VAWA, Part 20

[Pinkrlion 2,724]

13 hours ago, Hritik Rohail said:

Disagree, being co-signor vs. co- owner are two different things.This won't be considered as a martial debt.

That is fine to disagree, however anything purchased while married is considered marital debt, whether he is the co-signor or co-owner, and OP can discuss in divorce proceedings that she keeps the vehicle and the judge can order her to get a new loan.  The division of marital debt is handled in family court (who is responsible to pay what debt).

Edited September 20, 2020 by Pinkrlion

[Pinkrlion 2,724]

1 hour ago, Motherofchaos said:

hello my friends!

I'm new to VJ and posted my first question already. I kinda got attacked and a very nice member of VJ gave me the link to this thread. 

maybe you guys got the time to look at my profile and read my post?

I'll write a shorter version of it here tho:

 

im german and we live in Germany because my husband was a uniformed service member. his orders is declared to 2021 (idk the month)

 

BUT he got medical seperated like 2 months ago, irregardless the embassy in Frankfurt responded to his email that they are still the right place to send the application at.

 

my and my 2 older kids i130 did he send around the same time he got seperated.

 

so since we went back to the provisional order I filed at the court, i don't know what to do.

 

in case some wonder why he sent the i130, he took pills and was normal during that time ( that was when I "frozen the provisional order" eventho official thats not a thing)

 

regarding to people I've asked and reaches out, I should file for VAWA. because spouses of service members can live abroad and still file for Vawa. But hes not anymore now. But his Orders we sent says 2021.

 

And some say I should just continue with our i130 and wait for the interview and all the forms I'll have to fill out.

 

I don't k ow what to do since we live in Germany and not America.

 

Also, I might should get a lawyer. Can someone recommend one?

 

You will need a lawyer to file overseas.  You can find a lawyer in Germany.  There are others here that are overseas and you can talk with them.

[Sharshar42 208]

@Stillwinning!!!😊 After all the hassle and fuss i received my birth paper via dhl today. God is the greatest!

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

1 hour ago, Sharshar42 said:

@Stillwinning!!!😊 After all the hassle and fuss i received my birth paper via dhl today. God is the greatest!

Awww beautiful so happy for you! Just seeing this! WOW..you must be so relieved now! God takes care of everything!😀✨🌟💫

[FirstTimer 93]

On 9/7/2020 at 1:23 AM, Braveheart123 said:

Dear friends let’s pray that this new thread will give lot of VAWA and pending green cards approvals.

lets hope for the best 

Fingers Crossed

3 hours ago, Sharshar42 said:

@Stillwinning!!!😊 After all the hassle and fuss i received my birth paper via dhl today. God is the greatest!

Congratulations...

[FirstTimer 93]

3 hours ago, Sharshar42 said:

@Stillwinning!!!😊 After all the hassle and fuss i received my birth paper via dhl today. God is the greatest!

God is always Great... stay blessed.

[FirstTimer 93]

On 9/19/2020 at 6:36 PM, Fenix81 said:

Hi VJ community I will have my AOS interview next week for the  I 130 and I 485 submitted when I was with my wife but later was cancel by covid 19 my question is I applied to vawa on mach and I got the prima facie on April what I should do

go by my self to the interview and show the vawa application and ask for hold the AOS untill 360 final decision?

@Fenix81 i would say go yourself and tell them that you have I360 filled and pending. 

[FirstTimer 93]

I think yes . You can use it as financial abuse.

[Sharshar42 208]

2 hours ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

Awww beautiful so happy for you! Just seeing this! WOW..you must be so relieved now! God takes care of everything!😀✨🌟💫

Yes I am very much relieved, was about to give up. Thanks girl your words of encouragement kept me.

28 minutes ago, FirstTimer said:

Fingers Crossed

Congratulations...

 

26 minutes ago, FirstTimer said:

God is always Great... stay blessed.

Thank you 

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

12 minutes ago, Sharshar42 said:

Yes I am very much relieved, was about to give up. Thanks girl your words of encouragement kept me.

 

Thank you 

You know you're my girl! Always!😘😍😀👍

[Kiesel 19]

Friends, anyone willing to share their experience with me when they decided to leave their abusive spouse and any potential pitfalls that I should be aware of ? Would really appreciate it  

[Apolo 314]

6 hours ago, Kiesel said:

Friends, anyone willing to share their experience with me when they decided to leave their abusive spouse and any potential pitfalls that I should be aware of ? Would really appreciate it  

My experience was that once i left him, i feelth so relieved, and the first few days, it felt amazing, no fear, no anxiety about what may happen. One of my mistakes was that i didn't change my phone number and that i didn't file for a restraining order right away. Then again, my case was quite extensive, what i mean by that is that the abuse continued, and i had to file multiple restraining orders since he always violated them. He also hired a PI to find me and to continue to abuse and harassed me. Then again, then he also had like good moments, when he was saying how he was wrong and feel guilty for what he did and how sorry he is, but he never changed. He always went back to his mean and abusive behavior.  One advice that i def want you to follow if you can is. If something happens and he/she continue to abuse and harras, don't be afraid to file charges. I just recently filed charges, and that made hi stop. He went away for now. I didn't want to file charges because when you love someone, you always give them a chance, and you don't want to put them in jail or harm them, but just like a few police officers told me, and also the two judges and the states attorneys and the family center told me multiple times told me mine/your safety is important and if someone is trying to harm you that means that they don't care about you and /me/you have to do what you have to do to keep yourself safe even if it means that you have to press charges and to call the police not to be afraid. After i pressed final charges, he was warned by the judge that if he does it again, he will go to jail this time. So don't be afraid to protect yourself. 

[HereOne 9]

8 hours ago, Kiesel said:

Friends, anyone willing to share their experience with me when they decided to leave their abusive spouse and any potential pitfalls that I should be aware of ? Would really appreciate it  

- Financial resources to survive.

- If possible, get a restraining order. 

- Change your phone number. 

- Change all you passwords. 

- Spend your 100 to file VAWA (if you haven't already). It is really not complicated if you just follow the steps. 

 

- Start learning meditation and self-care (if you don't practice already). 

- Read books that help your mind and soul to empower you. 

- Never look back and be proud of yourself. 

- Surround yourself with positive people and things. 

[RD31 10]

1. Any idea what date range is being processed for i360 at vermont right now? My relative filed for i360 in September 2019. Can we expect a decision soon?

2. When i360 was filed, i485 was pending. During the filing of i360, it was requested to use the pending i485. What happens after i360 approval? How do we get to know if uscis is using the pending i485 or a new one has to be filed?

[Ana FL 242]

1 hour ago, RD31 said:

1. Any idea what date range is being processed for i360 at vermont right now? My relative filed for i360 in September 2019. Can we expect a decision soon?

2. When i360 was filed, i485 was pending. During the filing of i360, it was requested to use the pending i485. What happens after i360 approval? How do we get to know if uscis is using the pending i485 or a new one has to be filed?

I believe the lasted approvals were April/2019 but still some from 2018 are pending.

After vawa is approved your I-485 enters to line to your local office to be scheduled for an interview.