Merit Based Immigration Concern (Split)

[zolotinka 47]

Just now, Daria Parkinson said:

Hard to have fun together, when apart for already more, than 7 months.

I’ve been apart with my husband for 15 months. We are managing to have fun together despite all the uncertainty and frustration.

[Daria Parkinson 43]

9 minutes ago, zolotinka said:

I’ve been apart with my husband for 15 months. We are managing to have fun together despite all the uncertainty and frustration.

I’m not that type of person, who can stay alone for such a long time. This destroys me completely.

[zolotinka 47]

3 minutes ago, Daria Parkinson said:

 

He never visited you during this time???

No. He wanted to come to the time of my interview  and we were so close to have it but it was cancelled and the borders were closed. 

[Daria Parkinson 43]

Just now, zolotinka said:

No. He wanted to come to the time of my interview  and we were so close to have it but it was cancelled and the borders were closed. 

My husband wants to come to the time of my interview too, but I’m afraid I just won’t survive until that time. We are not DQed yet. If it wasn’t for the small mistake, I’d be waiting for my appointment date already.

[Daria Parkinson 43]

5 minutes ago, zolotinka said:

No. He wanted to come to the time of my interview  and we were so close to have it but it was cancelled and the borders were closed. 

It’s possible to come visit him in the US, but you would have to apply for a tourist visa, which is too a hard process and will also be quite risky, so, in my opinion, not worth it.

[Daria Parkinson 43]

7 minutes ago, zolotinka said:

No. He wanted to come to the time of my interview  and we were so close to have it but it was cancelled and the borders were closed. 

Hey, since you’re from Russia as well. Did you hear any news on the US Embassy in Moscow??

[zolotinka 47]

Look, I’m not an expert of course and I really understand your frustration about „stay patient and strong“ but from my experience it is a very bad idea to consider love as a sense of your life. There should be something else in the foundation of your life. Something you truly love to do for example. Because what if love disappears? What is going to happen to you? You already have so many problems because you sacrificed everything.

Edited July 22, 2020 by zolotinka

[zolotinka 47]

5 minutes ago, Daria Parkinson said:

Hey, since you’re from Russia as well. Did you hear any news on the US Embassy in Moscow??

No news and no updates.

7 minutes ago, Daria Parkinson said:

It’s possible to come visit him in the US, but you would have to apply for a tourist visa, which is too a hard process and will also be quite risky, so, in my opinion, not worth it.

I’m learning about him coming here. I prefer to wait for my interview because a tourist visa is a temporary decision.

[Daria Parkinson 43]

42 minutes ago, zolotinka said:

No news and no updates.

I’m learning about him coming here. I prefer to wait for my interview because a tourist visa is a temporary decision.

Soon we’ll hear some good news.

I prefer to wait for my interview as well, because a tourist visa is more trouble, than benefit. 👌🏼

Edited July 22, 2020 by Daria Parkinson

[SalishSea 17,842]

3 hours ago, Daria Parkinson said:

Hard to have fun together, when apart for already more, than 7 months.

Many here have been apart for YEARS.

[Daria Parkinson 43]

2 hours ago, Jorgedig said:

Many here have been apart for YEARS.

I am not the “many”.  

[Lemonslice 4,859]

5 hours ago, Daria Parkinson said:

It’s possible to come visit him in the US, but you would have to apply for a tourist visa, which is too a hard process and will also be quite risky, so, in my opinion, not worth it.

What is the risk?

[Daria Parkinson 43]

4 minutes ago, Lemonslice said:

What is the risk?

Because they might not even let you into the country at the “Post of Entry”, knowing, that you’re married to an American citizen.

[Daria Parkinson 43]

5 minutes ago, Lemonslice said:

Did you receive treatment for your suicidal thoughts? You might need to look into the requirements for your medical exam.

What requirements?

[HRQX 4,145]

23 minutes ago, Daria Parkinson said:

What requirements?

Mental Health Technical Instructions for Panel Physicians: https://www.cdc.gov/immigrantrefugeehealth/exams/ti/panel/mental-panel-technical-instructions.html