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37 minutes ago, Villanelle said:

Divorce is civil. I didnt mean to confuse you- I was just trying to say that in courts in general (civil or criminal) anything alleged in it doesnt count. Its only what the final determination is. Does that make sense? 

 

USCIS is going to look at the final decree. If it doesnt mention anything about abuse (on either side) that is fine. Its only a problem if it says abuse (on your side towards him). They also do not care much about the specifics of the finances and property distribution. Of course if its something crazy like you will pay him 1 million dollars or buy him a Mercedes they may question if you are 'paying him off' (marriage fraud) But a standard divorce where assets are split reasonably (and you pay his legal fees) is not anything out of the ordinary. 

 

When I divorced my first husband I ended up agreeing to a settlement for similar reasons. I just wanted it to be over. Money didnt matter when compared to the stress of having to interact with him. 

Thank you so much and sorry for what you went through. I myself still depressed and cannot believe it has just been happening. Having someone you trust in the beginning makes world look like why it happened to me...

 

As for attorneys fees it’s around $8,000 to pay to my ex-husbands attorney but in monthly installments. No abuse or infidelity or any other language from either side in the final divorce degree. Just “in-supportability”. Though I know he cheated. Also we did sign a prenup agreement as I have been in medical field as icu nurse and was making more than him and plus parents helped me with buying a first small house in the USA. So we signed a prenup before marrying and when divorced  final divorce degree says something like “parties divorced in accordance with prenup”. So these 2 things: will paying his legal fees and having prenup be a red flag like you said as like marriage being a fraud and stuff (which is absolutely not right as it’s him just used me and abused me) to USCIS? I was too stupid to believe him.

 

i think yesterday my attorney told me that I just got I-360’s “card being processed” update as it means I will get c31 ead soon. Attorney did send the divorce degree right after the divorce was finished like 1.5 months ago and I had an RFE from USCIS at that time. And so we included it with this RFE response.
 

In short, does it mean USCIS made its decision already and at I-485 interview they won’t survey me again on the divorce degree and details of marriage / divorce and why there was prenup and I paid his legal fees...last thing I want to go over in my mind and mentally in front of a stranger officer again as it hurts even more. Writing an personal affidavit was the most painful thing I did in my life already.

 

sorry for my long message but just needed to speak away all what is going on in my head now. I am trying to spend more time with friends to just disconnect and worry less.

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