Guess what? I'm getting a divorce.

[homesick_american 1]

My husband chose this morning to drop the bomb on me that he's been faking it these last couple of years and he's been lying to me about loving me.

So we're getting a divorce.

I will be coming to America on Sunday, but he won't be. The weird thing is...I'm not even really upset. I'm just angry about having wasted the last six years of my life on such a fcuking coward.

[Kez/JWolf 6]

OMG...... I am so sorry...

Kez

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

Oh, HA, I am so, so sorry. You're right: what a f'ing coward. Faking it? A real man doesn't fake it -- believe me, I know, I lived with someone who was "faking it" for three years and every day I wish he had told me earlier. Even if he doesn't love you anymore, isn't there one shred of decency left in him, one iota of respect that would have told you all this before, so you could have left the UK when it was right for YOU and not him?

Awful news, my friend. I hope you take some solace in your imminent departure for somewhere you actually want to be, amongst those who truly love and cherish you. We're here for you as well.

Edited June 21, 2007 by elmcitymaven

[rika60607 215]

Hi,

I am very sorry for you. ###### like that does happen, but it is not your fault in any way.

You are better off without a "faker" anyway.

What the hell did he fake it for??!!!! It is unfair that he did it to you, but why the hell did he do it to himself?

Rika

My husband chose this morning to drop the bomb on me that he's been faking it these last couple of years and he's been lying to me about loving me.

So we're getting a divorce.

I will be coming to America on Sunday, but he won't be. The weird thing is...I'm not even really upset. I'm just angry about having wasted the last six years of my life on such a fcuking coward.

[PlatyPius 5]

Wow.

Just.....

Wow.

What a chopf#ck.

[KarenCee 3]

I'm so sorry to hear about this. I don't blame you for being angry...I would be angry as well, to think of the wasted time. Hope the flight over will be a good one for you.

[Aniomaman 0]

This is devastating...seeing you going thru so much for his sake and him dropping this now. He's a pathetic excuse for a man, and like another poster rightly said...REAL MEN don't fake it. So sorry to heaer this. |Take good care of urself.

[MichelleandCraig 1]

We haven't agreed about other things, but that doesn't matter now. NO ONE deserves this and especially not someone who has sacrificed like you have. I love England (but I know it's another whole thing to live abroad...whichever way you're going!) but I know you've had a really rough time there...but you stuck it out for HIM. This is AWFUL what he's doing to you, and chopf*** and coward don't even begin to touch it. I'm so truly sorry for what you're going through. M.

[Dan&Tiffany 0]

Oh HA. I am so sorry to hear this! As others have said - at least you'll be back with family and friends soon.

[homesick_american 1]

He wants 50% of the proceeds of the sale of the house. I could probably get more if I wanted to go through a long, drawn-out divorce but at this point I just want to be rid of that pu$$y mama's boy. When the going gets tough, he runs to mama.

If he came down my driveway right now I'd beat the ever-loving cr@p out of him. I told him he is not welcome at this house and he is not welcome at my parents' house, and I'll do whatever I want with the stuff that the movers boxed up TODAY and are shipping to the USA.

He thinks he's gonna come and get his stuff. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. No he isn't.

[Dan&Tiffany 0]

He wants 50% of the proceeds of the sale of the house. I could probably get more if I wanted to go through a long, drawn-out divorce but at this point I just want to be rid of that pu$$y mama's boy. When the going gets tough, he runs to mama.

If he came down my driveway right now I'd beat the ever-loving cr@p out of him. I told him he is not welcome at this house and he is not welcome at my parents' house, and I'll do whatever I want with the stuff that the movers boxed up TODAY and are shipping to the USA.

He thinks he's gonna come and get his stuff. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. No he isn't.

He knows guns are legal in Texas, right?

[homesick_american 1]

He wants 50% of the proceeds of the sale of the house. I could probably get more if I wanted to go through a long, drawn-out divorce but at this point I just want to be rid of that pu$$y mama's boy. When the going gets tough, he runs to mama.

If he came down my driveway right now I'd beat the ever-loving cr@p out of him. I told him he is not welcome at this house and he is not welcome at my parents' house, and I'll do whatever I want with the stuff that the movers boxed up TODAY and are shipping to the USA.

He thinks he's gonna come and get his stuff. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. No he isn't.

He knows guns are legal in Texas, right?

Yup. He also knows my dad has matching 9mm handguns on his person at all times. My dad would never use them, but my soon to be ex is such a cowardly pu$$y that he probably thinks he would. MORON. LOSER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Aymerlu 3]

I'm so sorry you are going through this. What an a$$

[Ban Hammer 13,282]

My husband chose this morning to drop the bomb on me that he's been faking it these last couple of years and he's been lying to me about loving me.

So we're getting a divorce.

I will be coming to America on Sunday, but he won't be. The weird thing is...I'm not even really upset. I'm just angry about having wasted the last six years of my life on such a fcuking coward.

now that is the last thing i expected you to say.

[William33 110]

Sorry to hear about this. Best of luck to you.