VAWA, Part 20

[lolaB998 128]

7 minutes ago, Librawarrior said:

Oh wow. That’s crazy. Did you interview yet?

Nooooo, I-485 got stuck on Received at the local office. NYC has crazy wait times, esp now with Covid...

[Blunt 167]

Please house  let’s be guided on this forum, I really need to address this and I dnt know if am the only that observes that !!

   There are some people on this site that are selfish/greedy,and would never ever share their experiences with you or give you the necessary information and they like to get information from good people ,..asides from @Stillwinning!!!😊 @sandranj @Roms2017 and some few good people on here  ..there are some people that are on this forum that are opportunist , once they get their green card or make headway  ,no matter what you asked them they would never ever reply you , my name is blunt am blunt ,I need to say this !! So figure people dnt suffer this !! @sandranj can’t answer all questions !!! We need to share information..they would not even come back to tell us how their interviews went ..but before they gat approved they would always sleep on visa journey disturbing everybody’s peace with their problems.and people would always be of help ..but once they  get  relieved,they will not even come back on here to share their experiences so as to help the other people in that line ..I dnt know if they want to take their GC to heaven with them ..so sad that some people are just too greedy ..

   there Was a girl I met on here ..she always call me at add hours and even when am at work ..she needs someone to talk to and give her hope and God used me for her that she even confessed but once she gets all her case done Approved she stop talking to me ,when I asked her that she stopped saying hi when she gat approved ..she blocked me lol ..someone who always use her call to wake me up in the mornings ,she even said she will send me money after she got approved cuz I always give her assurance that she will get approved and she told me that she gained her confidence back through me that if she gets approved she will send me money and I told her I dnt need her money lol ..at the end of the day she blocked me ...for you to know a lot of human beings are pretender on here ..I know we have more good people than bad people her name is @Yollande,they will reply when they need help once they get information they will disappear!! 

 

I also asked another guy today which his handle name is @Omega who have asked me for information before when he was sent RFE..I asked him question the last time he left my last message on his phone without reply the guy just left my message there in his phone and never replied and kept reading my message as am sending .i waited for another 7 hours he didn’t reply ..this guy has called me before when he gat RFE..,he gat approved and got his green card and never even come back to share his experiences,if you even ask them they won’t reply ..thank God for good people like us and the rest on here ..one thing I know is that if you are good no matter how life will be good to you and if you are greedy life would be greedy to you !!!some  People needs to stop acting like that ,al they care about is to get information and never ever release theirs !! 
 

 

this thread is organized and keep running by good hearted people like us that dnt hoard information,if other people are like this selfish people that hoard information this forum would have been shut down !!! I’m very blunt and outspoken..I like to say things the way they are!!! God bless y’all 

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

@Blunt lol..you are very dramatic..try to keep your emotions together..I believe we've all encountered lots of characters in our life and still counting..if a couple of folks decides to be shady..let them be.. it's thousands more on here to help. What about the people who come to me for help and when it's all done not even thanks...or the people who will even be mad at you for being a regular help here..lol..if only they knew it's a selfless act! Sandra has gone through so much here..someone who clearly sacrifices her time to help out and still be insulted and criticized! SMH!😏 Or do we talk about the ones who sit and wait for you to make a mistake so they can jump at it..lol..my dear, just focus on your journey..keep your eyes on the prize!🏆 This too shall pass!😊👍

[RoDaMo 58]

On 10/4/2020 at 9:53 AM, Ylx said:

Hi family! Hope everybody is doing ok and more approvals in our way!

I have a question I live in California I already have my EAD C31 and due on march 2021 and right now im preparing my stuff for the renewal ( also know there is a delay from USCIS on deliver the renewal cards), I'm looking for have my driver license ( btw im 40 and never had driver before so will be interesting the driving school), so as in california we have the AB60 law ( allow illegal aliens to have a DL)  Im wandering if I can apply under that law because if I use my EAD as a proof of legal document my DL will be valid only until my EAD Expire... What you guys recommend ? THX

Hi There! I am from CA too, try to get the regular DL... I have been getting that one, even if I have to renew it every single year!! 

[Sparkle✨ 372]

31 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

@Blunt lol..you are very dramatic..try to keep your emotions together..I believe we've all encountered lots of characters in our life and still counting..if a couple of folks decides to be shady..let them be.. it's thousands more on here to help. What about the people who come to me for help and when it's all done not even thanks...or the people who will even be mad at you for being a regular help here..lol..if only they knew it's a selfless act! Sandra has gone through so much here..someone who clearly sacrifices her time to help out and still be insulted and criticized! SMH!😏 Or do we talk about the ones who sit and wait for you to make a mistake so they can jump at it..lol..my dear, just focus on your journey..keep your eyes on the prize!🏆 This too shall pass!😊👍

I second you! 
There are givers and receivers in this world but the hand that gives more sleeps better  

[Blunt 167]

23 minutes ago, lolaB998 said:

I am so sorry to hear that! try to include everything you can! Sometimes even smaller things helps - maybe you have copies of IDs with the same address, gym membership cards, library cards, copies of letters, cards or envelopes sent to you both when you lived together showing both your names and same address. Also, I believe you can ask more friends or family who know you and your spouse to give you affidavits, those should be helpful. Good luck!

Thanks for replying me ..I sent them joint bank statements ..that’s the only thing both on our name..even the bank didn’t want to include me in the joint bank statement,had to beg them..we used the joint bank account for over 12 months ..it’s on our names and it was active ..that has shown commingling evidences ,they know I have limited things to submit cuz I dnt have ssn ..I also sent life insurance I was the beneficiary,the officer said cuz we dnt pay ..that dnt show intent of good faith of marriage lol ..I have a lot of solid evidences that I sent ..that’s all I can resend again ..I will not go and form fake things that I dnt have ..it’s what I have I will send ..and the most important thing is shared bank account ,I dnt even have ssn that time but I was lucky to have joint  account ..I Also have police report ,psychological evaluation with 8 sessions ,medical report of bruises on my head ..so what does he want again !!! Well am not bothered an inch ..I was just only surprised with what he sent but not bothered atall ,cuz have seen people that only have marriage certificate and psychological evaluation and get approved so why should I be bothered and it’s not like we have went to interview together and mess up the interview and want to use vawa as escape route ..I’m not perfect but have tried my whole best to come up with reasonable evidences to submit for abuse and marriage in good faith ..I will never worry myself for what I can’t control ..life is too pleasant beyond that !!! Thanks once again. 

[Blunt 167]

43 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

@Blunt lol..you are very dramatic..try to keep your emotions together..I believe we've all encountered lots of characters in our life and still counting..if a couple of folks decides to be shady..let them be.. it's thousands more on here to help. What about the people who come to me for help and when it's all done not even thanks...or the people who will even be mad at you for being a regular help here..lol..if only they knew it's a selfless act! Sandra has gone through so much here..someone who clearly sacrifices her time to help out and still be insulted and criticized! SMH!😏 Or do we talk about the ones who sit and wait for you to make a mistake so they can jump at it..lol..my dear, just focus on your journey..keep your eyes on the prize!🏆 This too shall pass!😊👍

Thanks @Stillwinning!!!😊 ..thanks that you understand what I try to bring out ..may God bless you abundantly..nobody is perfect but to me @sandranj And @Stillwinning!!!😊 are 95 percent selfless and kind.their  type is rare ..they  have helped me lot of times .even when I dnt send them a dime .. @sandranj gave me your direct number and spoke to me to calm me down ..May God keep preserving both of you and give you long life in good health  in Jesus name !! I like people to be loyal if not 100 percent at least they should try and be loyal back to those who helped them in any kind of ways !!  God bless you once again..I’m blunt need to speak out my mind lol 😂 I am not a coward our life begins to end the day we keep silent on things that matters ..God bless y’all 

Edited October 7, 2020 by Blunt

[Ylx 81]

33 minutes ago, NeverGiveUp Nov17 said:

Hi There! I am from CA too, try to get the regular DL... I have been getting that one, even if I have to renew it every single year!! 

Hi there thank you!.. Well happens my ead will expire in March 2021.. So is not even a year..

Plus Im still gathering info how to do the knowledge test so by the time I finally do everything would be less for the ead to be good therefore the DL.

Btw Have you had your interview yet?

[Blunt 167]

14 minutes ago, Strife said:

I second you! 
There are givers and receivers in this world but the hand that gives more sleeps better  

Yeah yeah ..you are right ..some people are just pure opportunist 🤣🤣🤣,when they need help or be facing challenges they would be so humble and always typing when they come out of the problem and you need their help ,they will read your message and never reply ..imagine someone you have helped before in one way  lol ..but just becuz you can’t see them in person they will act weird and selfish 🤣🤣🤣🤣 

[Makanaki 111]

1 hour ago, Blunt said:

Please house  let’s be guided on this forum, I really need to address this and I dnt know if am the only that observes that !!

   There are some people on this site that are selfish/greedy,and would never ever share their experiences with you or give you the necessary information and they like to get information from good people ,..asides from @Stillwinning!!!😊 @sandranj @Roms2017 and some few good people on here  ..there are some people that are on this forum that are opportunist , once they get their green card or make headway  ,no matter what you asked them they would never ever reply you , my name is blunt am blunt ,I need to say this !! So figure people dnt suffer this !! @sandranj can’t answer all questions !!! We need to share information..they would not even come back to tell us how their interviews went ..but before they gat approved they would always sleep on visa journey disturbing everybody’s peace with their problems.and people would always be of help ..but once they  get  relieved,they will not even come back on here to share their experiences so as to help the other people in that line ..I dnt know if they want to take their GC to heaven with them ..so sad that some people are just too greedy ..

   there Was a girl I met on here ..she always call me at add hours and even when am at work ..she needs someone to talk to and give her hope and God used me for her that she even confessed but once she gets all her case done Approved she stop talking to me ,when I asked her that she stopped saying hi when she gat approved ..she blocked me lol ..someone who always use her call to wake me up in the mornings ,she even said she will send me money after she got approved cuz I always give her assurance that she will get approved and she told me that she gained her confidence back through me that if she gets approved she will send me money and I told her I dnt need her money lol ..at the end of the day she blocked me ...for you to know a lot of human beings are pretender on here ..I know we have more good people than bad people her name is @Yollande,they will reply when they need help once they get information they will disappear!! 

 

I also asked another guy today which his handle name is @Omega who have asked me for information before when he was sent RFE..I asked him question the last time he left my last message on his phone without reply the guy just left my message there in his phone and never replied and kept reading my message as am sending .i waited for another 7 hours he didn’t reply ..this guy has called me before when he gat RFE..,he gat approved and got his green card and never even come back to share his experiences,if you even ask them they won’t reply ..thank God for good people like us and the rest on here ..one thing I know is that if you are good no matter how life will be good to you and if you are greedy life would be greedy to you !!!some  People needs to stop acting like that ,al they care about is to get information and never ever release theirs !! 
 

 

this thread is organized and keep running by good hearted people like us that dnt hoard information,if other people are like this selfish people that hoard information this forum would have been shut down !!! I’m very blunt and outspoken..I like to say things the way they are!!! God bless y’all 

@Blunt I would like to counteract your generalized opinion. I read with utmost attention all that transpired so far with your RFE today. And I have to conclude like @Stillwinning!!!😊 said, relax and let all these emotions fly by. So that you can focus on important things. 

 

No doubt some are opportunist, but hey such is life! Fingers are not equal remember!

 

However, some are fervent readers and are grateful for this platform. They may not have anything to share today because nothing has moved on their case, however when it does, this forum is their no 1 place to share either their good news or bad news!

 

Secondly, they may not feel that they are competent enough to answer questions - don't forget most of us came here as novice and still consider ourselves as novice (even though we are armed with knowledge from reading on this platform) until we are approved and feel that we are no longer novice in this rather unfortunate journey. 

 

Because we trust and are fans of this platform, we likewise go ahead and recommend this platform to whomever we deemed needs it.

 

The last point I will like to draw on is that, unfortunately a lot of people come in here and don't take their time to read previous threads! I've seen irrelevant questions (sorry to classify them as such) that were literally answered 1 page before the page the new question was raised and in my head I'm thinking just go a page (not even a thread!) behind dude!

 

In conclusion, you cannot generalize, it is not appropriate to generalize! There has been a lot of "unnecessary" outbursts today, that I think the energy should be channeled towards giving the IO EXACTLY what he/she wants AND exactly HOW its wanted!

[Blunt 167]

6 minutes ago, Makanaki said:

@Blunt I would like to counteract your generalized opinion. I read with utmost attention all that transpired so far with your RFE today. And I have to conclude like @Stillwinning!!!😊 said, relax and let all these emotions fly by. So that you can focus on important things. 

 

No doubt some are opportunist, but hey such is life! Fingers are not equal remember!

 

However, some are fervent readers and are grateful for this platform. They may not have anything to share today because nothing has moved on their case, however when it does, this forum is their no 1 place to share either their good news or bad news!

 

Secondly, they may not feel that they are competent enough to answer questions - don't forget most of us came here as novice and still consider ourselves as novice (even though we are armed with knowledge from reading on this platform) until we are approved and feel that we are no longer novice in this rather unfortunate journey. 

 

Because we trust and are fans of this platform, we likewise go ahead and recommend this platform to whomever we deemed needs it.

 

The last point I will like to draw on is that, unfortunately a lot of people come in here and don't take their time to read previous threads! I've seen irrelevant questions (sorry to classify them as such) that were literally answered 1 page before the page the new question was raised and in my head I'm thinking just go a page (not even a thread!) behind dude!

 

In conclusion, you cannot generalize, it is not appropriate to generalize! There has been a lot of "unnecessary" outbursts today, that I think the energy should be channeled towards giving the IO EXACTLY what he/she wants AND exactly HOW its wanted!

Hahahahaha,you said unnecessary outburst ..lol 🤣🤣🤣..not like that ..I wasn’t that bad about the RFE..cuz I know I will get approved by Gods grace ..have seen cases that are worst than mine and later got approved ..so I have hope ..it’s just that I am totally disappointed in some people that can call you odd hours to ask for information and you will pity their situations and give it to them base on one love ..but when they come out of it they will not even come back to say thanks ..well I dnt need anybody’s thanks but what’s so big in you just reply someone’s questions ..at least you always be the one to always come on here and ask everybody questions ..no matter someone want to know something in life there would still be somethings that we will not know that other people will know ..that’s why I asked the guy ..I am not generalizing atall..lot of people on here are helpful and not an opportunist atall ..just that some few people only want to take but would never wanna even give out information,these type of people dnt even come back to update the people on here the outcome of their case once they get approved ..the only time they come on here is to come and steal information and use ..but they forgot that sometimes is not how far but how well ..and nobody is gonna go to heaven with green card ..the reason why I alway take life easy and help people is becuz am not gonna take anything with me when I die and that’s the most wise mentality ,those that think they will live forever will be ashamed that life is vanity  when the reality set it ..help others cuz you have been helped too..whether they like it or not I will get approved ..if I haven’t helped these people in one way or the other I can never even be bothered but they are those that have pacified and gave out information to !! But it’s all well what will be will be ..the end justifies the means !!! GC sometimes dnt guarantee happy and fulfilled life ..The only thing that gives happiness and peace of mind is to do good ..may God bless us all..so @Makanaki i am not giving out unnecessary outburst lol or generalize people on her ..tbh we have more of  amazing People on here ..and may God bless the good hearted people on here !!! 

[John_ 188]

2 hours ago, lolaB998 said:

Nooooo, I-485 got stuck on Received at the local office. NYC has crazy wait times, esp now with Covid...

Same here. 
 

VAWA approved August 2019. 
I-485 in NYC Queens waiting for interview date to become available. 
 

[dreamer1 320]

@Blunt, STOP DUDE.... I am being blunt now.  put this energy into replying to your RFE. 

 

This name calling and victimization is really triggering me and i am sure other people. we are trying to help you since this morning.... take a break from posting! 

[Blunt 167]

6 minutes ago, dreamer1 said:

@Blunt, STOP DUDE.... I am being blunt now.  put this energy into replying to your RFE. 

 

This name calling and victimization is really triggering me and i am sure other people. we are trying to help you since this morning.... take a break from posting! 

You can’t really understand what am saying cuz you are not in my shoe..but it’s alright !!! I’m not worried or bothered !! But it’s what it is !!! I know that finding solution and replying the RFE is the solution ,what just disgusted me today was someone that have come through for that kept reading my message and never replied back .once he heard I have RFE..when he had his own RFE i knew how he was shaking and I pacified him but when he got to my turn he went mute ..that’s what am calling out not really bothered about RFE..I know I will get my USA passport in this country not just green card ..I have the faith in God ..just that am disgusted with some users on here ...am not been emotional cuz of the RFE atall ..ain’t gonna be the first and last to get RFE..God is in control ..was just saying how some people are 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Hritik Rohail 103]

9 hours ago, Blunt said:

Thank God you could relate to my message..now I dnt know what to send other than just writing a declaration to them ,thou they didn’t state that I submitted psychological evaluation and police report in the RFE which I submitted ..I have scar on my face due to what she did to me and I went to the hospital for treatment .i reported her to the police when she punched me ..I have police report !! The officer didn’t talk about that and I submitted it ..can a fake marriage have all these so much evidences?? They just like to drag some cases for no apparent reason .. but we will not relent ..we know they dnt want us to be happy 😃 but God is the ultimate!! What will be will be 

my thoughts to you --be very polite and write a new self affidavit explaining what you have, and if not what is the reason behind it Try to understand it is RFE not NOC! Most of us got Rfe at different stages.