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I may have misread it as I assumed it was talking about any of the issues mentioned not all of them.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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Well, the die is cast. 15 years, 1 month and 2 days ago, I peeked over the back of a sofa at a boring party and found a tall, dark-haired guy squinting to read a magazine in low light and drinking out

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To all my VJ friends and acquaintances, I wish apologize for a link I inadvertently posted last week.  It was about Hunter, and the thread title was something about p0rnhub.  When I posted the link, I

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Just returned from a short hop to Key West to pick up "groceries" at the "European Market".  European my #######.  It's an Uzbek store, but close enough for my wife.   Discovered a new game

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9 minutes ago, Boiler said:

I may have misread it as I assumed it was talking about any of the issues mentioned not all of them.

See, I thought it was too. Then I went there and there was SO much talking about porn addiction. 

 

Their checklist for healing is not one I would follow, personally: https://www.btr.org/checklist

 

Setting boundaries is 100% necessary in every type of relationship. That's where I've gone wrong again and again -- I've forgotten that I exist outside of the relationship as an individual, what I want out of life, etc. And this group stresses that, which is good! But this looks like recovery from betrayal within an active relationship, and that's not what I'm dealing with. 

 

Also, I am a consumer of porn so I do not think I would be welcome! :lol: 

 

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Well that explains your presence here.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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Well that explains your presence here.

This is some very weird porn. :P 

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29 minutes ago, laylalex said:

See, I thought it was too. Then I went there and there was SO much talking about porn addiction. 

 

Their checklist for healing is not one I would follow, personally: https://www.btr.org/checklist

 

Setting boundaries is 100% necessary in every type of relationship. That's where I've gone wrong again and again -- I've forgotten that I exist outside of the relationship as an individual, what I want out of life, etc. And this group stresses that, which is good! But this looks like recovery from betrayal within an active relationship, and that's not what I'm dealing with. 

 

Also, I am a consumer of porn so I do not think I would be welcome! :lol: 

 

That's what I find funny about all of this.... You are the addict here LMAO

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1 hour ago, laylalex said:

Another ad I got on here that leaves me with more questions than I have answers to:

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is lord alex aware of these issues of yours?

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I carry a gun because a cop is too heavy.

 

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Honestly it looks more like a group thing for people married to porn addicts, and that isn't me. 

so it's a group for lord alex to join then?

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I carry a gun because a cop is too heavy.

 

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Now I'm getting ads for "Women's Hottest Sleepwear" showing women in silky slips -- I can't post the screencap because I do NOT think it is TOS complaint! :lol: 

 

Better than the one I get all the time for a bidet, which is a person pointing a silver hose between their thighs. :wacko:

 

LOL -- as soon as I posted that, this came up:

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Now I'm getting ads for "Women's Hottest Sleepwear" showing women in silky slips -- I can't post the screencap because I do NOT think it is TOS complaint! :lol: 

 

Better than the one I get all the time for a bidet, which is a person pointing a silver hose between their thighs. :wacko:

So what exactly have you been looking up or talking about in front of your Google machines? Because they only do that if you actually look up something or talking about something in the vicinity of microphones.

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I mean, I've already been through this drama last year when there was that whole Ashley Madison debacle when I was in England for a wedding. Ads came up for Ashley Madison on here while I was staying in an Airbnb. I am certain I posted about it. It wasn't me who was doing anything like that, and there were other people staying in the house with us, but I really have no idea what happened.

 

Silky nightwear, sure, yeah, I admit to that. :P Bidets is a little more confusing, definitely haven't spoken of those. The recovery group therapy I assume came out of the narcissism topic on here, maybe? Or during therapy sessions, which I do remotely now.

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3 hours ago, Cyberfx1024 said:

he ended up dead. 

Colonel in the Israeli Army once noted to me, "A dead terrorist can rarely cause you future problems."

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Should I be worried that I'm now getting ads for motorcycle insurance and strollers? Are there things he's not telling me????

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Something you have not told him?

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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Something you have not told him?

No, not particularly interested in either. Both seem to involve quite high risks.

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19 minutes ago, laylalex said:

Should I be worried that I'm now getting ads for motorcycle insurance and strollers? Are there things he's not telling me????

Only you could take the derailment exempt thread totally off topic.

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