October 2019 I-129F FILERS

[MKJ119 43]

8 hours ago, Gummybear said:

Thank you guys for those peoples(different races)who cheer me. Thank you for understanding me and for giving me a mature advice. We tried to fix everything and he finally sent the whole RFE to me. We are now okay! We sent our RFE to USCIS already, I know everything will be fine. I wish you all guys to have a successful petition and happy marriage soon. Just keep praying, have faith and I think everything will follow. Thank you so much in this group or (wtever  is this).. I feel like I have a family who is concern about what I feel. Thanks God I found this page. Thanks for the peoples in here. 

Hi, @Gummybear. I just got caught up on your posts. Please, please look out for yourself. Make sure you have someone to talk things over with, someone who isn't afraid to give you their honest opinion and has your best interest in mind. People lie for a lot of silly reasons. People make mistakes in relationships and it takes a lot of courage to come clean. My fiance and I started our relationship off a bit rocky because he wasn't honest with me that he was seeing someone when he met me (I pursued him). It was one of those situations where it was more casual for him than it was for her (which is NEVER okay, btw). It took him far too long to admit to her that the reason he wouldn't see her when she was in town was that he had met someone else and we were developing feelings for each other. After a month or so, he "officially" broke things off with her and told her everything, but it wasn't until a few months later that he admitted to me that he lied to me in the first place. In the end, her and I became good friends and he learned a valuable lesson about honesty and overlapping relationships. 

 

All I can say is that self-love is about having firm boundaries and high standards for yourself and your relationships. Hold your partner accountable. There are times where the right decision is to walk away, and there are times where you can forgive and move forward - but the latter requires complete honesty and a lot of vulnerability.

[Stringbeans 65]

12 hours ago, MKJ119 said:

Hi, @Gummybear. I just got caught up on your posts. Please, please look out for yourself. Make sure you have someone to talk things over with, someone who isn't afraid to give you their honest opinion and has your best interest in mind. People lie for a lot of silly reasons. People make mistakes in relationships and it takes a lot of courage to come clean. My fiance and I started our relationship off a bit rocky because he wasn't honest with me that he was seeing someone when he met me (I pursued him). It was one of those situations where it was more casual for him than it was for her (which is NEVER okay, btw). It took him far too long to admit to her that the reason he wouldn't see her when she was in town was that he had met someone else and we were developing feelings for each other. After a month or so, he "officially" broke things off with her and told her everything, but it wasn't until a few months later that he admitted to me that he lied to me in the first place. In the end, her and I became good friends and he learned a valuable lesson about honesty and overlapping relationships. 

 

All I can say is that self-love is about having firm boundaries and high standards for yourself and your relationships. Hold your partner accountable. There are times where the right decision is to walk away, and there are times where you can forgive and move forward - but the latter requires complete honesty and a lot of vulnerability.

We almost have the same situation. I experienced a lot of things at my young age. ☹️ I know things will get better. I'm hoping that he will be honest and never hide things again from me. Because I also have a limitation even though I love him. I always pray to God to change his heart and mind.

[Greenbaum 12,259]

42 minutes ago, Gummybear said:

We almost have the same situation. I experienced a lot of things at my young age. ☹️ I know things will get better. I'm hoping that he will be honest and never hide things again from me. Because I also have a limitation even though I love him. I always pray to God to change his heart and mind.

You can't change a person. Keep that in mind.

[Stringbeans 65]

21 minutes ago, Greenbaum said:

You can't change a person. Keep that in mind.

I really don't know what to do. I'm just trying to be positive but in reality I'm really scared to trust again because I felt guilty in everything that you said to me, I don't know what to do. 

Edited February 12, 2020 by Gummybear

[Greenbaum 12,259]

1 hour ago, Gummybear said:

I really don't know what to do. I'm just trying to be positive but in reality I'm really scared to trust again because I felt guilty in everything that you said to me, I don't know what to do. 

Sit and reflect on the relationship and what has transpired. Decide what is important and does he meet those expectations. Let your sense of right and wrong decide your path, not your heart. 

[LittlePug 60]

Approved!!

 

NOA1- Oct 11th

NOA2- Feb 11th

[charles777 2]

On 10/1/2019 at 6:40 AM, Sarge2155 said:

Congratulations your the first here so far, hope it goes fast for you!

i got my I-129F  that they received, how long does it normally take for the next letter, the approval letter?

[Greenbaum 12,259]

9 minutes ago, charles777 said:

i got my I-129F  that they received, how long does it normally take for the next letter, the approval letter?

It's been running about 5 to 7 months but closer to 5. Your mileage may vary.

 

We need a little housekeeping on your end. Many of our answers are predicated on the information you supply in your profile. When we look at the left column and can't determine your timeline OR your Embassy it's hard for us to give you a factual answer. Our answers will sometimes be tailored to a specific Embassy hence the reason for you to complete your profile. If you look at the profile of others here, they have a flag for their country, so it makes it easy for us to reply as we can quickly determine their Embassy. The country that should be used is the country where the interview will take place.

 

So, if you could help yourself out and complete your profile that sure would help us out when we want to reply to your question with factual information.

 

Go to the top right of this page select your name (it's on the upper right-hand corner)>my profile>[below your picture on the right column] edit my profile. Scroll to the bottom and fill in "Immigration Info". There now we can better serve you.

 

Once you finish that then return and you will see a flag in your profile. Select it and see what wonderful information will open up for you.

 

Thanks

 

 

33 minutes ago, LittlePug said:

Approved!!

 

NOA1- Oct 11th

NOA2- Feb 11th

Congratulations. According to the PDF file you just made the cut off for next week shipment, so as it looks no delay.

 

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1nfin98c33IEpB0T0FlURERriblYmlm5O/view

Edited February 12, 2020 by Greenbaum

[charles777 2]

ok got it, she will be interviewed in colombia 

[Greenbaum 12,259]

4 minutes ago, charles777 said:

ok got it, she will be interviewed in colombia 

I answer hundreds of questions each day from folks like yours. When you finish and your profile look complete (see the below example) then I am will help you. But if you don't complete the profile then I nor is anyone else obligated to help you. So it's in your best interest but it's also your dime.

 

[charles777 2]

got it and thanks, 

[Vabsmith 47]

45 minutes ago, LittlePug said:

Approved!!

 

NOA1- Oct 11th

NOA2- Feb 11th

Congratulations!

[Stringbeans 65]

2 hours ago, LittlePug said:

Approved!!

 

NOA1- Oct 11th

NOA2- Feb 11th

Congrats little pug! So happy for you! ❤️😘

[GinaCarterWebster 67]

2 hours ago, LittlePug said:

Approved!!

 

NOA1- Oct 11th

NOA2- Feb 11th

Sooooo HAPPY FOR YOU!!!

 

#MyTurn #MeNext #ImReady!! 

[Stringbeans 65]

USCIS recieved my RFE. How many months should I wait for their decision or approval for my petition?