VAWA, Part 18

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23 minutes ago, Shroy123 said:

Check it

Did u at least get the message I sent you? Still didn't get yours..hit me up again!👍

[AhmedEid 3]

14 hours ago, sandranj said:

It might take 10 to 

It might take 10 to 45 days.

Thanks

[Aprilvawa 61]

Hello everyone. I wanted to know if I can request my approval notice from Vermont since I have my ead c31 which to my understanding means that my Vawa has been approved. It’s been almost 3 three weeks since I got the new card production message. I need that notice to file for my AOS and also terminate my current status which is withholding of deportation. I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I didn’t need it to file for my AOS. USCIS tend to take their time sometimes if we don’t send them a reminder lol and I don’t want that to be the case for my approval notice 

[Shroy123 751]

2 minutes ago, Aprilvawa said:

Hello everyone. I wanted to know if I can request my approval notice from Vermont since I have my ead c31 which to my understanding means that my Vawa has been approved. It’s been almost 3 three weeks since I got the new card production message. I need that notice to file for my AOS and also terminate my current status which is withholding of deportation. I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I didn’t need it to file for my AOS. USCIS tend to take their time sometimes if we don’t send them a reminder lol and I don’t want that to be the case for my approval notice 

Vawa approval notice after ead c31 usually get it within 3 months.. 

[Hritik Rohail 103]

8 hours ago, Naguto7659 said:

Thank you so much and sorry for what you went through. I myself still depressed and cannot believe it has just been happening. Having someone you trust in the beginning makes world look like why it happened to me...

 

As for attorneys fees it’s around $8,000 to pay to my ex-husbands attorney but in monthly installments. No abuse or infidelity or any other language from either side in the final divorce degree. Just “in-supportability”. Though I know he cheated. Also we did sign a prenup agreement as I have been in medical field as icu nurse and was making more than him and plus parents helped me with buying a first small house in the USA. So we signed a prenup before marrying and when divorced  final divorce degree says something like “parties divorced in accordance with prenup”. So these 2 things: will paying his legal fees and having prenup be a red flag like you said as like marriage being a fraud and stuff (which is absolutely not right as it’s him just used me and abused me) to USCIS? I was too stupid to believe him.

 

i think yesterday my attorney told me that I just got I-360’s “card being processed” update as it means I will get c31 ead soon. Attorney did send the divorce degree right after the divorce was finished like 1.5 months ago and I had an RFE from USCIS at that time. And so we included it with this RFE response.
 

In short, does it mean USCIS made its decision already and at I-485 interview they won’t survey me again on the divorce degree and details of marriage / divorce and why there was prenup and I paid his legal fees...last thing I want to go over in my mind and mentally in front of a stranger officer again as it hurts even more. Writing an personal affidavit was the most painful thing I did in my life already.

 

sorry for my long message but just needed to speak away all what is going on in my head now. I am trying to spend more time with friends to just disconnect and worry less.

Pre Nap agreement before marriage is a proof of bona fide marriage and not vice versa.Most of the mature people married in the USA after entering  into Pre Nap and is very common in this society. A friend of mine submitted it as a proof of bona fide marriage during 130/485 interview and got approved.

[iamrpeu 2]

Mrs. sandranj ,

I thank you in advance when possible, please respond to a message I sent you.

 

Thank you.

[TBoneTX 45,850]

4 hours ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

my inbox..it was full!

Some people are altogether TOO popular.  

[mazi 49]

2 hours ago, Aprilvawa said:

Hello everyone. I wanted to know if I can request my approval notice from Vermont since I have my ead c31 which to my understanding means that my Vawa has been approved. It’s been almost 3 three weeks since I got the new card production message. I need that notice to file for my AOS and also terminate my current status which is withholding of deportation. I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I didn’t need it to file for my AOS. USCIS tend to take their time sometimes if we don’t send them a reminder lol and I don’t want that to be the case for my approval notice 

i am also waiting for mine. it is 4 weeks now i got C31. I pray we get it soon. all the best. 

[AhmedEid 3]

Hello everybody 

i wish all of you are fine 

i wan to ask if anybody here got the VAWA approval after 6 months because ny lawyer told me some cases get the approval after just 6 months 

is it true ?!!

thanks

[MariFD 34]

14 hours ago, Villanelle said:

Do you have a specific question for Sandra? Nothing will (directly) happen when you get your greencard. The greencard just means you are a permanent resident. For VAWA cases where its spousal abuse they like to see the victim has moved on (divorced) from the abuser- although divorce is not required. They want you to be safe! Because this is your son he may not ever be 100% out of your life. You should find a therapist if you dont already have one and discuss with them ways to separate yourself from your abusive son. It can be very hard but you need to take care of yourself first! You cant help him until you are stable. A local therapist can help you figure out what you need to do to secure housing under your name, the bills, bank accounts etc. You may also benefit from a social worker. The therapist may be able to refer you to one or you can contact your local DV hotline or call 211 and ask for social worker assistance. 

Thank you for answering.  

He leaves my home to do drugs for months with friends and then comes back again.  But he will start rehab.

 

I just don't want to get in trouble with immigration if I live with him after he finishes treatment.  I dont want they deport me . I love my son , I know its the drugs that make him into a bad person. Im in therapy.  

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4 hours ago, TBoneTX said:

Some people are altogether TOO popular.  

You literally had me ROTFL!😂😂😂😂 you keep the thread alive with the occasional jokes that sometimes serve as a comic relief! It sure does create a lighter mood. We appreciate you plenty incase we don't say it enough!👍☺

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3 hours ago, AhmedEid said:

Hello everybody 

i wish all of you are fine 

i wan to ask if anybody here got the VAWA approval after 6 months because ny lawyer told me some cases get the approval after just 6 months 

is it true ?!!

thanks

We've heard of those..especially in earlier threads..but not of recent! It all depends on the severity of your case and the discretion of the officer handling it otherwise it will take the usual time..which is a long time! Patience, patience!👍

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7 hours ago, Aprilvawa said:

Hello everyone. I wanted to know if I can request my approval notice from Vermont since I have my ead c31 which to my understanding means that my Vawa has been approved. It’s been almost 3 three weeks since I got the new card production message. I need that notice to file for my AOS and also terminate my current status which is withholding of deportation. I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I didn’t need it to file for my AOS. USCIS tend to take their time sometimes if we don’t send them a reminder lol and I don’t want that to be the case for my approval notice 

Although I got mine about a month of approval but the pattern has changed, based on the experience of folks here..it can take anywhere from 30days-90days like @Shroy123 mentioned as well...You can request it for sure..I've seen few people do and got response. Just that it's kinda still early for you..probably some administrative processing still going on..you'll surely get it.👍

[AhmedEid 3]

55 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

We've heard of those..especially in earlier threads..but not of recent! It all depends on the severity of your case and the discretion of the officer handling it otherwise it will take the usual time..which is a long time! Patience, patience!👍

Thanks for your respond i wish it will not be that long because i am going to lose my mind soon 

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14 minutes ago, AhmedEid said:

Thanks for your respond i wish it will not be that long because i am going to lose my mind soon 

Ooops! Try to keep it together Ahmed..it's best if you brace yourself for the long wait, then if it comes earlier..it's all good! Pleasant surprise.💁it's not an easy journey..but worth it. You have to learn to be patient! All the best.