Going Into Deep DEPERSION

[Kjan 0]

I am sure .. I am not the only one.. And I know, that there are many more people out there who have it worse..

But, I am at witts ends. I dont know how to coupe anymore.. I am seriously DESPRESSED and very ALONE. I am slowly decomposing.

It has been over a YEAR since we have filed. 1 year and 8 days. We are under CR-1 DCF. WITH PAKISTAN. I have contacted Congressmen/FBI.. everything.. We have been in AP since March!

I feel that I am living at the IMMIGRATIONS BECKING CALL. When ever they say JUMP I SAY HOW HIGH SIR! AND, its getting to me .. I am tried of jumping..

I dont know what to do.. I am seriously melting at work thinking/writing about this. I have lost most of my "FRIENDS" due to my melting depression.

ANY ADVISE... Anything HELPS.

One Love!

Lilah

Edited June 14, 2007 by Kjan

[john_and_marlene 162]

See a doctor.

[debeselizz 0]

what kind of friends leave when you need them? you don't ned these kind of people in you life then.

get yourself together, see a psychologist.

this is just a begining, don't let immigration take over your life!

good luck,

simona

[simple_male 1]

I am sure .. I am not the only one.. And I know, that there are many more people out there who have it worse..

But, I am at witts ends. I dont know how to coupe anymore.. I am seriously DESPRESSED and very ALONE. I am slowly decomposing.

It has been over a YEAR since we have filed. 1 year and 8 days. We are under CR-1 DCF. WITH PAKISTAN. I have contacted Congressmen/FBI.. everything.. We have been in AP since March!

I feel that I am living at the IMMIGRATIONS BECKING CALL. When ever they say JUMP I SAY HOW HIGH SIR! AND, its getting to me .. I am tried of jumping..

I dont know what to do.. I am seriously melting at work thinking/writing about this. I have lost most of my "FRIENDS" due to my melting depression.

ANY ADVISE... Anything HELPS.

One Love!

Lilah

Take everything easy, don't let immigration process dominate your thinking. Take a deep breath, talk to friends, spend time with families. Life is much more important than immigration process.

[john_and_marlene 162]

See a doctor.

[Kjan 0]

See a doctor.

Umm. Thanks.

[Kjan 0]

I am sure .. I am not the only one.. And I know, that there are many more people out there who have it worse..

But, I am at witts ends. I dont know how to coupe anymore.. I am seriously DESPRESSED and very ALONE. I am slowly decomposing.

It has been over a YEAR since we have filed. 1 year and 8 days. We are under CR-1 DCF. WITH PAKISTAN. I have contacted Congressmen/FBI.. everything.. We have been in AP since March!

I feel that I am living at the IMMIGRATIONS BECKING CALL. When ever they say JUMP I SAY HOW HIGH SIR! AND, its getting to me .. I am tried of jumping..

I dont know what to do.. I am seriously melting at work thinking/writing about this. I have lost most of my "FRIENDS" due to my melting depression.

ANY ADVISE... Anything HELPS.

One Love!

Lilah

Take everything easy, don't let immigration process dominate your thinking. Take a deep breath, talk to friends, spend time with families. Life is much more important than immigration process.

But, wouldnt you agree when.. that is the ONLY THING I can think about.. I try to focus my thoughts towards more POSTIVE THINKING. Key word TRY. But, Its just makes me ... think.. about the GOV. The system.. so on so forth the list goes on. But, anyhow-thanks a million for your comments!

what kind of friends leave when you need them? you don't ned these kind of people in you life then.

get yourself together, see a psychologist.

this is just a begining, don't let immigration take over your life!

good luck,

simona

I need to .. But, dont have health insurance.. and when u say.. Just the Begining.. are you talkin in regards to Admin Processing?

[MaryandMian 1]

Lilah,

I have to agree if you are very depressed see a doctor first of all! Secondly, going thru Islamabad and being a CR-1 your AR/AP is going on now and in most cases from the statistics I have been keeping are running 6 - 9 months from the time of interview. Common names, jobs, or other issues may come up and make the processing longer. Remember that you will not have to AOS and your SO will be able to work shortly after arriving in the USA so this wait will be all the sweeter in the long run. Even if you applied for a K1 or K3 you still would have to endure AR/AP so take this journey one day at a time and do not dwell on timelines. Keep communication with your SO light and try not to stress too much on this stage of your processing. Hang in there and HUGS

Mary

[chaingang 7]

I am sure .. I am not the only one.. And I know, that there are many more people out there who have it worse..

But, I am at witts ends. I dont know how to coupe anymore.. I am seriously DESPRESSED and very ALONE. I am slowly decomposing.

It has been over a YEAR since we have filed. 1 year and 8 days. We are under CR-1 DCF. WITH PAKISTAN. I have contacted Congressmen/FBI.. everything.. We have been in AP since March!

I feel that I am living at the IMMIGRATIONS BECKING CALL. When ever they say JUMP I SAY HOW HIGH SIR! AND, its getting to me .. I am tried of jumping..

I dont know what to do.. I am seriously melting at work thinking/writing about this. I have lost most of my "FRIENDS" due to my melting depression.

ANY ADVISE... Anything HELPS.

One Love!

Lilah

Take everything easy, don't let immigration process dominate your thinking. Take a deep breath, talk to friends, spend time with families. Life is much more important than immigration process.

But, wouldnt you agree when.. that is the ONLY THING I can think about.. I try to focus my thoughts towards more POSTIVE THINKING. Key word TRY. But, Its just makes me ... think.. about the GOV. The system.. so on so forth the list goes on. But, anyhow-thanks a million for your comments!

what kind of friends leave when you need them? you don't ned these kind of people in you life then.

get yourself together, see a psychologist.

this is just a begining, don't let immigration take over your life!

good luck,

simona

I need to .. But, dont have health insurance.. and when u say.. Just the Begining.. are you talkin in regards to Admin Processing?

it is one year for you and ur worried and mine is 4th year started and i am still away from my wife and my kid and i promised my self I WILL NOT GIVE UP NOR I WILL TAKE DEPRESSION AND I WILL FIGHT TILL TO THE LAST BULLET . its not easy i can bet that , your going to work and coz of this damn immigration i have wasted my 3 precious years of my life , neither i completed my masters nor i got a job but now i am get back to my Masters and inshallah if Allah is willing i will overcome my all difficulties , u might be with your wife and my wife and my kid was away from me for like 3 years man , but I and my wife both has to fight for our right and we both promised no matter what is going to happen we will not give up nor we will get depress .

I went to interivew and i was denied i was so close to my destination and once again i came in to waiting list Now we hired a lawyer and she is doing fantastic job for us . So I and my wife both are used to it now inshallah Allah will help you too , get use to it and dont take any depression i wish u could exchange ur depression with me and i promise you i will be happy with your depression but i am use to my day to day stuff so i am not taking any depression if i am getting visa or not getting visa i will live to the day Allah is willing , only visa is not life brother , ur life ur health is everything , so get use to it and dont worry about anything

pray 5 times and remember Allah you remember Allah , Allah will remember you

regards

chaingang

[TracyLuis 0]

This isn't the answer for everyone, but when I was feeling that way, my doctor put me on low dosage Zoloft. It helped me cope tremendously.

But without health insurance, that could be costly, I know.

[john_and_marlene 162]

If your hand got cut off would you say "Oh well, I don't have insurance so I'll just have to live without a hand"?

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

If your hand got cut off would you say "Oh well, I don't have insurance so I'll just have to live without a hand"?

I went a spell without health insurance. I visited an urgent care center $50 and got a free script by simply saying "hey I am between health insurance coverage, would you happen to have any samples".

[Kjan 0]

UM JOHN. WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO GET AT? Your comments are very RUDE

If your hand got cut off would you say "Oh well, I don't have insurance so I'll just have to live without a hand"?

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

UM JOHN. WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO GET AT? Your comments are very RUDE

If your hand got cut off would you say "Oh well, I don't have insurance so I'll just have to live without a hand"?

Not really, if you are as depressed as you say you are then you NEED TO SEE A DOCTOR!

[Kjan 0]

I will figure something out. I have no choice

UM JOHN. WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO GET AT? Your comments are very RUDE

If your hand got cut off would you say "Oh well, I don't have insurance so I'll just have to live without a hand"?

Not really, if you are as depressed as you say you are then you NEED TO SEE A DOCTOR!

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I will figure something out. I have no choice

UM JOHN. WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO GET AT? Your comments are very RUDE

If your hand got cut off would you say "Oh well, I don't have insurance so I'll just have to live without a hand"?

Not really, if you are as depressed as you say you are then you NEED TO SEE A DOCTOR!