I hate my ex wife

[dalegg 143]

Why can't ex's be civilized?

This morning I was having a completely calm conversation with my ex wife about an incident Nicole and I had with my daughter(from ex) regarding earning things. Everything was cool until I mentioned something Nicole told her. My wife interrupts me and says:

"oh, that's really rich-Nicole giving advice to our daughter about earning things. She just latched herself on to a gold mine in the US and has herself settled"

This came out of nowhere except for the fact that my ex really is a C*** and this reminds me of why I divorced her in the first place. Here I am telling her a story that demonstrates that my new wife cares about the well being of our daughter and then comes this #######. Truth is she doesn't even know the first thing about Nicole and how much of her own she has actually given to my daughter because of her inability to earn things(another topic). Is this just jealousy or does everybody have their own preconcieved notions about people's motives that they just cannot drop?

[gimygirl 0]

it's about a mother and her child!!! of course she's going to be jealous of another woman!!!

[Jaylen Brit 0]

It is jealousy - its hard for any mother (or father) to accept another woman (or man!) in as a child's significant other parent - it's not unlike when they start getting influenced by friends and boyfriends/girlfriends.

If it was a bitter break up (and even if not) then of course you will have to expect this - just don't let it 'get' to you - she just wants reassurance she isn't getting 'pushed out' in the mother role.

If you are happy - and the child is happy - then you can afford to be generous - its not about you or your new wife - its all about your ex and her felings

Edited March 28, 2006 by Jaylen Brit

[chocolaterie 0]

yes.. it's a pretty common occurence when children are involved. Sometimes you can't persuade someone to change their thoughts. and if she's going to act in that manner... the best way to prove her wrong is to have your wife continue her positive influence.

[dalegg 143]

It is jealousy - its hard for any mother (or father) to accept another woman (or man!) in as a child's significant other parent - it's not unlike when they start getting influenced by friends and boyfriends/girlfriends.

If it was a bitter break up (and even if not) then of course you will have to expect this - just don't let it 'get' to you - she just wants reassurance she isn't getting 'pushed out' in the mother role.

If you are happy - and the child is happy - then you can afford to be generous - its not about you or your new wife - its all about your ex and her felings

The stupid thing is that it looks and feels like jealousy, but the fact is my wife was already engaged to another man before I even dreampt of a Nicole. There was no bitter break up either. The woman is just a bad egg.

[Jaylen Brit 0]

The thing is it doesn't matter to her; before Nicole SHE was the sole 'woman/ mother figure' in her daughters life - now she is not. She will feel resentful - whatever you feel about her other motives this one is definite. She's jealous that your Nicole now has influence over her daughter whether she likes it or not.

she will get over it in time - or your daughter will grow to resent her for it - honestly.

[Garfield fan 0]

My advice: just ignore her. She will get used to the fact that there is another woman in her daughter's life that can have some influences on her. Don't let her 'bad attitude' get in to you.

[Dixie_Peach 1]

it's about a mother and her child!!! of course she's going to be jealous of another woman!!!

that green monster is rearing it's ugly head....

wishing you the best... and especially your daughter, because she is the one most affected...

[Peggy 1]

Dont even get me started on my husbands ex b4tch wife

Well I know being a mother of two sons, that I woud appreciate if my ex husbands new wife was being nice to them, but NO some ex's are just EVIL AND NASTY.

Good luck with the ex is all I can say.

Some never go away

[Fuzzness 2]

I hate Karen's ex, he's a piece of sh!t

[KarenCee 3]

Dont even get me started on my husbands ex b4tch wife

Well I know being a mother of two sons, that I woud appreciate if my ex husbands new wife was being nice to them, but NO some ex's are just EVIL AND NASTY.

Good luck with the ex is all I can say.

Some never go away

NO....ex's don't go away...and believe me, I have wished for that more times than I care to remember. My ex is jealous of Joel being in Anna's life. But, I'm extremely nice to my ex's fiancee...we even like each other, which is a good thing, since she'll be a part of my daughter's life every other weekend. To be perfectly honest (and if you knew my ex, you'd agree) Joel will be more of a father to her than her own dad.

My ex isn't evil...he's just flippin' insane...

[Peggy 1]

I hate Karen's ex, he's a piece of sh!t

LMAO........

Thats what I say about my ex.........he's a piece of ######

[KarenCee 3]

I hate Karen's ex, he's a piece of sh!t

You described him perfectly darling

[dalegg 143]

I hate Karen's ex, he's a piece of sh!t

You described him perfectly darling

Isn't it ironic that the people we once loved the most are the people we hate the most.

[Peggy 1]

I hate Karen's ex, he's a piece of sh!t

You described him perfectly darling

Isn't it ironic that the people we once loved the most are the people we hate the most.

I was young and stupid when I married my first husband.

I know now that it wasnt love, it was hell