Husband threatening to deport me

[marianava 7]

He said he will say that I used him for the GC because I left so quickly 

Edited January 4, 2020 by marianava

[Crazy Cat 41,904]

26 minutes ago, marianava said:

He said he will say that I used him for the GC because I left for quickly 

Words are cheap........If you haven't already done so, you should call the police and report the abuse....

 

 

"Tales of the Green card"

Edited January 4, 2020 by missileman

[Russ&Caro 1,549]

Get a good divorce attorney and file for divorce. You've been married over 2 years. You might gain a good settlement in divorce. Maybe he'll be the one paying you $50,000.

[Nitas_man 3,100]

23 minutes ago, marianava said:

I asked about changing my address in my previous post

now I got an email from my husband saying that he will do everything to get me deported 

He is demanding that I give him $50K if I want to keep my green card

He told me to go beg my friends and family to give me money or go work as a prostitute.

He is a terrible person. can he do something to me?

I left his apartment after less than week of being there after he abused me.

Did he write that down or do you have that recorded somewhere?

1.  Print it out

2.  Dial 911

3.  Advise the police you want to file charges for “extortion” 

4.  Watch what happens

 

Extortion is a felony in any state.  If you want to know what it is see the below

 

https://criminal.findlaw.com/criminal-charges/extortion.html
 

OH - dont say anything to him ya?  Make it a surprise.

Edited January 4, 2020 by Nitas_man

[marianava 7]

1 minute ago, Nitas_man said:

Did he write that down or do you have that recorded somewhere?

1.  Print it out

2.  Dial 911

3.  Advise the police you want to file charges for “extortion” 

4.  Watch what happens

 

Extortion is a felony in any state.  If you want to know what it is see the below

 

https://criminal.findlaw.com/criminal-charges/extortion.html

Yes he emailed me

[Nitas_man 3,100]

1 minute ago, marianava said:

Yes he emailed me

He’s done

 

Make the call

Edited January 4, 2020 by Nitas_man

[Crazy Cat 41,904]

2 minutes ago, Nitas_man said:

He’s done

 

Make the call

Yep.  That guy made an extremely serious mistake which will likely cost him dearly......

[Lance27 19]

In addition to the extortion, file charges with the police for the abuse as well, so it is documented. Good luck!

[geowrian 22,337]

1) Stay safe

2) Submit a Change of Address (COA) with USPS. This can be done online.

3) Change the address on file with USCIS (AR-11, can be filed online).

4) Get a police report and/or a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) so he has to stay away. The report can also help if you ever deal with immigration again and they wonder why you stayed away form your spouse right after arrival.

[marianava 7]

The usps change of address - it says he's gonna get a notice about it, I don't want him to know that I changed the address and don't want him to know where I am staying 

[Crazy Cat 41,904]

2 minutes ago, marianava said:

The usps change of address - it says he's gonna get a notice about it, I don't want him to know that I changed the address and don't want him to know where I am staying 

Then call USCIS and ask them to change it......and express your concerns about your husband knowing your location.......you will need your alien registration number and info on your visa.

[Lemonslice 4,859]

5 minutes ago, marianava said:

The usps change of address - it says he's gonna get a notice about it, I don't want him to know that I changed the address and don't want him to know where I am staying 

In my state, you can get a safe address where your mail is redirected, which is different from your place of residence, so no one knows where you're staying.

 

Please reach out to the police, and/or the National Domestic Violence Hotline 

https://www.thehotline.org/

 

 

Best of luck.

[marianava 7]

2 minutes ago, Lemonslice said:

In my state, you can get a safe address where your mail is redirected, which is different from your place of residence, so no one knows where you're staying.

 

Please reach out to the police, and/or the National Domestic Violence Hotline 

https://www.thehotline.org/

 

 

Best of luck.

How do you get a safe address? what state are you from?

Edited January 4, 2020 by marianava

[Duke & Marie 1,389]

3 minutes ago, marianava said:

How do you get a safe address? what state are you from?

A safe address being one that your husband isn’t at.. e.g. redirect mail to your friends house

[Lemonslice 4,859]

5 minutes ago, marianava said:

How do you get a safe address? what state are you from?

I am in Massachusetts, I'm not sure which states are offering the service. You would need to contact the police or the Domestic Violence helpline to see if they're available in your state.  Please call them now, or chat online.