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Hey, another one for the club. I HATE my husband's ex-wife with a vengence!!! Not only for what she did to him, but the way she's poisoined their daughter against him, and restricted their time together by keeping her busy all the time, dropping her off late, collecting her hours early, saying she cant possibly stay the night for this or that reason. This is even with them having joint custody. She's also been feeding their daughter lies for the past 14 years that she is somehow owed by my husband. Well, she's not owed a penny. In fact she's the one that owes us. We actually gave my step-daugter a copy of the divorce decree (she asked to see it, and she isnt a child anymore) which states exactly what was/is what, I think she was rather surprised the extent to which her mother lied to her all these years.

Hey, the ex is still making life hell for us, we had to see our lawyer on Monday because of another lie of hers.

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16th December 2005 - Sent I-130, AOS, EAD & AP USPS overnight to Chicago Lockbox

18th December 2005 - Received at Chicago 9.18pm.

23rd December 2005 - NOAs for I-130, AOS, EAD, AP!! Didn't expect them that quickly

13th January 2006 - RFE for Medical and additional I-864 info

17th January 2006 - INFOPASS Apt about RFE.

23rd January 2006 - Appointment notice for Biometrics on 10th Feb.

10th February 2006 - Biometrics Appointment

21st February 2006 - Medical. Cost $250 including all blood tests, Td Shot, TB test and Titers for MMR and Varicella.

27th February 2006 - Appointment with immigration lawyer re. RFE for I-864.

1st March 2006 - Final results Medical. Papers in hand to send.

10th March 2006 - RFE responses to Lees Summit

13th March 2006 - RFE responses signed for at Lees Summit

24th March 2006 - Emergency AP approved in Omaha

28th March 2006- Collected AP

31st March 2006 - EAD Approval online

7th April 2006 - EAD arrived in mailbox.

21st April 2006- Received Interview Date for 22nd June

9th May 2006- Received SSN

22nd June 2006- AOS INTERVIEW APPROVED

REMOVING CONDITIONS

June 20 2008 - Package mailed to CSC under new rules. Would have been an NSC transfer

June 23 2008 - Package recieved at CSC

June 27 2008 - Recieve NOA1

July 16 2008 - Biometrics

July 17 2008 - Touched

September 9 2008 - Card production ordered

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Welshcookie   17

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coooool.....an ex hating thread!!!! Can I join??? :lol:

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Sure can :thumbs:

PEGGY & ROGER

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K-1/K-2 VISA'S APPROVED IN MONTREAL MAY 2, 2005

K-1/K-2 AOS APPROVED IN ATLANTA MAY 17, 2006

10 year GC Approved - APRIL 16th ,2009 - Peggy and Jonathan's......

Still waiting for our cards...Had to file I-90 as they sent them to the wrong address.

March 9th, 2010, Received GC that has been lost in the mail for 10 months. Still waiting for my son's that is lost as well.

Filed Waiver for my son's 10 year GC and it was approved. He finally received his GC after its been missing for 2 years.

Thanking God this is over for 10 years.

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Don't get me started either!!! My husband's ex is psycho, and a lazy money grabbing b***h!@!!!! She sits on her backside doing nothing, while I work full time (from the very minute I got my EAD) and is always demanding more and more. She is now threatening to take hubby back to court for more child support (dammit, only the lawyers ever win!! It will cost more in fees than the amount involved - in fact she could get the support reduced!) She has poisoned one of my stepkids against me, so that the 22 yr old hasn't spoken to me in 18 months.

And she is never going to lay a finger on one penny of MY MONEY!!!!!

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

My ex on the other hand is a saint in comparison. Honestly!

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2004 Awaiting my divorce

Decree nisi 29th July YAYYYYYYYYYY

15th Dec DIVORCED AT LAST!!!!

Dec 23 decree arrives, I-129F sent to Nebraska!!!

Dec 27 NOA1

Feb 16 2005 NOA2 (51 days)

May 17 INTERVIEW 9am!!!! (day 141) Approved

May 30 Arrived POE Chicago (flight delayed!!)

June 13 applied for SSN

June 30 Wedding on beach at sunset awwwww

AOS 2005

July 11 Sent off AOS/AP/EAD to Chicago

Sep 1 I485 transferred to CSC

Sep 15 EAD and AP approved (59 days)

Nov 25 Green card and Welcome letter arrive in mail (no interview) 130 days

Removing Conditions 2007

Aug 15 I-751 sent to Nebraska

Sep 14 NOA1 rec'd, transferred to CSC again

Sep 21 rec'd bios appt for 9/28/07

Jan 26 2008 Approved. 10 Yr card received 1/28/08.

Naturalization 2008

Sep 8 N-400 sent to Nebraska

Sep 11 Priority date

Oct 7 Biometrics

July 10 2009 - Interview, approved!

Aug 20 Oath ceremony

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Can I join too?

Filing I 360 3rd Nov 2005

Prima facie determination received from Vermont 20th Nov 2005

DIVORCED JANUARY 25th 2006

EAD applied for again (jeez I need to work ) 28th Feb 2006

Removal hearing July 12th 2006

RFE's received for I360 and EAD 13th October 2006

NOID received March 2007

EAD denied March 2007

Back to Immigration Court April 18th 2007

NOID request for evidence received USCIS 3rd May 2007

I 360 touched May 31st 2007

I 360 actually approved May 30th 2007

EAD filed June 23rd 2007

I 485 filed July 24th 2007

NOA1 for I 485 August 1st 2007

EAD approved August 6th 2007

Medical with CS August 28th 2007

Biometrics August 24th 2007

Paperwork sent to Immigration Judge to finally terminate removal proceedings September 10th 2007

 

GREEN CARD FINALLY APPROVED AFTER 4 YEARS September 9th 2008 :D

 

N-400 Filed online 03/04/2018

NOA online 03/05/2018- projected Citizenship completion date December 2018

 

 

 

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Gosh. I thought I was the only one. However, I rarely bash because I don't want it to seem that I'm just a bitter ex. Uggghhh, and yes, he's mental, too.

Makes me feel a little better knowing that I have very good "relationships" with my only seroius exBOYFRIEND and my second ex-husband. I actually like both of those guys. They are good people but that first ex.... man, he makes me sick and unfortunately, he's the one I share the kids with. boooooooooooo!!!

My 2nd ex-husband taught me something very valuable: keep my mouth shut. don't make comments...when A-hole calls, listen to what he says, state only want he needs to know regarding the kids, and answer questions DIRECTLY, and again, don't make comments.

I hate Karen's ex, he's a piece of sh!t

You described him perfectly darling :)

Isn't it ironic that the people we once loved the most are the people we hate the most.

I was young and stupid when I married my first husband. :lol:

I know now that it wasnt love, it was hell :thumbs:

Same here. He was almost 4 years older...a big age difference when you're a child. When I was 13 he succeeded in getting me to...... at 15 I was knocked up, 18 married... uuuggghhhh.

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Well... my son's dad and I get along fairly well... while our son is in the curren vicinity... hehe

As soon as Dev leaves the room, he is wanting to know... "Do ya miss me? I miss you... I know you haven't been with anybody since you last saw Jamal a year ago... "

Gawd!!! How disgusting! The day Jesse and his girlfriend got married, he brought Dev home that night... and tried to get "physical" with me... what a jerk... other than the sex thing... we get along okay... until he doesn't do what I think is right for Dev... but, so far... I can say... he is a good dad...

just HATE HATE HATE having to fend him off!!!

GAK!!!

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In addition to the daughter being cared for by another woman, there is also the biases against others who have come to the US through a spouse.

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:o:o I hate the "C" word!!.... :P

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April/04/2005- Visa journey began!!

We did both K3 & CR1 visa's, got both!!- I returned to England for my CR1 interview after first arriving on a K3 visa!!

May/25th 2006- Green card arrives in the mail................YAY!!

19th June 2006 I Had to go to the Social Security Office to get my number, the DS-230 didnt work for me!!

26-June-2006- Social Security# arrived in the mail....YAY!!

Feb 2008 lift conditions <<<reminder to self!!<<<< went to England for a visit instead, no rush right, 90 days is a long time,LOL

Removing Conditions Begins

Mailed I-751 April 12th 2008

signed for @ NSC April 16th

NOA date April 16th

Conditional GC expired May 5th 2008

Biometrics Detroit May 10th 2008

10 year Green card ordered August 20th 2008

Citizenship any time from feb 2009

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Sometimes they just can't let it go. Remember, you divorced her so now these things have no control over you. IGNORE the game-playing B!

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:o:o I hate the "C" word!!.... :P

Did someone say the"C" word :lol:

PEGGY & ROGER

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K-1/K-2 VISA'S APPROVED IN MONTREAL MAY 2, 2005

K-1/K-2 AOS APPROVED IN ATLANTA MAY 17, 2006

10 year GC Approved - APRIL 16th ,2009 - Peggy and Jonathan's......

Still waiting for our cards...Had to file I-90 as they sent them to the wrong address.

March 9th, 2010, Received GC that has been lost in the mail for 10 months. Still waiting for my son's that is lost as well.

Filed Waiver for my son's 10 year GC and it was approved. He finally received his GC after its been missing for 2 years.

Thanking God this is over for 10 years.

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it's about a mother and her child!!! :lol: of course she's going to be jealous of another woman!!!

Sry, not all mothers are jealous of a relationship thier child has with exhusbands wives/girlfriend.

Im not, In fact, if it wasn't for my ex's wife/livein girlfriend, I would be more worried about having my daughter live with him. I have found that she has been very accepting of my little girl and I appreciate what she does for her . I have never said an ill word against her and don't intend to. I'm happy that my ex has someone in his life that cares about my child.

Unfortunatly its not the other way arround with my ex. He is extremly jealous of the relationship my daughter has with my husband. Its too bad becuz People should be happy that their exs have found someone that gets along and cares for that persons child. Just my 2cents . :thumbs:

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April 28th INTERVIEW DATE !!!!!!!! APPROVED

June 30th Arrived in my Sweeties Arms !!

August 4th.2005 Our Wedding

Sept. 19th Sent AOS

Sept 28th recieved NOA for AOS

Nov.05/05 recieved Biometrics letter

Nov.17th Biometrics Appt.

Nov. 22nd. AP Approved

Nov. 25th/05 recieved EAD card

Nov.30th. recieved AP Papers in mail

Dec. 08th/05 Recieved Snail mail letter for AOS Interview Feb 15th 7:40 AM.

Feb. 15th. /06 AOS Interview SUCCESS !!!! no more to deal with for another 2 yrs!

Feb. 27th./06 Recieved Greencard in the mail

August 4th/06 Our First Wedding Anniversary !!

Feb. 8th 08 Sent in Packet to remove conditions

Feb 23rd 08 Recieve NOA letter stating they are extending my Greencard for another year.

March 11th 08 biometrics appt.

May 29th 08 recieved email stating Card production ordered

June 7th 2008 10 yr card recieved.

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it's about a mother and her child!!! :lol: of course she's going to be jealous of another woman!!!

Sry, not all mothers are jealous of a relationship thier child has with exhusbands wives/girlfriend.

Im not, In fact, if it wasn't for my ex's wife/livein girlfriend, I would be more worried about having my daughter live with him. I have found that she has been very accepting of my little girl and I appreciate what she does for her . I have never said an ill word against her and don't intend to. I'm happy that my ex has someone in his life that cares about my child.

Unfortunatly its not the other way arround with my ex. He is extremly jealous of the relationship my daughter has with my husband. Its too bad becuz People should be happy that their exs have found someone that gets along and cares for that persons child. Just my 2cents . :thumbs:

I am fortunate that I like my ex's fiancée...she's very good to Anna. Although lately it seems she and my ex have been having problems that my ex says are indirectly related to the "rudeness and disrespectful attitude of my daughter"....she's only 6!!! So not only does my ex try to play mind games with me, he's trying to lay part of the blame for relationship problems on a 6yo child. How sick is that?

Oh well...he's chosen the wrong person to mess with...if he keeps this up, I just might have to hand him his testicles. :devil:

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Sister Fracas   5

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:o:o I hate the "C" word!!.... :P

Did someone say the"C" word :lol:

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