Husband won't leave. 2yr card expired. Help!

[B_J 2,752]

Well, this got really weird, really fast.

[USS_Voyager 1,972]

Somebody just have a lot of time I guess

[Duke & Marie 1,389]

20 hours ago, Cyberfx1024 said:

If the house isn't in his name then kick him out of it and change the locks. As far as divorce goes that is really state dependent. So what state are you in?

I’m not sure it’s legal to evict someone from the marital home... 

 

get a a divorce lawyer 

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Can someone translate the foreign language in some of the posts?

 

I feel like I'm missing out on some important info here.

[Ban Hammer 13,456]

multiple posts removed for either tos violations, quoting those posts, or for pot stirring.

one member has received draconian admin action for their posts and will not return.

if a member has nothing constructive to post in this thread, it would be in their best interests not to post.

 

charles

vj moderation

Edited November 2, 2019 by Ban Hammer

[NikLR 13,231]

2 hours ago, aaron2020 said:

The police will come to his house and arrest him for smoking pot.  

Yup. 

[camerica 60]

On 10/31/2019 at 8:39 PM, sleepy22 said:

Hello. I am just looking for some advice. I have been trying to breakup with my husband for months. I keep asking him to leave and he doesn't want to. His conditional green card expired in August. He knew that I wanted to breakup and I wouldn't be going through the renewal process and I told him repeatedly go home before it expired. I have been treated like garbage since he has been here in 2016. I don't want to have to involve the police but I just want to get a divorce and be done. I don't really have the money for a lawyer and I was just going to do a DIY divorce but not sure he will sign. He is using me for a place to stay while he goes to work and makes money to spend on marijuana and to send back to his family. It's all so ridiculous and I just found out he is on a dating site. Any thoughts?  Thanks!

Call immigration and ask someone there. If he is doing what you are saying with pot, they will throw him out.

 

[NikLR 13,231]

2 hours ago, camerica said:

Call immigration and ask someone there. If he is doing what you are saying with pot, they will throw him out.

 

Depends if it's legal where the OP lives or not. 

[Daisy.Chain 317]

On 11/1/2019 at 3:06 PM, aaron2020 said:

The police will come to his house and arrest him for smoking pot.  

Not necessarily. It's illegal in my state and we've called the police for our pot-smoking neighbors multiple times. They'll go to the door but won't go in, even if they smell it, unfortunately. I don't know why! It depends on the police and the situation but couldn't hurt to try.

 

In the meantime, we're now moving to get away from the pot.

[geowrian 22,337]

22 minutes ago, Daisy.Chain said:

They'll go to the door but won't go in, even if they smell it, unfortunately. I don't know why!

Unless it's in plain sight, they would need a warrant or permission. Smelling it is not enough to search a home (which differs from a vehicle, in which reasonable suspicion is enough to get a K9 to alert and then search).

[aaron2020 11,651]

6 hours ago, Daisy.Chain said:

Not necessarily. It's illegal in my state and we've called the police for our pot-smoking neighbors multiple times. They'll go to the door but won't go in, even if they smell it, unfortunately. I don't know why! It depends on the police and the situation but couldn't hurt to try.

 

In the meantime, we're now moving to get away from the pot.

I was being sarcastic.  

[camerica 60]

On 11/3/2019 at 7:37 PM, camerica said:

Call immigration and ask someone there. If he is doing what you are saying with pot, they will throw him out.

 

I was not talking about him smoking pot, when I made this statement. The poster said something about him buying pot and sending it back to his family members. Does not matter if pot is legal in a state. It is against the law to send it through the mail, particularly to another country. I find it something though that someone would be so stupid as to send pot internationally, through the mail.

[Nitas_man 3,100]

20 hours ago, geowrian said:

Unless it's in plain sight, they would need a warrant or permission. Smelling it is not enough to search a home (which differs from a vehicle, in which reasonable suspicion is enough to get a K9 to alert and then search).

OP lives in the house.  Permission to search granted 👍

[geowrian 22,337]

17 minutes ago, Nitas_man said:

OP lives in the house.  Permission to search granted 👍

I was referrering to the other user who was talking about a neighbor.

[Nitas_man 3,100]

7 minutes ago, geowrian said:

I was referrering to the other user who was talking about a neighbor.

Duh sorry 👍

 

I feel that this thread must have wandered since I checked it last

Edited November 8, 2019 by Nitas_man