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Both of us pretty much have similar beliefs and superstitions. Further, I already did some things that others view as different. e.g., I always wore home shoes. I never understood why everyone doesn't anyway? Why would you want to track all the dirt, grease, and filth from the streets to your carpeting where you might want to sit or lay? This is even more misunderstood in homes where children play! :wacko:

Here is my short list of life alterations:

  • Eat every morsel of meat from a bone.
  • Tea consumption has doubled.
  • Alcohol consumption has tripled.
  • I sit for a few minutes quietly before a long trip.

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Here is my short list of life alterations:
  • Eat every morsel of meat from a bone.
  • Tea consumption has doubled.

Noted here as well, and the only reason alcohol hasn't tripled is because we'd both be dead if we drank triple what we did before. We never have time to sit quietly before a long trip because I'm always running late!

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Noted here as well, and the only reason alcohol hasn't tripled is because we'd both be dead if we drank triple what we did before. We never have time to sit quietly before a long trip because I'm always running late!

Funny thing is I think my wife and I have had one bottle of wine since she arrived and I havent had anything else to drink besides that, I told her I would save drinking for our 20th wedding anniversary.

Thom n Elena

Arrived Grand Rapids 12/13/06

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Married 12/28/06 Husband and Wife finally

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Aleksandr arrives 8/29/07 7 lbs 19in

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Filed April 21, Received NOA May 5,2009

Biometrics 7/7/2009

Biometrics Cancelled 6/29/09

Reschedule 7/22/09

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Funny thing is I think my wife and I have had one bottle of wine since she arrived and I havent had anything else to drink besides that, I told her I would save drinking for our 20th wedding anniversary.

This reminds me of the scene in Traffic where Catherine Zeta Jones is drinking the wine whilst preggers and all her friends are mumbling about it when she says "What? I'm European, I'm allowed to drink one glass a day, right? I can do that, my doctor said I can do that. What can I do, I'm European?"

Русский форум член.

Ensure your beneficiary makes and brings with them to the States a copy of the DS-3025 (vaccination form)

If the government is going to force me to exercise my "right" to health care, then they better start requiring people to exercise their Right to Bear Arms. - "Where's my public option rifle?"

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When I was a child and my buddies and I payed army, we were fighting the Germans. Of course one of the (black and white) TV programs we watched was "Rat Patrol". I'll bet not many of you remember that one.

My wife also tells me she learned how to use and care for a Kalashnikov when she was in school. She's got my respect.

Rat Patrol??? I remember it quite well - thus, giving away my age. My favorite character was the British guy with the beret. My sweetie learned to throw hand-grenades as part of her physical education training in High School. She can also field-strip and re-assemble an AK-47 in under a minute as part of her military/police training. She left the Russian Police with the rank of Major. She has my respect as well.

RUS.GIFNatalia & BuckUS1.GIF

May 02, 2007 - Petition Mailed to Nebraska Service Center (and then transferred to California Service Center)

May 29, 2007 - NOA1: K1

Sep 19, 2007 - NOA2: K1

Nov 02, 2007 - NVC Received Petition from CSC

Dec 13, 2007 - NVC Processing Completed; Petition forwarded to Moscow Consulate

Mar 03, 2008 - Moscow Interview Date: VISA APPROVED

Mar 06, 2008 - VISA's received in Omsk

Mar 24, 2008 - USA Arrival; HALLELUJAH !!!!

May 31, 2008 - MARRIED

Jun 17, 2008 - AOS, EAD, AP Filed - Natalia & Artem (17 yr-old son)

Jun 23, 2008 - NOA1: AOS, EAD, AP - Natalia & Artem

July 15, 2008 - Biometrics: AOS, EAD - Natalia & Artem

DISCLAIMER: ALL VIEWS EXPRESSED BY US ARE NOT INTENDED AS LEGAL ADVICE NOR DO THEY ESTABLISH AN ATTORNEY-CLIENT RELATIONSHIP.

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My sweetie learned to throw hand-grenades as part of her physical education training in High School. She can also field-strip and re-assemble an AK-47 in under a minute as part of her military/police training. She left the Russian Police with the rank of Major. She has my respect as well.

Awesome!!! :thumbs:

Русский форум член.

Ensure your beneficiary makes and brings with them to the States a copy of the DS-3025 (vaccination form)

If the government is going to force me to exercise my "right" to health care, then they better start requiring people to exercise their Right to Bear Arms. - "Where's my public option rifle?"

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This reminds me of the scene in Traffic where Catherine Zeta Jones is drinking the wine whilst preggers and all her friends are mumbling about it when she says "What? I'm European, I'm allowed to drink one glass a day, right? I can do that, my doctor said I can do that. What can I do, I'm European?"

My wife did the same thing with Tea- What do you mean I cant have tea, russians always drink tea!!! caffeine is not that bad I just wont have a lot of tea.

My sweetie learned to throw hand-grenades as part of her physical education training in High School. She can also field-strip and re-assemble an AK-47 in under a minute as part of her military/police training. She left the Russian Police with the rank of Major. She has my respect as well.

Hmm changes the meaning when you are in the grocery "Hey honey can you toss me a pineapple?"

Thom n Elena

Arrived Grand Rapids 12/13/06

Finally Home

Married 12/28/06 Husband and Wife finally

AOS

Card Received 7/23/07

Aleksandr arrives 8/29/07 7 lbs 19in

ROC

Filed April 21, Received NOA May 5,2009

Biometrics 7/7/2009

Biometrics Cancelled 6/29/09

Reschedule 7/22/09

Biometrics complete only 2 people in office wifey done in 15 min

Letter received New LPR Card in 60 days WOOHOO!!!!

LPR Card Received

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I am a bit late to the party here but I will add my two cents

"The steel front door", my god, my bank would be easier to break into; oh, and that is after getting into the front of the apartment bldg steel door, up the tiny "lift" and opening the bolt lock that must be turned three complete revolutions to open the lock

"Tea, Hot Tea", never been a tea drinker and never a hot tea drinker but that is changing

"Soup", before I lived in Russia I think I tried soup two or three times, in Russia-it's a "main dish", almost every meal

"Look Beautiful when leaving home", Americans can go outside looking like trash, never a Russian woman-always presents herself the best on the street, I love this habit.

"lift or elevators", I need to go outside the lift just to change my mind, they can be small

"wrap up for cold"; must wear a hat, scarf, gloves, boots, socks, long underwear, a jacket, sweater, undershirt, etc for cold weather; my personal body temp is great down to -25 C, after that I think about a jacket, at -37, I like a pair of gloves and a cap

October 01, 2007 Package mailed to Vermont

October 02, 2007 Package delivered to Vermont at 10:06 by FedEx

October 03, 2007 NOA1 Notice Date

October 07, 2007 Touched

October 09, 2007 NOA1 Snail Mail

October 11, 2007 Check Cashed

October 23, 2007 Touched, suspect because of change of address by Petitioner

October 24, 2007 Touched again, no idea why

January 10, 2008 Touched

January 11, 2008 Touched again

January 16, 2008 Officially canceled but we will find a way to be together, either in Holland or some other country.

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"Soup", before I lived in Russia I think I tried soup two or three times, in Russia-it's a "main dish", almost every meal

I hate soup. Always have.

I'm really concerned that when someone says something like "It is this or that way in Russia", other people who have no idea will think that it's indeed true, and that it's true for every single person in my country. I know people share their experiences in this thread, and they have good intentions, but generalizations somewhat bother me.

Soup = :dead:

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Soup has always been a favorite of mine, and now that I've tried borscht I love it too!

As far as temperature goes, I'm always hot. I was in Russian in February, and in the home I wore my customary shorts and T-shirt. Natasha's Mama kept checking my hands, convinced I simply MUST be freezing!

"Soup", before I lived in Russia I think I tried soup two or three times, in Russia-it's a "main dish", almost every meal

I hate soup. Always have.

I'm really concerned that when someone says something like "It is this or that way in Russia", other people who have no idea will think that it's indeed true, and that it's true for every single person in my country. I know people share their experiences in this thread, and they have good intentions, but generalizations somewhat bother me.

Soup = :dead:

:)

I agree - all generalizations are false! ;)

I do very much enjoy everyone sharing their experiences, and think that is the proper way to view this thread - they are a collection of individual experiences, and your results may vary.

Kevin

------------------K1 Timeline------------------

05 Jul 2007: Mailed I129F petition

06 Jul 2007: CSC received petition

09 Jul 2007: NOA-1 Issued

10 Jul 2007: My check clears the bank

13 Jul 2007: I receive NOA-1 in the US Mail

19 Nov 2007: Touched

19 Nov 2007: USCIS website shows APPROVED

23 Nov 2007: I receive NOA-2 in the US Mail

12 Dec 2007: NVC receives petition

14 Dec 2007: NVC ships petition to Moscow embassy

19 Dec 2007: Moscow embassy receives petition

26 Feb 2008: Interview at Moscow embassy

13 Mar 2008: Received visa

18 Mar 2008: POE in Atlanta

09 May 2008: Wedding

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16 Jun 2008: Submittal for AOS

23 Jun 2008: NOA1 for AOS (I485, I765, I131)

24 Jun 2008: AOS checks cashed

15 Jul 2008: Biometrics appointment

04 Sep 2008: Received I-485 Interview letter

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08 Sep 2008: AP/EAD Received

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We had an "over the threshold" no-no the other day. I was going to pass her a drink through the doorway, and she said no way. Can't do it. Etc.

Got me thinking though, why did I carry her over the threshold on our first entry to the home?

Русский форум член.

Ensure your beneficiary makes and brings with them to the States a copy of the DS-3025 (vaccination form)

If the government is going to force me to exercise my "right" to health care, then they better start requiring people to exercise their Right to Bear Arms. - "Where's my public option rifle?"

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I am a bit late to the party here but I will add my two cents

"The steel front door", my god, my bank would be easier to break into; oh, and that is after getting into the front of the apartment bldg steel door, up the tiny "lift" and opening the bolt lock that must be turned three complete revolutions to open the lock

"Tea, Hot Tea", never been a tea drinker and never a hot tea drinker but that is changing

"Soup", before I lived in Russia I think I tried soup two or three times, in Russia-it's a "main dish", almost every meal

"Look Beautiful when leaving home", Americans can go outside looking like trash, never a Russian woman-always presents herself the best on the street, I love this habit.

"lift or elevators", I need to go outside the lift just to change my mind, they can be small

"wrap up for cold"; must wear a hat, scarf, gloves, boots, socks, long underwear, a jacket, sweater, undershirt, etc for cold weather; my personal body temp is great down to -25 C, after that I think about a jacket, at -37, I like a pair of gloves and a cap

Just returned from Russia a couple of days ago. Yeah....... the steel blast doors are a bit intimidating. What are they protecting against? It makes one wonder because there is generally less violent crime in Russia than in the USA. We should be the ones with the blast doors. An observation on Russian women: During my visit I was severely tempted to take photos of russian women in "every-day wear" for the benefit of my teenage daughter just to show the contrast between what Russian women wear to go shopping and their USA counterparts. However, I could not think of a discreet way of taking candid "walking on the streets" shots without looking like a pervert or worse. I guess my daughter will have to rely on my descriptions although actual photos would have been much more convincing. ;)

RUS.GIFNatalia & BuckUS1.GIF

May 02, 2007 - Petition Mailed to Nebraska Service Center (and then transferred to California Service Center)

May 29, 2007 - NOA1: K1

Sep 19, 2007 - NOA2: K1

Nov 02, 2007 - NVC Received Petition from CSC

Dec 13, 2007 - NVC Processing Completed; Petition forwarded to Moscow Consulate

Mar 03, 2008 - Moscow Interview Date: VISA APPROVED

Mar 06, 2008 - VISA's received in Omsk

Mar 24, 2008 - USA Arrival; HALLELUJAH !!!!

May 31, 2008 - MARRIED

Jun 17, 2008 - AOS, EAD, AP Filed - Natalia & Artem (17 yr-old son)

Jun 23, 2008 - NOA1: AOS, EAD, AP - Natalia & Artem

July 15, 2008 - Biometrics: AOS, EAD - Natalia & Artem

DISCLAIMER: ALL VIEWS EXPRESSED BY US ARE NOT INTENDED AS LEGAL ADVICE NOR DO THEY ESTABLISH AN ATTORNEY-CLIENT RELATIONSHIP.

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This reminds me of the scene in Traffic where Catherine Zeta Jones is drinking the wine whilst preggers and all her friends are mumbling about it when she says "What? I'm European, I'm allowed to drink one glass a day, right? I can do that, my doctor said I can do that. What can I do, I'm European?"

My wife did the same thing with Tea- What do you mean I cant have tea, russians always drink tea!!! caffeine is not that bad I just wont have a lot of tea.

My sweetie learned to throw hand-grenades as part of her physical education training in High School. She can also field-strip and re-assemble an AK-47 in under a minute as part of her military/police training. She left the Russian Police with the rank of Major. She has my respect as well.

Hmm changes the meaning when you are in the grocery "Hey honey can you toss me a pineapple?"

HAHAHAHAHAHA.......... good one. :lol: I will relay that to her and explain the meaning. She will get a kick out of it.

RUS.GIFNatalia & BuckUS1.GIF

May 02, 2007 - Petition Mailed to Nebraska Service Center (and then transferred to California Service Center)

May 29, 2007 - NOA1: K1

Sep 19, 2007 - NOA2: K1

Nov 02, 2007 - NVC Received Petition from CSC

Dec 13, 2007 - NVC Processing Completed; Petition forwarded to Moscow Consulate

Mar 03, 2008 - Moscow Interview Date: VISA APPROVED

Mar 06, 2008 - VISA's received in Omsk

Mar 24, 2008 - USA Arrival; HALLELUJAH !!!!

May 31, 2008 - MARRIED

Jun 17, 2008 - AOS, EAD, AP Filed - Natalia & Artem (17 yr-old son)

Jun 23, 2008 - NOA1: AOS, EAD, AP - Natalia & Artem

July 15, 2008 - Biometrics: AOS, EAD - Natalia & Artem

DISCLAIMER: ALL VIEWS EXPRESSED BY US ARE NOT INTENDED AS LEGAL ADVICE NOR DO THEY ESTABLISH AN ATTORNEY-CLIENT RELATIONSHIP.

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"Soup", before I lived in Russia I think I tried soup two or three times, in Russia-it's a "main dish", almost every meal

I hate soup. Always have.

I'm really concerned that when someone says something like "It is this or that way in Russia", other people who have no idea will think that it's indeed true, and that it's true for every single person in my country. I know people share their experiences in this thread, and they have good intentions, but generalizations somewhat bother me.

Soup = :dead:

:)

MY apologies, I should have stated, "according to my experiences"; I agree it is an over generalization

October 01, 2007 Package mailed to Vermont

October 02, 2007 Package delivered to Vermont at 10:06 by FedEx

October 03, 2007 NOA1 Notice Date

October 07, 2007 Touched

October 09, 2007 NOA1 Snail Mail

October 11, 2007 Check Cashed

October 23, 2007 Touched, suspect because of change of address by Petitioner

October 24, 2007 Touched again, no idea why

January 10, 2008 Touched

January 11, 2008 Touched again

January 16, 2008 Officially canceled but we will find a way to be together, either in Holland or some other country.

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