Marriage after only one meeting?

[JFH 12,190]

I would also focus on quality over quantity. Good “quality” visits are better than multiple “honeymoon-type” weekends. Renting an apartment together and doing day-to-day things, seeing each other at their worst, managing finances together, and things like that is far better, in my opinion, than spending one weekend a month in a hotel where you just see the vacation-side of each other. I made multiple short visits (over 40) before I moved because I work for an airline and the cost was minimal, if any cost at all. But some of the visits were like mini-honeymoons. We would go to a hotel and have a good time. I made a few longer visits of 2 or 3 weeks and they were far better, even though we stayed at his place and did normal things like grocery shopping, repairing an old bike, choosing new curtains, etc. 

[Stein 276]

Why are we on page 2 of this conversation and still don't know where the potential spouse is from?  It's extemely important to this specific discussion.  When the OP asks for opinions but doesn't give the information to form a good opinion based on facts then it becomes "feel good" opinons.

 

I do say that a three month continuous visit is better then a few short term visits overall.

[Chancy 6,241]

10 hours ago, Stein said:

Why are we on page 2 of this conversation and still don't know where the potential spouse is from?  It's extemely important to this specific discussion.  When the OP asks for opinions but doesn't give the information to form a good opinion based on facts then it becomes "feel good" opinons.

 

OP's fiance is from Russia, but we only know that from checking OP's previous posts.  Yes, it would be better if people provided the relevant country information upfront or updated their profile if they want more accurate answers.