Moroccan Men

[SomeGirl 1]

I have a boyfriend that is from Morocco, we started dating for about 4 months already. He is a bit difficult person and he controlls ne in everything I do. He gets angry on me over simpler things like when I can't call him during work or to send him my pic. I always say sorry millions time because I truly love him. Do I have to be worried of what he does or tries to do with me?

 

Thank you in advance

[Jmeleecur 347]

This doesn't sound much like an immigration question, but I hear red flags about the relationship for sure 🚩🚩 Regardless of where your partner is from, you shouldn't be letting anyone control everything you do. 

[Crazy Cat 41,884]

You have just described a toxic relationship.  I would be very careful......good luck.  Life is full of choices.....try to make good ones.

Edited March 2, 2020 by missileman

[arken 4,197]

May be you do or you don’t need to worry, you would be the one to know more than any of us here about his behavior. Seems like you need to cautious though. Has he ever hit you?

 

The title of your post seems a bit biased though, may be “My angry boyfriend” suits better.

Edited March 2, 2020 by arken

[Jmeleecur 347]

13 minutes ago, arken said:

The title of your post seems a bit biased though, may be “My angry boyfriend” suits better.

I agree. The title for this post isn't appropriate for the question. Why should these relationship concerns blanket an entire country of men.

[SomeGirl 1]

He has never hit me or said anything bad to me. I just have feeling that there is something that he doesn't tell me but every time I check all is good. He is just very emotional person as me and I try to do my best that we stay together but being angry every day and getting together back on normal is not gonna every time to work.

[Crazy Cat 41,884]

11 minutes ago, SomeGirl said:

He has never hit me or said anything bad to me. I just have feeling that there is something that he doesn't tell me but every time I check all is good. He is just very emotional person as me and I try to do my best that we stay together but being angry every day and getting together back on normal is not gonna every time to work.

Have you actually met?   If so, how much time have you spent together?

Edited March 2, 2020 by missileman

[SomeGirl 1]

26 minutes ago, missileman said:

Have you actually met?   If so, how much time have you spent together?

We didn't meet officialy yet but we did many videos in our free time together, I mean as video calls, and we do it almost every minute that we write and like that we stay till 4 a.m awake just to see and hear each other. But in this last days he just goes to work and leaves his phone at home and I have feeling that is because of me. I know he always brings phone with him and it was very unusual for me that he leaves it home. I have made many things on work just to keep in contact with him while working and my boss said hardly okay. I am just so unsure what will happen next because I am afraid that I will get more emotional hurt.

[Boiler 45,524]

Move on.

 

You can go around and around in circles but that is the deal.

[Crazy Cat 41,884]

5 minutes ago, SomeGirl said:

We didn't meet officialy yet but we did many videos in our free time together, I mean as video calls, and we do it almost every minute that we write and like that we stay till 4 a.m awake just to see and hear each other. But in this last days he just goes to work and leaves his phone at home and I have feeling that is because of me. I know he always brings phone with him and it was very unusual for me that he leaves it home. I have made many things on work just to keep in contact with him while working and my boss said hardly okay. I am just so unsure what will happen next because I am afraid that I will get more emotional hurt.

So you haven't met him.......At this point, I, personally, would put very seriously thought into whether a real visit would be of any benefit.....I would move on.....BE CAREFUL!!!

Edited March 2, 2020 by missileman

[laylalex 7,285]

You have little invested with this man in terms of money, time or emotion. This is NOT a healthy relationship or a recipe for future happiness. I suffered for years in a marriage with a person who tried to control where I went, who I saw, what I wore, when I would have a child... it was misery. There were red flags almost from the beginning buy I chose to ignore them because I was in love, he was often caring and kind and indulgent, and I thought I could not do better, did not deserve better. I didn't trust my instincts. I paid for that.

 

You are here posting, which means you see the red flags. Pay attention to them. If something doesn't feel good, it probably isn't. 

[arken 4,197]

Agreed I wud be very cautious continuing the relationship. You may get emotionally hurt now if you break up but will recover soon. That level of hurt may become 10 times more in the future if you continue.

 

I just wanna point out one thing since you talked about pics, it is very normal to share explicit pics or do video call in such fashion, heck i have done it while long distance, but be very carful sharing such with someone you’ve never met.

[Crazy Cat 41,884]

Let me clarify......I would run....not walk......away from this relationship....

 

-missleman out....

[NikLR 13,227]

You havent even met, just dated onkine for 4 months.  He yells at you if you dont let him know when and where you are.  If your friend said this to you what would be your advice?  

I woukd change your email, block him on social media, and change your phone number.  He sounds crazy. 

[Crazy Cat 41,884]

1 minute ago, NikLR said:

You havent even met, just dated onkine for 4 months.  He yells at you if you dont let him know when and where you are.  If your friend said this to you what would be your advice?  

I woukd change your email, block him on social media, and change your phone number.  He sounds crazy. 

^^^^^^Best advice of the thread, imo....