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Wife abandoned me and is using me for money

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minibigboss989   0

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Hi everyone,

 

I am in a bad situation. I married my US citizen, currently, wife about 8 years ago, we married out of the US and I moved here about 6 years ago. Now our relationship has been a rollercoaster since we moved to the U.S. I moved from one state to another for work, she doesn't work, she refused to move with me and took our son with her to her home-state. Now, she left me about 2.5 years ago, and is refusing to come back, she just threatens to divorce me every now and then. I pay for her rent, bought her a brand new car, pay for every expense you can think of, from phone bills, insurance, speeding tickets, food, clothes, even furniture. Now, she is asking me to buy her a new iPhone and I refused. So, she took it from a shared bank account we have, where I put money for the IRS to withdraw (I owe some taxes). She cussed me out, told me literally, "I will buy it with (our) money, then divorce you". She is just using me and confessing to it in this message. What should I do? Why should she be entitled to half my savings when she took my son and ran away basically. What should I do? Is there any law that supports me? or is it just merely biased towards females? 

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TBoneTX   45,831

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2 hours ago, aaron2020 said:

This is not an immigration matter.

Thread is now closed on this basis.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

 
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