VAWA, Part 20

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

3 minutes ago, dreamer1 said:

No, they are not saying that all pictures are of same place. Read again with a calm mind.  What the officer is saying is the the picture prove you were together when the picture was taken... very different thing. 
 

yoh need to calm down a bit... go for a walk/run, clear your mind drink some nice tea and some food and then get to work

Smiles...little things can make a big difference..sometimes more haste..less speed! I hope blunt for his own sake make it right for his approval.💁

[quistarrok 51]

29 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

Only C31 has anything to do with deferred action not C9. If you read the notice it says USCIS reserves the right to issue it or not to..at least mine says so..again renewal of C31 is what reinstates your deferred action status just like the notice says!😊👍

sorry @Stillwinning!!!😊 just googled around and found below - it seems to have the deferred action extended one has to get C14 EAD ONLY. I only keep thinking about deferred action because with current I-485 wait times - 15 months can be not enough. My case was approved in April 2020 and still no word for interview besides courtesy letter on medicals. Also confused why we need a deferred action thing if our I-485s are pending which are AOS and allow us to stay in the US legally. 

 

 

 

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

5 minutes ago, ponak98 said:

sorry @Stillwinning!!!😊 just googled around and found below - it seems to have the deferred action extended one has to get C14 EAD ONLY. I only keep thinking about deferred action because with current I-485 wait times - 15 months can be not enough. My case was approved in April 2020 and still no word for interview besides courtesy letter on medicals. Also confused why we need a deferred action thing if our I-485s are pending which are AOS and allow us to stay in the US legally. 

 

 

 

May I suggest you stop worrying about what hasn't happened yet? So many people here had same notice as you..didn't even renew C31..only renewed c9 and are still on course! Nobody is going to deport you..you will be fine! We can expanse on this matter all day still doesn't change anything! I never renewed my C31 either..I had lots of plans lined up but pandemic struck! Nobody knows what tomorrow will bring..sufficient for the day is it's own problems!😊👍

Edited October 6, 2020 by Stillwinning!!!😊

[Pinkrlion 2,713]

5 minutes ago, ponak98 said:

sorry @Stillwinning!!!😊 just googled around and found below - it seems to have the deferred action extended one has to get C14 EAD ONLY. I only keep thinking about deferred action because with current I-485 wait times - 15 months can be not enough. My case was approved in April 2020 and still no word for interview besides courtesy letter on medicals. Also confused why we need a deferred action thing if our I-485s are pending which are AOS and allow us to stay in the US legally. 

 

 

 

Not everyone who files VAWA has a US CItizen Spouse and cannot file I-485./I-765.  This covers everyone just in case you are needing to file I-485 later.  

[quistarrok 51]

31 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

May I suggest you stop worrying about what hasn't happened yet? So many people here had same notice as you..didn't even renew C31..only renewed c9 and are still on course! Nobody is going to deport you..you will be fine! We can expanse on this matter all day still doesn't change anything! I never renewed my C31 either..I had lots of plans lined up but pandemic struck! Nobody knows what tomorrow will bring..sufficient for the day is it's own problems!😊👍

Thank you again @Stillwinning!!!😊 and @Pinkrlion. You are amazing and apologies as I definitely worry too much but keep praying.

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

2 minutes ago, ponak98 said:

Thank you again @Stillwinning!!!😊 and @Pinkrlion. You are amazing and apologies as I definitely worry too much but keep praying.

😊👍 you'll be fine!

[Sandra G. 5,043]

3 hours ago, Blunt said:

Attached is my rfe below for my i360  ,Hello house @Stillwinning!!!😊 @sandranj @Lovelyday@dreamer1 @Wolf2020 @hopingwgrace @Sharshar42  @Ylx @isurvived @Ms. Lopez  @Roms2019 have received my rfe from the uscis and I want to believe that person Incharge of my case is a potential devil ,or likely an abuser lol 😂  ...I sent all the requested for my i360 application.yet the officer is still sending me rfe ..telling me my joint bank account does not show the intent of our marriage ..bank account that runs for over a year ..I sent bank statement of like one year to them for joint bank statement that have my name and my abusive spouse name on it ,yet the office is stating what we dnt even understand ..my lawyer told me that the officer might likely be a low key abuser lol..cuz what he is referring to is not making no sense ..

 

2.they said I sent life insurance that I didn’t pay during the course that we have it ..I dnt work my wife is the one that work off and on ..I dnt even have a social security as that time time we did the life insurance and I wasn’t working so how is that suppose to be my fault ..my lawyer said he is really gonna write a serious letter back to them !! That he is sensing some discrimination in my case !! But he said we will win by Gods grace .my lawyer said even those that dnt even have any proofs like bank statement gets approved ..so far they were able to show the abuse !!!

 

3. They said that we pay the rent by cash..yeah my wife is in charge of the payment of the rent and all she do is to just pay the rent and get receipt ..so how do we suppose to have access to those who issues receipt .so far we paid and we get all our mails in the house that’s what matters ..my lawyer said the officer is just trying to Bring up matters where there is no matters ..the receipt carries the address we receive all our mails back then ..and my wife is the one in charge of the payment not me cuz I wasn’t working as at that time and there was little I could say cuz she is so aggressive and abusive !!! My wife even fought with the landlord that she had to instruct me that I must not talk to them as well ..that is she sees me talk to them I will be in trouble ..the officer should clearly know that there is little I could do when am in an abusive relationship ,most especially when I dnt even have social security number and have not even started working ..so she has all the power on me .she threatens me everytime with immigration and deportation,the officer should be able to know that there is little I could do but my lawyer told me that they always make the Vawa case worst for men !! But I will not relent cuz I have everything to fight this case !! And God will give me victory 

 

 

4.now they telling me to resubmit the same things that have submitted with more pictures ,stating that they want to know our daily routine in our marriage ..my wife is an abuser ,she is very very domineering that I can’t even talk in the house ,she dnt let people come look for me ,she dnt let me go anywhere ..literally I suffered anxiety and depression through all of these ..I have psychological evaluation yet the officer is still trying to be naughty and mean ...but I will not allow that ..I will go hard for this so far I know my marriage is real and the officer doesn’t own immigration..I will not feel bad or relent ..I’m ready to fight this to any length cuz I know my wife really abuse me physically and emotionally and we even have what I suppose to have to proof the marriage of good faith ..just that some immgration officer are evil and they like to mess with innocent people’s emotions ..you know what they went through ,they almost die yet some officers would still want to act evil chz they might like be an abuser to and racist..

 

my lawyer said he will make sure you handle the case and address everything and try to let the officer know that he is just been considerate ..

I have chose not to even bother myself about the whole thing cuz what will be will be and have seen cases on here that they dnt even have any proofs and they get approved .. so I will just do what I have to do instead of thinking and thinking about one wicked racist potential abuser officer !!

 

 

Instead of your attorney comes up with this absurd idea of "discrimination", he/she should know that  USCIS is trying to know your  intent when you entered into marriage. 20% of the VAWA cases that I handled were cases filed by male,  I handled over 6.000 VAWA petitions, then forget about the bs of discrimination.

 

He should argue  about the secondary evidences, and about the standard of proof in VAWA cases.  I have hundreds of cases approved without one single commingling finances. If you didn't mention in detail how was your life with your spouse while dating then you should write again. 

[Sandra G. 5,043]

2 hours ago, Blunt said:

We never filed taxes together,I dnt even have social security as at the time we were together !!! I dnt work ..like few months after we got married she has always been abusive ...to the extent that he punched me ,threw many things at me that I got injured ..I sent all the medical report to this officer and psychological evaluation stating and showing all these to the doctors ..even with police report yet this officer thinks the marriage is not real ..my lawyer was so devastated with the rfe!!  But we would not let that weigh us down ..cuz Most Uscis officers likes to make the immigrants feel sad and mess with their emotions ..I know that already and am not moved an inch cuz I know marriage is real and I have what I could have as at the time we were together !! So I dnt stress myself atall about what I can’t control ..the officer dnt own the country ..God is the greatest !! And what will be will be so I chose not to worry my feelings about it ..I will sleep good and would not even think about it ..I know their plans 🤣🤣🤣..with all these going on in the world ,I will not allow one immigration officer somewhere mess up my happiness !! Never 🤣🤣😂😂

Blunt I think your assumption that "Most Uscis officers like to make the immigrants feel sad and mess with their emotions", is far from he truth.They are well trained officers.

[Sandra G. 5,043]

16 hours ago, Salyeen said:

Hey guys I’m really Confused I post before and thank u guys for making us held . 
 

i got a number from this website he saying he is a lawyer ( I have my own lawyer but just asking around ) 

 

The one from this website saying if u been abused physically u have show your face with the hit . My hit in my toe ! And totally flamed 

 
I just want to ask who get approved and what evidence u guys post because I really want to live a normal life but I’m so scared and scared of rejection , 

 

i gave them a pic of my toe hit by my abused ( my face not showing ) 

and letter from a psychological saying that I been in domestic violence 

 

and I sent them som text and letter from the bank when I transfer money to her and when she took money ( financial abused ) 

 

are those enough?? 
 

and it’s been almost 2-3 weeks I haven’t heard from them about prima facie is anyone Eligible for it .

It's advised  to show the face because people can get pictures from the internet. A letter from your psychologist will not be enough.You should submit a GREAT psychological evaluation stating about all  abuse that you suffered, number of sessions, onset of the problem, tests performed (BAI/BDI),treatment plan and referral, if needed.

[Salyeen 17]

2 minutes ago, sandranj said:

It's advised  to show the face because people can get pictures from the internet. A letter from your psychologist will not be enough.You should submit a GREAT psychological evaluation stating about all  abuse that you suffered, number of sessions, onset of the problem, tests performed (BAI/BDI),treatment plan and referral, if needed.

Hey the hit was 2 months ago and when she hit me she calmed e down when I said I’ll call the police then she started abused me Financial

 

so idk because I only had pics the toe for the Physical abuse but the rest I have good evidence Except the physical I could it get it right 

[Mercyme 271]

Vawa family my day has come. I have been pacing around now for 3hrs. Okay, so I have an interview notice for Oct 26th.

My timeline for anyone who’s been tracking:

Initial I-130/485 Aug 2018

I-485 interview/placed on hold Feb 2019

Filed I-360 Jan 2019

I-360 approved July 2020

Card arrival Aug 2020

I-485 interview date Oct 26th.

Please pray for me.

 

[dreamer1 320]

2 minutes ago, Godschild said:

Vawa family my day has come. I have been pacing around now for 3hrs. Okay, so I have an interview notice for Oct 26th.

My timeline for anyone who’s been tracking:

Initial I-130/485 Aug 2018

I-485 interview/placed on hold Feb 2019

Filed I-360 Jan 2019

I-360 approved July 2020

Card arrival Aug 2020

I-485 interview date Oct 26th.

Please pray for me.

 

Congratulations , you are almost there! Now hang on, keep calm and slay it! 😋🤗

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

4 minutes ago, Godschild said:

Vawa family my day has come. I have been pacing around now for 3hrs. Okay, so I have an interview notice for Oct 26th.

My timeline for anyone who’s been tracking:

Initial I-130/485 Aug 2018

I-485 interview/placed on hold Feb 2019

Filed I-360 Jan 2019

I-360 approved July 2020

Card arrival Aug 2020

I-485 interview date Oct 26th.

Please pray for me.

 

Congrats dear! Be blessed!🙏😊

[dreamer1 320]

8 minutes ago, Godschild said:

Vawa family my day has come. I have been pacing around now for 3hrs. Okay, so I have an interview notice for Oct 26th.

My timeline for anyone who’s been tracking:

Initial I-130/485 Aug 2018

I-485 interview/placed on hold Feb 2019

Filed I-360 Jan 2019

I-360 approved July 2020

Card arrival Aug 2020

I-485 interview date Oct 26th.

Please pray for me.

 

Congratulations , you are almost there! Now hang on, keep calm and slay it! 😋🤗

[Mercyme 271]

6 minutes ago, dreamer1 said:

Congratulations , you are almost there! Now hang on, keep calm and slay it! 😋🤗

Amen