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58 minutes ago, NikLR said:

You havent even met, just dated onkine for 4 months.  He yells at you if you dont let him know when and where you are.  If your friend said this to you what would be your advice?  

I woukd change your email, block him on social media, and change your phone number.  He sounds crazy. 

^^^ What she said. Change your email, phone number, Facebook, delete him from social media, better yet block him and do NOT respond to his emails, calls, Facebook messages. 

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Move on.   You can go around and around in circles but that is the deal.

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You have little invested with this man in terms of money, time or emotion. This is NOT a healthy relationship or a recipe for future happiness. I suffered for years in a marriage with a person who tri

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You havent even met, just dated onkine for 4 months.  He yells at you if you dont let him know when and where you are.  If your friend said this to you what would be your advice?   I woukd change

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Just now, milimelo said:

^^^ What she said. Change your email, phone number, Facebook, delete him from social media, better yet block him and do NOT respond to his emails, calls, Facebook messages. 

Agree.....and prepare for the guilt trip manipulation attempts which he will try...... this needs to be nipped in the bud.....immediately.

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3 minutes ago, milimelo said:

^^^ What she said. Change your email, phone number, Facebook, delete him from social media, better yet block him and do NOT respond to his emails, calls, Facebook messages. 

I am too weak to do it I guess but I cant fight against my emotions, thats my problem

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1 minute ago, SomeGirl said:

I am too weak to do it I guess but I cant fight against my emotions, thats my problem

How old are you to not be able to discern clear manipulation (and potential green card hunting)? 

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I am too weak to do it I guess but I cant fight against my emotions, thats my problem

An intelligent choice now prevents regrets in the future......move on and seek happiness for yourself.

 

 

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"The US immigration process requires a great deal of knowledge, planning, time, patience, and a significant amount of money.  It is quite a journey!"

- Some old child of the 50's & 60's on his laptop 

 

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In summary, it took 13 months for approval of the CR-1.  It took 44 months for approval of the I-751.  It took 4 months for approval of the N-400.   It took 172 days from N-400 application to Oath Ceremony.   It took 6 weeks for Passport, then 7 additional weeks for return of wife's Naturalization Certificate.. 
 

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6 minutes ago, SomeGirl said:

He isnt looking to come to europe, he wants that we live in Morocco actually and I know its stupid I asked this but I needed to hear opinions about it

You live in Europe? Which Country.

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Officially confused as to what this has to do with VJ.

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26 minutes ago, SomeGirl said:

I am too weak to do it I guess but I cant fight against my emotions, thats my problem

Trust this from another woman who thought she couldn't fight against her emotions. STOP. There is no getting better for this man. He is a controlling person. You are your own person, able to direct her own life. You are a grown up, presumably so LEAVE. Leaving isn't even that hard when you haven't yet knit your lives together, haven't even met. You pull the plug on communication, you suffer through the short term pain of leaving him behind and the embarrassment of being so careless with your heart. But these things pass. They always pass. You are strong enough to leave. LEAVE.

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2 hours ago, SomeGirl said:

We didn't meet officialy yet but we did many videos in our free time together, I mean as video calls, and we do it almost every minute that we write and like that we stay till 4 a.m awake just to see and hear each other. But in this last days he just goes to work and leaves his phone at home and I have feeling that is because of me. I know he always brings phone with him and it was very unusual for me that he leaves it home. I have made many things on work just to keep in contact with him while working and my boss said hardly okay. I am just so unsure what will happen next because I am afraid that I will get more emotional hurt.

You seem very young and naive.  Please don't rush into anything, or send money, etc.

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2 hours ago, SomeGirl said:

I am too weak to do it I guess but I cant fight against my emotions, thats my problem

He may have entrapped you with his sweet loving words but its good that you are seeking some suggestions. If you can’t do that all once, do it slowly. Try not talking to him while you are at work or don’t do whatever he says you to do and you may get a chance to see who he really is.

 

Has he ever talked about his family, frens, work? Has he shown you any of their pictures? Does he ask about your family, frens, work? One wouldn’t hide such in a good relationship.

 

 

There was an article last month or so where one woman sold her home, goes abroad with few hundred Ks to live with her boyfriend, gets murdered by him within a week or so.

 

 

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41 minutes ago, arken said:

He may have entrapped you with his sweet loving words but its good that you are seeking some suggestions. If you can’t do that all once, do it slowly. Try not talking to him while you are at work or don’t do whatever he says you to do and you may get a chance to see who he really is.

 

Has he ever talked about his family, frens, work? Has he shown you any of their pictures? Does he ask about your family, frens, work? One wouldn’t hide such in a good relationship.

 

 

There was an article last month or so where one woman sold her home, goes abroad with few hundred Ks to live with her boyfriend, gets murdered by him within a week or so.

 

 

I have seen his family and he mine, and we are in secret together actually because our family thinks we are too young to be together, and we are 18+

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Have you decided when you're going to tell this guy to shove off? You have had some good advice in here. What is the rush to get engaged or married? If you think you can "fix" him, it is probably not going to work. Just my experience.

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Also, don't believe any nonsense that he tells you like he behaves this way because he is Moroccan.  I have been married to a Moroccan man for 7 years and he is the exact opposite of what you describe.  You seem very young and yes it will hurt to stop communicating with him.  But it will be better for you in the long run.  Best of luck to  you!

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