get along, get some answers and help each other going through tough situations. It would be respectful that those who wish to argue, not just you Peezy, honor that.

Let this topic go!

There have been as long as I can remember on VJ many, many debates about Islam and how the Quran can be interpreted. Peezey AND OTHERS have shared what they know about Islam, and yes they have clarified certain points about money in Islamic marriages.

What is wrong with that? Haven't you been a member here long enough to know that there are ALWAYS debates going on in this forum?

Clearly you have a problem with Peezey. She is not the only one here who has corrected others on Islamic marriages which you will see if you read the topic.

The problem I have is with people that simply come on this board to be argumentative. I don't have a problem at all with people debating an issue. When it devolves into "my point of view is better than yours", I believe it ceases to be a debate.

I have no issue with people debating Islam. I don't know enough about it to even enter into the discussion.

Peezy made the statement about VJ being a sickness...so why even post here? I've yet to see a post from Peezy that was any where near congenial! And I didn't just call Peezy out either.

So you don't know enough to even get into the discussion, however you find yourself capable of telling everyone how to act and what can and cannot be debated. Interesting.

Why does it bother you so much that Peezey post on VJ? If you can't handle it then you could use the "ignore" feature.

Maybe you should take your own advice and let it go, bossy bossykins.

[peezey 0]

Do I not have the same freedom of commenting as you do? You felt so compelled to blast me a few days ago about a comment that was completely taken out of context. You made all these assumptions about me, yet you don't even know me. I just don't see the point of being so nasty.

You keep bringing this up as if each time my answer is going to be different and your statement will have changed. Mine won't, yours won't, so what's your point in continually bringing up something there will be no agreement on? Not to mention, once again, I wasn't the only poster offended or put off by your statement.

Edited July 3, 2007 by peezey

[Henia 11]

I have something to say about this topic ..... Are you getting mad because you feel you are buying a husband .? are you feeling upset because you are supporting your love ?.... Ok !!!

I would like to say to those that the feel its already a scam... MOVE ON . Why are u still beeing with your love ? OR U cant , huh ? Let me just tell you something ... You have no respect for your love for your man .. because other wise you will not get amd at the whole situation from the begining and you still even seen how he will react once he will have a stabe work and a stable salary ... you are getting mad at a situation you put your self onto it .. and no one forced you to buy a ticket or send money .. SO i would like to say move on because your mariage will not lust .. Move on because it will be always a fight and always putting him down like he is a small ###### walking this earth .. You are buying a husband thats what you think .. . Oh dear that is a very bad way of thinking and u r already just in the begining ... I can tell ya why he dont wanna talk to you as much as before .. because he doesnt need a reminder each time of beeing a small insect needs help from you or beeing like a cat walking around your legs waiting to get food ...

I would like to mention That the right ... Supporting a husband that he doesnt have a job ... It's a sign of a good wife , caring and a loving one ....

Think about your husband as he is a part of you . Think about supporting him as you putting your mony on your saving account .. because no man will forget what his wife will do for him ... and let me tell you ... you Probably didt spend more than $ 10.000 , and if you gonna put your husband down because of that then i am sorry i wish i can know who is your husband so i can tell him find a way to get what you spent on him and give it back to you and then move on ... we might be from a poor countries .. but our pride is priceless .

I don't even know where to start with this one.

You dont have to know how to start .. because this is not for you ... because you are just like peezy ... and other ugly mouth .. And i want to ask you ... From a very very long time a been asking my self ... how your husband and peezy's husband stand you ? .. So i would like to ask you directly now .

This guy is hilarious.

My husband feels the same way I do about anything I post. In fact, he thinks MENA VJ is a sickness and really would prefer it would go away. Thanks for asking, you are such a doll.

So why do you continue to post on VJ...if you find it distasteful? Is insulting people ad nausem some kind of sport for you? I find your holier than thou attitude...well...hmmm...repugnant.

Most of us are here to just get along, get some answers and help each other going through tough situations. It would be respectful that those who wish to argue, not just you Peezy, honor that.

Let this topic go!

There have been as long as I can remember on VJ many, many debates about Islam and how the Quran can be interpreted. Peezey AND OTHERS have shared what they know about Islam, and yes they have clarified certain points about money in Islamic marriages.

What is wrong with that? Haven't you been a member here long enough to know that there are ALWAYS debates going on in this forum?

Clearly you have a problem with Peezey. She is not the only one here who has corrected others on Islamic marriages which you will see if you read the topic.

The problem I have is with people that simply come on this board to be argumentative. I don't have a problem at all with people debating an issue. When it devolves into "my point of view is better than yours", I believe it ceases to be a debate.

I have no issue with people debating Islam. I don't know enough about it to even enter into the discussion.

Peezy made the statement about VJ being a sickness...so why even post here? I've yet to see a post from Peezy that was any where near congenial! And I didn't just call Peezy out either.

So you don't know enough to even get into the discussion, however you find yourself capable of telling everyone how to act and what can and cannot be debated. Interesting.

Why does it bother you so much that Peezey post on VJ? If you can't handle it then you could use the "ignore" feature.

Maybe you should take your own advice and let it go, bossy bossykins.

Ignore feature!

[allousa 1]

Peezy made the statement about VJ being a sickness...so why even post here? I've yet to see a post from Peezy that was any where near congenial! And I didn't just call Peezy out either.

I'd say you shouldn't hold your breath waiting such a post from me in a thread where I'm attacked when all I've done is listed facts about Islamic marriage---the same as many others---by a muslim man who also says women should pay for men from poor countries.

Not looking for it in this thread Peezy. I don't think men should expect women to pay for them no matter what country or what religion they are from. I thought the comments from others attacking you as well were uncalled for...and I said as much. I just don't understand why people, not just you, have to be so nasty. What point does that serve? People can make a point without being condecending and rude. I was minding my own business having a pleasant conversation with someone on this board and you felt the need to attack me about a conversation that you didn't even take the time to find out what we were talking about.

I had really enjoyed meeting new people and getting new information, until all of this ####### started happening. If I wanted to be insulted I would just go onto some dam n political blog.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Peezy made the statement about VJ being a sickness...so why even post here? I've yet to see a post from Peezy that was any where near congenial! And I didn't just call Peezy out either.

I'd say you shouldn't hold your breath waiting such a post from me in a thread where I'm attacked when all I've done is listed facts about Islamic marriage---the same as many others---by a muslim man who also says women should pay for men from poor countries.

Not looking for it in this thread Peezy. I don't think men should expect women to pay for them no matter what country or what religion they are from. I thought the comments from others attacking you as well were uncalled for...and I said as much. I just don't understand why people, not just you, have to be so nasty. What point does that serve? People can make a point without being condecending and rude. I was minding my own business having a pleasant conversation with someone on this board and you felt the need to attack me about a conversation that you didn't even take the time to find out what we were talking about.

I had really enjoyed meeting new people and getting new information, until all of this ####### started happening. If I wanted to be insulted I would just go onto some dam n political blog.

Boohoo. I think you need to wake up from your dream. Not everyone gets along. I don't get along with most people on this forum but I don't cry about it and lose sleep over it. Everyone is different, don't you know that?

Some people are blunt, and others like to lie to people so that they feel better about themselves.

Edited July 3, 2007 by sarah and hicham

[peezey 0]

Not looking for it in this thread Peezy. I don't think men should expect women to pay for them no matter what country or what religion they are from. I thought the comments from others attacking you as well were uncalled for...and I said as much. I just don't understand why people, not just you, have to be so nasty. What point does that serve? People can make a point without being condecending and rude. I was minding my own business having a pleasant conversation with someone on this board and you felt the need to attack me about a conversation that you didn't even take the time to find out what we were talking about.

I had really enjoyed meeting new people and getting new information, until all of this ####### started happening. If I wanted to be insulted I would just go onto some dam n political blog.

Let's see, I'm not a tard, I read the thread and thought your comment was ridiculous, and I still do. End of story.

[allousa 1]

Peezy made the statement about VJ being a sickness...so why even post here? I've yet to see a post from Peezy that was any where near congenial! And I didn't just call Peezy out either.

I'd say you shouldn't hold your breath waiting such a post from me in a thread where I'm attacked when all I've done is listed facts about Islamic marriage---the same as many others---by a muslim man who also says women should pay for men from poor countries.

Not looking for it in this thread Peezy. I don't think men should expect women to pay for them no matter what country or what religion they are from. I thought the comments from others attacking you as well were uncalled for...and I said as much. I just don't understand why people, not just you, have to be so nasty. What point does that serve? People can make a point without being condecending and rude. I was minding my own business having a pleasant conversation with someone on this board and you felt the need to attack me about a conversation that you didn't even take the time to find out what we were talking about.

I had really enjoyed meeting new people and getting new information, until all of this ####### started happening. If I wanted to be insulted I would just go onto some dam n political blog.

Boohoo. I think you need to wake up from your dream. Not everyone gets along. I don't get along with most people on this forum but I don't cry about it and lose sleep over it. Everyone is different, don't you know that?

Some people are blunt, and others like to lie to people so that they feel better about themselves.

Trust that I'm not losing any sleep over your comments.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Peezy made the statement about VJ being a sickness...so why even post here? I've yet to see a post from Peezy that was any where near congenial! And I didn't just call Peezy out either.

I'd say you shouldn't hold your breath waiting such a post from me in a thread where I'm attacked when all I've done is listed facts about Islamic marriage---the same as many others---by a muslim man who also says women should pay for men from poor countries.

Not looking for it in this thread Peezy. I don't think men should expect women to pay for them no matter what country or what religion they are from. I thought the comments from others attacking you as well were uncalled for...and I said as much. I just don't understand why people, not just you, have to be so nasty. What point does that serve? People can make a point without being condecending and rude. I was minding my own business having a pleasant conversation with someone on this board and you felt the need to attack me about a conversation that you didn't even take the time to find out what we were talking about.

I had really enjoyed meeting new people and getting new information, until all of this ####### started happening. If I wanted to be insulted I would just go onto some dam n political blog.

Boohoo. I think you need to wake up from your dream. Not everyone gets along. I don't get along with most people on this forum but I don't cry about it and lose sleep over it. Everyone is different, don't you know that?

Some people are blunt, and others like to lie to people so that they feel better about themselves.

Trust that I'm not losing any sleep over your comments.

Ouch.

[peezey 0]

One person's nasty is another person's breath of fresh air. It's called perspective. Remove yourself from your own once in a while.

[sereia 0]

unfortunately the ignore feature is faulted because people constantly use the quote option. if that weren't the case, i think it would be a prized feature in ME/NA.

[melly 0]

For those who are new to this board, I have one thing to say, and that's get used to it!

This board is like any other in the fact that not everyone gets along. They never will all get along. Fact of life.

There are people here I don't like, and I'm sure there are people here who don't like me.

Oh well.

Yes there are rude people,yes there are liars, yes there are all sorts.

Welcome to VJ. Buckle your seatbelt and enjoy the ride.

B)

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

unfortunately the ignore feature is faulted because people constantly use the quote option. if that weren't the case, i think it would be a prized feature in ME/NA.

No, the "ignore" button will not prevent others from interacting with the person that you want to ignore, nor will it prevent them from quoting that person in their replies.

You just have to bite the bullet and take charge of your board surfing yourself -- read what you want to read, and scroll past comments or topics that you don't care to waste your time on. Usually a quote has the poster's name at the top -- this will "alert" you that they're quoting someone you don't care to read, and you can just skip past it. No need to even let your eye glance at what they wrote, if you really don't want to see it.

To "ignore" is really just a matter of will power, anyway -- it means "to refuse to take notice of." It's all in the mind -- it doesn't mean they will actually be removed from your presence.