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Pudum and Ken   0

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Hello all,

Just an update to let you know that I will be canceling the visa for Pudum. Come to find out she is not as nice as she leads on to be. The sad part is that Pudum was using the 2 children as pawns against me, and all of a sudden the whole game changed and it was becoming all about money. Oh and let me not forget to mention that she has a boyfriend. No wonder she wanted me to stop talking Thai and to stop learning Thai. Her excuse was the typical response from her, "I don't like". Hummm... How do I communicate with her family.

It's all OK, but an expensive lessen to learn and I should of heeded everyones advise back in April and quit then. But I could not, had to give her the benefit of the doubt.

The good news, I just had to look in my own back yard to find a nice Thai lady. Taking it real slow. She is here on a B2 visa, so look out for a change with me. You may see an page on here with a time line for an adjustment of status. And to quiet your minds, I did meet her after Pudum, and we have hit it off good. Will take it real slow. She goes back in September and we may go together and come back together.

Now I need to learn more Thai, she speaks little english.... :innocent:

OK I guess that's the update for now.

Ken

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Ken...

Sorry to hear about your recent troubles. I have heard a few stories of Thai women keeping a farang boyfriend but also have a Thai boyfriend in the background. I find it strange that she would go this far though. It took a lot of "balls" on her part to string you along as she did. Good luck on your new relationship...just take things slow.

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I-129F

Petition mailed to Nebraska Service Center 06/04/2007

Petition received by CSC 06/19/2007...NOA1

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Filed: K-3 Visa Country: Thailand
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Sorry to hear of your trouble. I'll PM you...

2-2-07 Sent I-129F to NSC

2-6-07 NSC received USPS mail, NSC then to CSC

2-15-07 NOA1 -file received

2-16-07 check cashed

2-23-07 touched

5-4-07 NOA2 approval -email

5-13-07 sent cancellation request letter

6-7-07 we're going to retry with a K-3

8-6-07 married in Thailand (dual language, dual representation prenuptial)

8-7-07 sent K3 from Bangkok

9-10-07 I-130 NOA1, (received at CSC 8-9-07)

10-9-07 sent I-129F to CSC

11-1-07 touched I-130

requested consular processing I-130 (http://www.uscis.gov/files/pressrelease/PN_i-129f.pdf)

9-13-07 I-129F for Spouse arrived CSC via USPS return rcpt. requested

4-1-08 NOA2 for K3 (I-134 supposed to be processed but processed I-129F instead)

7-11-08 interview Bangkok, passed.

7-16-08 POE arrival, 2 hours in Seattle Customs.

AOS I-486 sent 4-4-09

AOS NOA1 4-13-09 for all; I-485, I-131, I765

RFE 4-27-09 Thai official document in lieu of original Birth Certificate not sufficient???

Infopass appointment 5-26-09 at USCIS. Officer thought our doc was valid and doesn't know why the RFE.

7-28-09 EAD and AP sent

Social Security card 8-4-09

interview 9-10-09

10 year green card expires 9-17-19, Permanent Resident Card.

Resident since 9-10-09.

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Filed: Lift. Cond. (pnd) Country: Thailand
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sorry to hear about what happened, but good luck to you finding the right person to share your life with.

ROC Timeline

18 NOV 2010 Sent 1.8lb packet to USCIS in Laguna Niguel (day 1)

19 NOV 2010 Package signed for V SEMEGI (day 2)

24 NOV 2010 Package returned because USC didn't sign petition (day 6)

calendar reset

26 NOV 2010 Package sent out again (day 1)

29 NOV 2010 Package signed for by V SEMEGI (day 3)

29 NOV 2010 NOA1 issued (day 3)

03 DEC 2010 Hardcopy of NOA received (day 7)

07 JAN 2011 Successful walk in biometrics (day 42) original date 1 FEB

01 MAR 2011 Date on Approval notice (although it arrived after the card did) (day 94)

03 MAR 2011 Card received (day 96)

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Sorry about your change of plans, but I do hope it all works out for the best. The distance is the real killer with all this. Rhosie and I are constantly putting up with people trying to step between us including supposed friends and even ex's. Just keep believing and you will be happy as you were meant to be. Good luck.

AOS TIMELINE

12.08.07 - Got married

03.03.08 - Sent AOS package to Chicago Lockbox through USPS Express Mail

03.04.08 - AOS Package Received by V Bustamante USCIS Chicago IL

03.07.08 - Notice Date on NOAs

03.10.08 - Money order cashed

03.11.08 - Received NOAs for I-485, I-765 & I-131

03.14.08 - Received Biometrics Appointment Notice

03.16.08 - Case viewed online

03.25.08 - I-485 Application transferred to CSC

03.29.08 - Received Transfer Notice frm USCIS in the mail

04.01.08 - Biometrics Appointment Schedule @ 1:00 PM USCIS-Dallas

04.01.08 - Received CSC receipt notice of I-485 (Case received & pending at CSC)

04.01.08 - I-485 & I-765 Touched

04.02.08 - I-485 Touched again

04.29.08 - Received EAD & AP Approval Notice from CRIS

05.05.08 - EAD Touched

05.06.08 - EAD & AP Touched

05.07.08 - Received EAD card & AOS Touched

05.08.08 - Received AP documents & AOS Touched

05.09.08 - AOS Touched (5/12-13, 15,19)

05.29.08 - AOS APPROVED

06.06.08 - Approval Notice & GREEN CARD Received

03.30.10 - Sent I-751 Package to Vermont Service Center

04.01.10 - I-751 received by D. Renaud @ VSC

04.06.10 - Check Cashed

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sorry to hear that but at least you found out before she got to the US! Good luck for your future!!!

06/02/2006 - filed I-129F

12/16/2006 - Enter States thru Atlanta

01/13/2007 - Marriage

01/19/2007 - Filed AOS and EAD to Chicago

02/06/2007 - NOA that AOS has been forwarded to CSC

02/12/2007 - Fingerprinting in St. Louis

03/28/2007 - email notification that card production ordered!!!! (Day 68)

04/20/2007 - GC in the mail.....no more USCIS for 2 years!!!!!

12/29/08 - Filed I-751 to VSC

01/12/09 - NOA in mail

01/24/09 - received ASC notice

02/06/09 - biometrics appointment in Orlando

02/09/09 - touch

06/01/09 - approval letter in mail

12/11/09 - Filed N-400 to NSC

12/14/09 - Package arrived at NSC

12/26/09 - NOA in mail

01/22/10 - Fingerprinting in Orlando

03/08/10 - Interview in Orlando (passed)

03/12/10 - Oath Ceremony

Matthew Quoc-Minh *11/29/08*

7 lbs 6 oz. (3.35 kg) and 20" (51cm)

01/29/09 (2-month-check-up): 11.9 lbs (5.4 kg) and 22" (56cm)

03/30/09 (4-month-check-up): 16.5 lbs (7.5 kg) and 25" (63cm)

05/29/09 (6-month-check-up): 19.2 lbs (8.7 kg) and 26" (66cm)

12/1/09 (12-month-check-up): 22 lbs (10 kg) and 30.3" (77cm)

06/11/10 (18-month-check-up): 27.5 lbs (12.5 kg) and 33.5" (85cm)

12/13/10 (24-month-check-up): 31.7 lbs (14.4 kg) and 35.8" (91cm)

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I lived in Thailand for about a total of 2 1/2 years, and I can't even remember the amount of stories I've heard exactly like yours. It's so unfortunate that that type of thing happens, but personally (and I know I'll probably get wacked for saying this), I could NEVER ask someone to marry me after only spending a matter of weeks with them. Yes I know, the love at first sight thing blah blah blah, but love and then love and asking somone to move thousands of miles from their comfort zone is totally different.

Anyway, best of luck to you and I personally believe everything happens for some reason, whether good or bad, so something better is yet to come for you!

My Timeline

K-1 Process:

3/30/07 - NOA 1

6/25/07 - NOA 2

8/30/07 - Interview

9/13/07 - US arrival date

AOS Process:

10/5/07 - Married

10/19/07 - AOS application sent (I-485, I-131, I-765)

3/7/08 - Interview - APPROVED

3/17/08 - Greencard arrives

Removal of Conditions:

01/12/10 - Removal of Conditions package sent

01/19/10 - NOA 1

02/11/10 - Biometrics

03/16/10 - Approved

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I lived in Thailand for about a total of 2 1/2 years, and I can't even remember the amount of stories I've heard exactly like yours. It's so unfortunate that that type of thing happens, but personally (and I know I'll probably get wacked for saying this), I could NEVER ask someone to marry me after only spending a matter of weeks with them. Yes I know, the love at first sight thing blah blah blah, but love and then love and asking somone to move thousands of miles from their comfort zone is totally different.

Anyway, best of luck to you and I personally believe everything happens for some reason, whether good or bad, so something better is yet to come for you!

Thank you very much!!!!

Ken

Move on Take care

Oh I have moved on to bigger and better things. Thank you so much!

Ken

sorry to hear that but at least you found out before she got to the US! Good luck for your future!!!

Thank you so much and best wishes!!!!,

Ken

Sorry about your change of plans, but I do hope it all works out for the best. The distance is the real killer with all this. Rhosie and I are constantly putting up with people trying to step between us including supposed friends and even ex's. Just keep believing and you will be happy as you were meant to be. Good luck.

So true, Thank you and best wishes always.

Ken

sorry to hear about what happened, but good luck to you finding the right person to share your life with.

Thank you so much and I believe that I have found that someone special. I will keep my fingers crossed.

Ken

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Ken, I am very sorry to hear about this. I am glad for your new relationship.

Timeline:

02/20/2005 - Met first time in Bangkok, Thailand

01/19/2006 - "Unofficial" Wedding Ceremony in Surin, Thailand

03/19/2007 - Filed K-1 Visa petition at Vermont Service Center

08/30/2007 - Received K-1 Visa from US Embassy Bangkok

10/05/2007 - Arrived POE at Washington DC

10/09/2007 - "Official" Wedding Ceremony in Rockville, Maryland

10/23/2007 - Apply for SSN

10/25/2007 - Sent AOS/EAD/AP petitions to Chicago Lockbox

10/29/2007 - Received SSN

11/02/2007 - Received NOA for AOS/EAD/AP

11/27/2007 - AOS/EAD Biometrics - USCIS Glenmont, Maryland

12/19/2007 - AOS transfered to CSC

12/27/2007 - EAD/AP approved

01/03/2008 - Received AP Documents

01/05/2008 - Received EAD Card

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