Suggestions needed. Marriage based I-485 interview for my husband. [merged threads]

[Help12345 1]

Hello all,

 

We recently had an interview for my husband I-485 AOS and it went well as far as we know. There is an issue here, We been together from many years and married after dating close to 5-6 years. My dad was very happy and witnessed our wedding and signed our wedding in the court. After 3 years of happy marriage life, he started to trouble my husband and me and asked me to divorce my husband, if not he will report to the U-s-c-i-s that my husband married me for GC. During the interview, the officer questioned me about how my dad feels about the wedding and why he thinks my husband married me only for GC.(which is not true, my dad complained out of personal hate and trying to prove to u-s-c-is that it is not valid even though my husband and I are honest) 

 

The officer asked us general questions and later said I am unable to make a decision at this point and I will mail you a final decision. I am very worried about the outcome even though my love and relationship are strong and real. 
 

please advice and suggest what might be the case in this situation. Thank you all. 

[Crazy Cat 42,320]

That was a normal response by the officer.  Your father has no power in this situation.  I see no reason to worry.  Just watch the status of the case.

[Help12345 1]

5 hours ago, Lucky Cat said:

That was a normal response by the officer.  Your father has no power in this situation.  I see no reason to worry.  Just watch the status of the case.

Thank you Lucky Cat. 
I am worried since my dad paid a lawyer and sent his false complaint to the interviewing location. The officer questioned me and that’s when I found out that the compalint went through. I was very upset, depressed and sad to prove to the government my love is real when someone is saying it is not out of hate. I hope u-s-c-i-s doesn’t give too much weight to false compalints and I have almost a decade worth of love to prove. 

[Crazy Cat 42,320]

3 minutes ago, Help12345 said:

Thank you Lucky Cat. 
I am worried since my dad paid a lawyer and sent his false complaint to the interviewing location. The officer questioned me and that’s when I found out that the compalint went through. I was very upset, depressed and sad to prove to the government my love is real when someone is saying it is not out of hate. I hope u-s-c-i-s doesn’t give too much weight to false compalints and I have almost a decade worth of love to prove. 

Unless your father has direct evidence, I wouldn't worry about it.  

[Help12345 1]

1 hour ago, Lucky Cat said:

Unless your father has direct evidence, I wouldn't worry about it.  

As far as I know, he is saying things like they did not live together and never had sex. 
I was going to college in my home state and my husband was working in another state and we were meeting frequently and decided to finish my college, find a job for me and settle down. In the mean while, my dad started this whole issue. 

[Ontarkie 14,499]

~~MOved to AOS From Work, Student and Tourist visas, from What Visa Do I Need~~

[Boiler 46,121]

All you can do is wait and see.

 

Presumably your father is no longer part of your life.

[Help12345 1]

58 minutes ago, Boiler said:

All you can do is wait and see.

 

Presumably your father is no longer part of your life.

Nope, we moved out and staying at a different place and reported the new address to the u-s- c-i-s

 

I am very worried on how much weight does the department puts on my father’s complaint even though they have many reasons to believe that we both are husband and wife(9+ years of love and still going strong) 

[Boiler 46,121]

41 minutes ago, Help12345 said:

Nope, we moved out and staying at a different place and reported the new address to the u-s- c-i-s

 

I am very worried on how much weight does the department puts on my father’s complaint even though they have many reasons to believe that we both are husband and wife(9+ years of love and still going strong) 

Weird family members is not that uncommon.

[Help12345 1]

2 hours ago, Boiler said:

Weird family members is not that uncommon.

True

[wilcouk 7]

16 hours ago, Help12345 said:

Hello all,

 

We recently had an interview for my husband I-485 AOS and it went well as far as we know. There is an issue here, We been together from many years and married after dating close to 5-6 years. My dad was very happy and witnessed our wedding and signed our wedding in the court. After 3 years of happy marriage life, he started to trouble my husband and me and asked me to divorce my husband, if not he will report to the U-s-c-i-s that my husband married me for GC. During the interview, the officer questioned me about how my dad feels about the wedding and why he thinks my husband married me only for GC.(which is not true, my dad complained out of personal hate and trying to prove to u-s-c-is that it is not valid even though my husband and I are honest) 

 

The officer asked us general questions and later said I am unable to make a decision at this point and I will mail you a final decision. I am very worried about the outcome even though my love and relationship are strong and real. 
 

please advice and suggest what might be the case in this situation. Thank you all. 

How did the Officer know about your Dad's complaint? Did you tell them what your Dad said I.e brought it up yourself?

[Help12345 1]

1 hour ago, wilcouk said:

How did the Officer know about your Dad's complaint? Did you tell them what your Dad said I.e brought it up yourself?

No. My dad sent the complaint with the help of a lawyer to the interviewing building. He opened the interview notice without my husband and my permission, took a photo of it and drafted the complaint with a lawyer and sent it so that it reaches before my interview date and time. He even asked me to divorce my husband and asked me to stay home and not attend. I left the home and we both attended the interview as normal. There the officer started off as usual (the officer is very cool and composed) asked general questions and towards the end raised two questions about my father. That’s when we found out that the complaint went through. 

[NancyNguyen 1,658]

40 minutes ago, Help12345 said:

No. My dad sent the complaint with the help of a lawyer to the interviewing building. He opened the interview notice without my husband and my permission, took a photo of it and drafted the complaint with a lawyer and sent it so that it reaches before my interview date and time. He even asked me to divorce my husband and asked me to stay home and not attend. I left the home and we both attended the interview as normal. There the officer started off as usual (the officer is very cool and composed) asked general questions and towards the end raised two questions about my father. That’s when we found out that the complaint went through. 

Your father must find therapy, he controls your life too much.

[TBoneTX 46,126]

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