are Affidavits really necessary?

[AtlantaFalcons199 2]

are Affidavits really necessary? 

[Crazy Cat 42,236]

Not required.  Some people send them....some don't.  We did not .  Concentrate on quality over quantity..

[mushroomspore 3,044]

8 minutes ago, AtlantaFalcons199 said:

are Affidavits really necessary? 

No.

[geowrian 22,338]

No.

They are optional. If you want to include them, that's fine. But focus on good evidence first...affidavits would be at the bottom of the list.

[debbiedoo 2,339]

They are among the weakest evidence you can supply.

[Phoenix777 73]

No

[Sukie 1,465]

Affidavits CAN be important in certain circumstances, but as others have said, in "normal" situations, they are not necessary.

 

Here are some situations where they might be helpful:

1.  The couple is living with friends and/or relatives and does not have a lease or rental agreement or mortgage.  It is helpful to have an affidavit from the owner of the property stating the situation, and whether the couple is paying anything towards living expenses, or helping with household chores.  Example:  Our son and daughter-in-law are currently living with us as they save money for a down payment on a house.  While we are not asking them to pay us rent per se, our daughter-in-law is providing care for my elderly mother.

2.  You are a same-sex couple where you do not have parental support, you have an unusual age difference, you are from radically different religious backgrounds, etc.  It might be helpful to have an affidavit from relatives or friends who vouch for the fact that, even with differences, your relationship is valid.  Especially helpful when one or both of the parties is from a very rigid religion or a very conservative background.  Example:  My sister and her spouse are not from the same religion.  While our parents are still getting used to the idea, my siblings and I understand that our sister and her spouse have discussed the differences in their beliefs, and have considered the struggles they might go through with family and community.  We love them both, and will support them in their love.

3.  You live in separate places due to schooling or work.  It might be helpful to have an affidavit from someone (preferably in authority) who can help explain why you live separately.  For example:  I am Spouse #1's academic advisor.  I know that it is difficult for Spouse #1 to live in University Town while Spouse #2 remains in Working Town.  However, I know that Spouse #2 is supportive and visits Spouse #1 regularly, as I have hosted numerous get-togethers at my home for my advisees, and Spouse #2 always makes a point of being in attendance.  Spouse #1 is due to finish his/her <academic degree> in another six months, and will be able to return to Working Town at that time.

 

Just some examples of times when a supportive affidavit might be helpful.

 

Sukie in NY