I need a help please for my spouse

[Samibra 15]

18 hours ago, Jorgedig said:

You cannot "change" someone's age.  It isn't like gender or hair color or name.

 

That type of fraud (counterfeiting documents) is exactly why people from high-risk African countries (rightly) get denied.

Why they can't? we don't both the reason why they parents did that so please don't tell me that change a gender is normal than change the age. we have to respect each other their decision because we don't know why . thanks

[Samibra 15]

18 hours ago, Lemonslice said:

You need to use her REAL birth certificate.

Thanks for the advise but I think better to leave the age she has now. I don't want to change any in her documents (birth certificate, passport, diploma)

[Samibra 15]

I am not here to tell you that I was going to cheat papers, I think you do not understand me what I am explaining to you because of my bad English, but I am here to tell you to help me a situation which is this. where i come from is a muslim country and each country has its laws. my wife, I've known her since, but we're not allowed to hang out like you do. since I decided to go back to America, I went to ask for her hand at the end that I could bring her to the USA. so we got married a month ago. I started to gather her documents to file her I-130 application, but I had a concern for our different age so she just announced to me that her real age is 23 but since her childhood, she uses the age of 19 years old because when she was little her parents had to change her age for personal reasons. But the birth certificate that bears his real age has never used it in any document in his life. So nobody except his parents don't know about this. So I wanted to know should I change her birth certificate so that she bears the age of her birth? but since I was assured here that the age difference is not a problem in the application, then I do not see the reason to change his birth certificate. Not only but she just played the lottery this year with the age she has now so if I change her birth certificate, they will figure out that it is cheating..

 

Thanks

[Samibra 15]

2 hours ago, Orangesapples said:

Yes, I don't see why people are accusing OP of fraud when he had nothing to do with his wife's wrong records. His wife needs to get all her documents fixed but it's not like OP planned for this mess. 

in the end someone just understood the situation but i think that if i try to change all her documents, that will appear a cheating. better that I ignore hier problems with her parents and we continue to live as I found her. or what do u think?

[Bbking2 93]

1 minute ago, imsambi said:

in the end someone just understood the situation but i think that if i try to change all her documents, that will appear a cheating. better that I ignore hier problems with her parents and we continue to live as I found her. or what do u think?

Are you being serious? Why on earth would they change her age? Weird.

12 minutes ago, imsambi said:

I am not here to tell you that I was going to cheat papers, I think you do not understand me what I am explaining to you because of my bad English, but I am here to tell you to help me a situation which is this. where i come from is a muslim country and each country has its laws. my wife, I've known her since, but we're not allowed to hang out like you do. since I decided to go back to America, I went to ask for her hand at the end that I could bring her to the USA. so we got married a month ago. I started to gather her documents to file her I-130 application, but I had a concern for our different age so she just announced to me that her real age is 23 but since her childhood, she uses the age of 19 years old because when she was little her parents had to change her age for personal reasons. But the birth certificate that bears his real age has never used it in any document in his life. So nobody except his parents don't know about this. So I wanted to know should I change her birth certificate so that she bears the age of her birth? but since I was assured here that the age difference is not a problem in the application, then I do not see the reason to change his birth certificate. Not only but she just played the lottery this year with the age she has now so if I change her birth certificate, they will figure out that it is cheating..

 

 

 

[Samibra 15]

1 minute ago, Bbking2 said:

Are you being serious? Why on earth would they change her age? Weird.

 

I don't know why they did that when she was young. it doesn't matter why they did that, maybe they had a reason to do that.

[Bbking2 93]

1 minute ago, imsambi said:

I don't know why they did that when she was young. it doesn't matter why they did that, maybe they had a reason to do that.

Well I guess they gonna need that reason. Good luck bud you gonna need it. 

[Samibra 15]

2 minutes ago, Bbking2 said:

Well I guess they gonna need that reason. Good luck bud you gonna need it. 

Thank you for the advise but this age doesn't exist anywhere because she never used that, only the parents know that.

[Bbking2 93]

1 minute ago, imsambi said:

Thank you for the advise but this age doesn't exist anywhere because she never used that, only the parents know that.

OK just read the thread. Guess most advice is pretty much the same. You are screwed if you cheat the system. Not sure if you are even for real. But hey, good luck all the same. 

[Lemonslice 4,988]

3 minutes ago, imsambi said:

Thank you for the advise but this age doesn't exist anywhere because she never used that, only the parents know that.

It actually exists on her original birth certificate, as you stated earlier. Don't start with lies, you won't be able to dig yourself out.

[Rlewis 73]

Just now, imsambi said:

Thank you for the advise but this age doesn't exist anywhere because she never used that, only the parents know that.

So I'm just going to clarify...

 

her actual, true age is 23. Meaning her correct birth year was 1997. Her parents (for personal reasons) aged her down 4 years when she was a child, making her 19 currently. So her edited birth certificate says her birth year says 2001, changed from 1997, which is her factual birth year meaning the year she was actually born.

 

You're saying there is no more proof from her family indicating of the actual birthyear (1997) and now all documents say she was born (2001) which makes her 19.

 

So let's say you apply, and it all goes well - what if they were to discover that throughout the background check, they find her age has been edited? Or how about if they find this thread on VJ here of you saying she is actually 23, not 19? What do you think USCIS or in general, US Immigration will think of that?

 

Any attempts at changing age is falsifying information to the government. Unlike name, hair colour, gender which can be changed/surgically changed/adjusted etc (we do not need to discuss the controversial topics of gender reassignment surgery, that is not for this thread), you cannot simply change someone's age. Unless you have a time machine, go ahead!

 

But yes, you are free to keep the documents as is, but I would highly recommend changing it to the actual, original age she was. Because if by any chance during the background check that the immigration were to find out this was edited, you may not find yourself and your wife in a good spot in their eyes.

 

Best of luck.

 

 

[Samibra 15]

2 minutes ago, Lemonslice said:

It actually exists on her original birth certificate, as you stated earlier. Don't start with lies, you won't be able to dig yourself out.

I am not laying,  her original birth certificate exists but never been used in any documents because the parents changed it when she was young

[Samibra 15]

19 minutes ago, Rlewis said:

how about if they find this thread on VJ here of you saying she is actually 23, not 19? What do you think USCIS or in general, US Immigration will think of that?

Interesting. I thought here people try to help each other  but not to ruin other people's lives so I was wrong then to come here. hummmmm

[Orangesapples 1,954]

45 minutes ago, imsambi said:

in the end someone just understood the situation but i think that if i try to change all her documents, that will appear a cheating. better that I ignore hier problems with her parents and we continue to live as I found her. or what do u think?

You cannot change her documents, she needs to do that. She needs to correct her documents. Otherwise she will have big problems with US immigration, I guarantee you. 

 

It's crazy enough that people can change their sex on official documents in some places randomly, I've never heard of changing age but who knows. 

[Orangesapples 1,954]

1 hour ago, imsambi said:

I am not here to tell you that I was going to cheat papers, I think you do not understand me what I am explaining to you because of my bad English, but I am here to tell you to help me a situation which is this. where i come from is a muslim country and each country has its laws. my wife, I've known her since, but we're not allowed to hang out like you do. since I decided to go back to America, I went to ask for her hand at the end that I could bring her to the USA. so we got married a month ago. I started to gather her documents to file her I-130 application, but I had a concern for our different age so she just announced to me that her real age is 23 but since her childhood, she uses the age of 19 years old because when she was little her parents had to change her age for personal reasons. But the birth certificate that bears his real age has never used it in any document in his life. So nobody except his parents don't know about this. So I wanted to know should I change her birth certificate so that she bears the age of her birth? but since I was assured here that the age difference is not a problem in the application, then I do not see the reason to change his birth certificate. Not only but she just played the lottery this year with the age she has now so if I change her birth certificate, they will figure out that it is cheating..

 

Thanks

The lottery is immaterial, it doesn't matter at all. 

 

Are you sure she's telling you the truth?