Green card fraud

[Ortolan 381]

Simplify, simplify, simplify.

Are you happy? Do you feel loved and secure in your life? If not, dismiss the green card stuff from your mind.

Take care of you. Immigration stuff is his problem. You're still on the hook if he goes for public assistance, until he gets his citizenship, but you have to decide for yourself what to do...for you.

[AA1 4]

On 1/7/2020 at 3:14 PM, debbiericardo said:

So my stepchildren have green cards.  They come here every 6 months and stay for like maybe a week and go back to Dominican Republic. So here’s the thing when my husbands kids are here , he treats me very different and actually stays in hotel with his kids . Also the reason his kids haven’t moved here yet is because his daughter is going to college to be a doctor in her country . My question is they have not established residency here in the United states and I believe my husband is planning once his daughter finishes school for her to come here than his daughter will file for his ex wife to come over here . In the mean time is there anything I can do since they basically are not living here in the US. I know the last time they came for visit they were questioned why they don’t stay long when they come . I just don’t want to be taken advantage of , which it seems I have been used Any help would be appreciated . Thank you 

Why do you believe your husband is not with you, or will abandon you, or will go back to his ex when she comes to US?

1. He is living with you and he didn't divorce you.

2. He only lives in the hotel when his kids are visiting.

3. How his daughter will bring her mother? She need to live 5 years in US and become a citizen and the way it goes, it may take 7-8 years from now.

4. If your husband wanted to bring his ex, he would divorce you very fast and then see how to remarry his ex and bring her here.

 

Maybe your husband wants his kids to bring their mother but only because she is the mother of his children.

[NikLR 13,232]

On 1/9/2020 at 7:40 PM, AA1 said:

Why do you believe your husband is not with you, or will abandon you, or will go back to his ex when she comes to US?

1. He is living with you and he didn't divorce you.

2. He only lives in the hotel when his kids are visiting.

3. How his daughter will bring her mother? She need to live 5 years in US and become a citizen and the way it goes, it may take 7-8 years from now.

4. If your husband wanted to bring his ex, he would divorce you very fast and then see how to remarry his ex and bring her here.

 

Maybe your husband wants his kids to bring their mother but only because she is the mother of his children.

#4 is the only point you made that doesnt work.  An LPR must be an LPR for 5 years before they can petiton a spouse if the original green card was because of marriage. 

 

However I agree with you on the rest of the points.  The OP should seek counselling and marriage counselling.  While her step-children are playing dangerously with their green cards, her real issue is her marriage and is not an immigration issue. 

[AA1 4]

6 hours ago, NikLR said:

#4 is the only point you made that doesnt work.  An LPR must be an LPR for 5 years before they can petiton a spouse if the original green card was because of marriage. 

 

However I agree with you on the rest of the points.  The OP should seek counselling and marriage counselling.  While her step-children are playing dangerously with their green cards, her real issue is her marriage and is not an immigration issue. 

Yes, 5 years divorced and 5 years green card holder but anyway, it could be faster for to bring his ex, faster than his kids could do. But he didn't go this way, he stays married to Topic Starter. I agree with you, they need to fix their marriage and trust.