Giving up K1

[silverbutterfly228 0]

you definitely saved yourself a lot of problems by choosing ot stay with k1. i would hate to see a 10 year bar on anyone trying to just be with their loved one. best of wishes

[pksang 0]

karol,

I think going the tourist route is quite dangerous and its not worth taking that risk. I think you have received lot of good advice here..

One thing that come to my mind is - DCF. I don't know how it works for Canada - but try to look up that. Maybe u'll can get married in Canada and then file for him via DCF process.. I am sure if this is a bad idea others will write soo.. but do look into it..

Perseverance and patience is what pays off.. There could be a shortcut in life - but u have to ask urself is it worth taking it.. going back to my basics - i feel that the shortcut always sounds attractive and pulls one in its direction - but it is wisdom n trust in oneself n God that helps one make the hard but correct decisions in life.. So ponder about it and don't jump the gun without throughly researching all ur options.

U have this great forum and tons of people for support..

[Kajikit 65]

You've got good advice here... the letters of intent only need to say that you are intending to marry your partner. As for the other stuff, there should be SOMETHING you can come up with to submit to them...