USC being threatned with VAWA.

[Boiler 45,537]

Baby monitors are very common.

[geowrian 22,337]

23 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Baby monitors are very common.

Try using them on somebody else's baby and see what happens.

[SunflowerSweet 1,321]

27 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Baby monitors are very common.

A baby monitor aimed at a crib in a nursery is a very different thing than multiple camera systems all throughout a house for the purpose of constant surveillance. 

[SalishSea 17,837]

4 hours ago, BadAmmoWitch said:

I'm a nice guy, and would never abuse a woman in any way. That being said, I've pondered scenarios like this should they happen to me. This is not necessarily immigration-related, but to protect myself from false claims of verbal or physical abuse, I would invest about $500 in cameras inside the home. I have Nest cameras outside, and they're great at recording people and conversations. It would be the ultimate proof of the absence of abuse, as it logs dates and times also. I think some might see this as a bit over the top, but that's what I would do if false claims of abuse were headed my way. 

A much better solution would just be to not marry someone who you don't trust to not falsify abuse.

[BadAmmoWitch 213]

2 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

A much better solution would just be to not marry someone who you don't trust to not falsify abuse.

Yep, a much better solution, but seeing as how the op presumably doesn't have access to a time machine, he's going to have to figure something else out. We see it all the time on this forum, and it happens with non-immigrant spouses all over the country. Sometimes people aren't who you thought they were. 

[SalishSea 17,837]

8 minutes ago, BadAmmoWitch said:

Yep, a much better solution, but seeing as how the op presumably doesn't have access to a time machine, he's going to have to figure something else out. We see it all the time on this forum, and it happens with non-immigrant spouses all over the country. Sometimes people aren't who you thought they were. 

And it goes both directions - some USC spouses aren't who you thought they were.  As such, I always advocate for many, many visits and time spent in person before marriage or petitions.  Boggles the mind how many people marry someone after an online relationship and 10 days spent in their company.

Edited February 7, 2020 by Jorgedig

[Ontarkie 14,228]

You would be very surprised how many ppl I know who have camera's throughout their entire home. Wyze cams are perfect and very good for 25 bucks. I use them also and will be installing more. 

 

A friend just found out that she is not crazy thinking she ate food she didn't remember eating and things being out of place. Her and her son have had funny feelings. Police told her to put cameras up after she found her shower curtain rod moved and damage to the wall. The neighbour told her they head noise from her apartment for at least 2 weeks when she is out. He thought her ex was back and didn't mention it sooner. So yes cameras in the house/apartments are getting to be the norm and many police are recommending them. 

 

Now I'm not saying put them in and don't tell her. In this case he is best to move out. Since the wife took herself off the lease and moved out then returned if he abandons the apartment I don't see the landlord leaving her there long.  

[geowrian 22,337]

I love Wyze cams. And have been using Blink XT/XT2 for exteriors where power lines are unavailable.

 

But there are 2 elements here: knowledge and consent. Knowledge may or may not be required to record whenever there is an expectation of privacy (like in a living space). So to record a visitor, knowledge of the camera may be necessary. Consent can be presumed by their willingness to go or remain there. It's akin to "By using this website, you agree to...".

But one cannot require a tenant to choose "consent or leave". They can - if within local laws - threaten to evict if they do not consent, but they cannot force them to consent to being recorded against their will in their own living space.

[SunflowerSweet 1,321]

That’s interesting, since recently we charged a federal case where a guy put cameras up in his home, including the bathroom, under the guise of security/unfaithful wife and now is facing attempt of production of CP. I wonder if the police recommended  those cameras.

[geowrian 22,337]

1 minute ago, MorganandMichael said:

That’s interesting, since recently we charged a federal case where a guy put cameras up in his home, including the bathroom, under the guise of security/unfaithful wife and now is facing attempt of production of CP. I wonder if the police recommended  those cameras.

The bathroom and/or bedrooms would be the obvious red flag. Even visitors are entitled to a strong expectation of privacy in those cases, unlike common spaces. I'm betting those would be strong factors in said case.

[SunflowerSweet 1,321]

Just now, geowrian said:

The bathroom and/or bedrooms would be the obvious red flag. Even visitors are entitled to a strong expectation of privacy in those cases, unlike common spaces. I'm betting those would be strong factors in said case.

A shower curtain rod was mentioned previously, which is why I figured I’d mention it in case anyone thinks bathroom cameras are a good idea.

[Boiler 45,537]

Seems there are issues with those cameras being hacked. I am looking at getting a new laptop and seems many now come with physical shutters for the camera.

[Dashinka 24,514]

5 hours ago, Orangesapples said:

100% wrong. A person doesn't need to be on the lease in order to be considered a tenant in the legal sense and you can't just kick them out. Especially if you happen to be married to them. 

Absolutely, but her not being in the lease does allow him to move out and he doesn’t have to take her with him.

[belinda63 3,038]

He needs to file for separation and let the court's work it out. He could also file to have her evicted.

[Amadia 711]

It's sad to learn of what you are going thru OP but, at the same time, I am sure the signs of her erratic behaviour was plain as the nose on your face. You brought her here on a Fiancé visa and she's been tugging at your heart strings and causing you hurt.....it makes me wonder how long you knew her....like really knew her.....before you decided to make a life with her.

She talks about VAWA, etc like someone is advising her on how to do things. My best advise = Get out early and while you still can to preserve your sanity.