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My soon to be ex-husband is a disgusting pig of a man. He's a cowardly pu$$y and the best I can say about him right now is at least I didn't have kids with him. THANK GOD FOR THAT.

He wasted six years of my life and I will never ever ever ever ever forgive him for that. EVER.

His coarse, crass, uneducated stupid fcuking mother of his can kiss my rosy red a$$ from now until the end of time. I hate her and I hope she dies a long, painful death. She came between us. She is a fcuktard.

Good for you!

I would like to dance on this woman's grave!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And this is why....

I have been in a similar situation. I call it emotional incest. His mother used to walk into his bedroom and go through his things to make sure he wasn't actually being with a woman. (This wasn't even her house, mind you.) Even his closet and his dresser. laundry..... She informed me that she didn't want grandchildren. Like it was up to her.

She is a real wacko. She doesn't have her driver's license. She doesn't cook. She obviously buys her clothes from the boys department in Wal-mart and cuts her own hair. (This would be okay if she knew how to do it.) She thinks women who wear makeup are whores. He's her only child and her husband is older. She kept her son in her house until about 36 years of age and he finally broke away. She's planning on moving in with him and having him as her "second husband". She comes in and "cleans" his house without permission and snoops. More like a sweep the FBI would do. He's 40 by the way.

I took it personally at first but then I realized it was her. I've never had a problem with any other mothers. I kept saying "I don't think she likes me." and he would say "Of course she does." and then finally admitted that she hated any woman he dated. "Just ignore her." It was like I was dealing with a jealous ex-wife or girlfriend.

BAM!!! My awakening: He asked me to make Thanksgiving dinner. Then, oh, somehow his mother was under the assumption that she was going to make it. Shock! She never cooks but okay. This is a woman who is taken out to eat three times a day. Then, she shows up with takeout food from a restaurant for Thanksgiving Dinner.

Later, she saw my duffle bag and assumed I was staying the night and went ballistic. She started shaking with rage and calling me the devil and telling me how much she hated me. It was the weirdest thing I've ever experienced. I couldn't even say anything. I was in shock. She kept running into the kitchen. I thought she was going to get a knife and stab me. During all this I was saying nothing, mind you and I turned around and he was nowhere in sight. I kept thinking someone was calling for a strait jacket. They weren't. He stepped outside! The father was so embarrassed he yelled at her and practically dragged her out of the house kicking and screaming. I kept thinking her head was going to spin around like in "The Exoricist". However, it seems that this is common in that family.

Afterwards, he was angry at me. I couldn't believe it. Still in shock from his mother's psychotic episode. Still in shock that a grown man would put up with his mother going through his house and snooping like that and still in shock that he would walk out and let this continue.

Finally, he comes into the house and it was the most bizarre thing. He defended his mother's behavior. "She did it because she loves him." Having a loving mother myself I find it hard to believe that a mother would not want her husband to get married or have children or date. How can you be that utterly selfish?

However, it explained a heck of a lot. He is impotent! Yes, impotent. I convinced him to go get a physical and they said there was nothing wrong with him physically.

It's been quite a while now. The rage does subside. He keeps calling me and telling me that he will never find anybody like me ever again and how sorry he is. He's alone now. Will continue to be alone probably for the rest of his life (unless of course, you count his mother)

Meanwhile, I am ecstatically happy and loving my life. Truly, the best revenge.

(Still would like to dance on her grave)

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* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

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well peeps, have a great day! I'm soooo outta here. See ya!!!!



* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

Complete Timeline

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Good for you!

I would like to dance on this woman's grave!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And this is why....

I have been in a similar situation. I call it emotional incest. His mother used to walk into his bedroom and go through his things to make sure he wasn't actually being with a woman. (This wasn't even her house, mind you.) Even his closet and his dresser. laundry..... She informed me that she didn't want grandchildren. Like it was up to her.

She is a real wacko. She doesn't have her driver's license. She doesn't cook. She obviously buys her clothes from the boys department in Wal-mart and cuts her own hair. (This would be okay if she knew how to do it.) She thinks women who wear makeup are whores. He's her only child and her husband is older. She kept her son in her house until about 36 years of age and he finally broke away. She's planning on moving in with him and having him as her "second husband". She comes in and "cleans" his house without permission and snoops. More like a sweep the FBI would do. He's 40 by the way.

I took it personally at first but then I realized it was her. I've never had a problem with any other mothers. I kept saying "I don't think she likes me." and he would say "Of course she does." and then finally admitted that she hated any woman he dated. "Just ignore her." It was like I was dealing with a jealous ex-wife or girlfriend.

BAM!!! My awakening: He asked me to make Thanksgiving dinner. Then, oh, somehow his mother was under the assumption that she was going to make it. Shock! She never cooks but okay. This is a woman who is taken out to eat three times a day. Then, she shows up with takeout food from a restaurant for Thanksgiving Dinner.

Later, she saw my duffle bag and assumed I was staying the night and went ballistic. She started shaking with rage and calling me the devil and telling me how much she hated me. It was the weirdest thing I've ever experienced. I couldn't even say anything. I was in shock. She kept running into the kitchen. I thought she was going to get a knife and stab me. During all this I was saying nothing, mind you and I turned around and he was nowhere in sight. I kept thinking someone was calling for a strait jacket. They weren't. He stepped outside! The father was so embarrassed he yelled at her and practically dragged her out of the house kicking and screaming. I kept thinking her head was going to spin around like in "The Exoricist". However, it seems that this is common in that family.

Afterwards, he was angry at me. I couldn't believe it. Still in shock from his mother's psychotic episode. Still in shock that a grown man would put up with his mother going through his house and snooping like that and still in shock that he would walk out and let this continue.

Finally, he comes into the house and it was the most bizarre thing. He defended his mother's behavior. "She did it because she loves him." Having a loving mother myself I find it hard to believe that a mother would not want her husband to get married or have children or date. How can you be that utterly selfish?

However, it explained a heck of a lot. He is impotent! Yes, impotent. I convinced him to go get a physical and they said there was nothing wrong with him physically.

It's been quite a while now. The rage does subside. He keeps calling me and telling me that he will never find anybody like me ever again and how sorry he is. He's alone now. Will continue to be alone probably for the rest of his life (unless of course, you count his mother)

Meanwhile, I am ecstatically happy and loving my life. Truly, the best revenge.

(Still would like to dance on her grave)

WOW! What a story!

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Outta here girls.. see u tomorrow :)

AOS:

2007-02-22: Sent AOS /EAD

2007-03-06 : NOA1 AOS /EAD

2007-03-28: Transferred to CSC

2007-05-17: EAD Card Production Ordered

2007-05-21: I485 Approved

2007-05-24: EAD Card Received

2007-06-01: Green Card Received!!

Removal of Conditions:

2009-02-27: Sent I-751

2009-03-07: NOA I-751

2009-03-31: Biometrics Appt. Hartford

2009-07-21: Touched (first time since biometrics) Perhaps address change?

2009-07-28: Approved at VSC

2009-08-25: Received card in the mail

Naturalization

2012-08-20: Submitted N-400

2013-01-18: Became Citizen

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uggh someone tossed tons of toilet paper on our street and some yards, even "decorated" bushes and trees...what a mess!!!!

Hubby called and said he saw tp on the highway towards the citycenter too...geeez, where did I end up here??? :wacko:

Nadine & Kenneth

Our K-1 journey

02/06/2006 filed 129F

07/01/2007 received visa via "Deutsche Post"

08/27/2006 POE Dallas

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AOS, EAD and AP

12/6/2006 filed for AOS & EAD

1/05/2007 AOS transferred to California Service Center

01/16/2008 letter to Congressman

03/27/2008 GREENCARD arrived

ROC

02/02/2010 filed I-751

07/01/20010 Greencard arrived

 

Naturalization

12/08/2021 N-400 filed 

03/15/2022 Interview. Approved after "quality review"

05/11/2022 Oath Ceremony

 

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* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

Complete Timeline

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Good for you!

I would like to dance on this woman's grave!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And this is why....

I have been in a similar situation. I call it emotional incest. His mother used to walk into his bedroom and go through his things to make sure he wasn't actually being with a woman. (This wasn't even her house, mind you.) Even his closet and his dresser. laundry..... She informed me that she didn't want grandchildren. Like it was up to her.

She is a real wacko. She doesn't have her driver's license. She doesn't cook. She obviously buys her clothes from the boys department in Wal-mart and cuts her own hair. (This would be okay if she knew how to do it.) She thinks women who wear makeup are whores. He's her only child and her husband is older. She kept her son in her house until about 36 years of age and he finally broke away. She's planning on moving in with him and having him as her "second husband". She comes in and "cleans" his house without permission and snoops. More like a sweep the FBI would do. He's 40 by the way.

I took it personally at first but then I realized it was her. I've never had a problem with any other mothers. I kept saying "I don't think she likes me." and he would say "Of course she does." and then finally admitted that she hated any woman he dated. "Just ignore her." It was like I was dealing with a jealous ex-wife or girlfriend.

BAM!!! My awakening: He asked me to make Thanksgiving dinner. Then, oh, somehow his mother was under the assumption that she was going to make it. Shock! She never cooks but okay. This is a woman who is taken out to eat three times a day. Then, she shows up with takeout food from a restaurant for Thanksgiving Dinner.

Later, she saw my duffle bag and assumed I was staying the night and went ballistic. She started shaking with rage and calling me the devil and telling me how much she hated me. It was the weirdest thing I've ever experienced. I couldn't even say anything. I was in shock. She kept running into the kitchen. I thought she was going to get a knife and stab me. During all this I was saying nothing, mind you and I turned around and he was nowhere in sight. I kept thinking someone was calling for a strait jacket. They weren't. He stepped outside! The father was so embarrassed he yelled at her and practically dragged her out of the house kicking and screaming. I kept thinking her head was going to spin around like in "The Exoricist". However, it seems that this is common in that family.

Afterwards, he was angry at me. I couldn't believe it. Still in shock from his mother's psychotic episode. Still in shock that a grown man would put up with his mother going through his house and snooping like that and still in shock that he would walk out and let this continue.

Finally, he comes into the house and it was the most bizarre thing. He defended his mother's behavior. "She did it because she loves him." Having a loving mother myself I find it hard to believe that a mother would not want her husband to get married or have children or date. How can you be that utterly selfish?

However, it explained a heck of a lot. He is impotent! Yes, impotent. I convinced him to go get a physical and they said there was nothing wrong with him physically.

It's been quite a while now. The rage does subside. He keeps calling me and telling me that he will never find anybody like me ever again and how sorry he is. He's alone now. Will continue to be alone probably for the rest of his life (unless of course, you count his mother)

Meanwhile, I am ecstatically happy and loving my life. Truly, the best revenge.

(Still would like to dance on her grave)

WOW! What a story!

Isn't it, though? I couldn't believe it happened to me. Ever have something so bizarre happen to you that you couldn't believe it was actually happening?

My sympathy and best wishes to Home_sick American. It will get better. My fiance and I are sooo happy. You can find it, too. There are some really great guys out there!

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lol Booty, that's right I am :P



* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

Complete Timeline

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Good morning all!!

HUbby & I just finished 2 weeks of our running regime !! Yahoo!!! i'm starting to not mind it so much.. starting to get faster and not quite so painful! :)

it's Tuesday!!

Edited by Emancipation

AOS:

2007-02-22: Sent AOS /EAD

2007-03-06 : NOA1 AOS /EAD

2007-03-28: Transferred to CSC

2007-05-17: EAD Card Production Ordered

2007-05-21: I485 Approved

2007-05-24: EAD Card Received

2007-06-01: Green Card Received!!

Removal of Conditions:

2009-02-27: Sent I-751

2009-03-07: NOA I-751

2009-03-31: Biometrics Appt. Hartford

2009-07-21: Touched (first time since biometrics) Perhaps address change?

2009-07-28: Approved at VSC

2009-08-25: Received card in the mail

Naturalization

2012-08-20: Submitted N-400

2013-01-18: Became Citizen

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Good morning all!!

HUbby & I just finished 2 weeks of running !! Yahoo!!! i'm starting to not mind it so much.. starting to get faster and not quite so painful! :)

it's Tuesday!!

Well done!! :thumbs:

Oh, and good morning, all. :):sleepy:

2005 - We met

2006 - Filed I-129F

2007 - K-1 issued, moved to US, completed AOS (a busy year, immigration-wise)

2009 - Conditions lifted

2010 - Will be naturalising. Buh-bye, USCIS! smile.png

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