October 2019 I-129F FILERS

[shaolincrane 69]

Just received our approval notice via text. 122 days

[DesiJase 52]

Hopefully more approvals this week.

[Sarge2155 4,587]

59 minutes ago, DesiJase said:

Hopefully more approvals this week.

Yes let's  hope many more!

[Stringbeans 65]

It's funny! Because my boyfriend only sent me the instruction of the RFE but not the RFE is all about, He thought that I don't know it. He's hiding!

[Sparkle Sparkle 914]

2 hours ago, Gummybear said:

It's funny! Because my boyfriend only sent me the instruction of the RFE but not the RFE is all about, He thought that I don't know it. He's hiding!

🤔 What could he be hiding that you will not find out sooner or later?.. K1 is designed to reveal secrets.. Just make sure you ask him about it so you know what to say at the interview if it comes up. 

[Sarge2155 4,587]

2 hours ago, Gummybear said:

It's funny! Because my boyfriend only sent me the instruction of the RFE but not the RFE is all about, He thought that I don't know it. He's hiding!

Make him tell you. Then give him a stern talking to if indeed  he did hide anything.

[Beeya 50]

It's been 125 days for me. I'm hoping for some good news this week. 🙏

[EllaC 190]

Here's to another week to knock it out of the park! 😄

[Sarge2155 4,587]

15 minutes ago, Beeya said:

It's been 125 days for me. I'm hoping for some good news this week. 🙏

 

13 minutes ago, EllaC said:

Here's to another week to knock it out of the park! 😄

Let's  rock!

[Greenbaum 12,259]

5 hours ago, Gummybear said:

It's funny! Because my boyfriend only sent me the instruction of the RFE but not the RFE is all about, He thought that I don't know it. He's hiding!

An RFE is a second chance to correct missing documents or make a section of the application whole. If you get this wrong there is no approval. Starting a new relationship this way is not healthy. It's time to sit down with him and require the WHOLE RFE and why he is not cooperating with this process. There could be something deeper and YOU want to know about it because USCIS already knows. 

[Stringbeans 65]

1 hour ago, Greenbaum said:

An RFE is a second chance to correct missing documents or make a section of the application whole. If you get this wrong there is no approval. Starting a new relationship this way is not healthy. It's time to sit down with him and require the WHOLE RFE and why he is not cooperating with this process. There could be something deeper and YOU want to know about it because USCIS already knows. 

It's about his previous marriage but he can't tell to me and he doesn't want to send it to me. I don't know if I will continue this process. 

[Stringbeans 65]

3 hours ago, Sparkle Sparkle said:

🤔 What could he be hiding that you will not find out sooner or later?.. K1 is designed to reveal secrets.. Just make sure you ask him about it so you know what to say at the interview if it comes up. 

He never told me everything. He always hiding from me even that I already knew that he was married before and then I accepted him again and then they got divorced and then we got RFE. He can't tell it to me because he is blaming that I'm judgemental. Who will not be judgemental? At first, I never knew that he was married before..

[Stringbeans 65]

1 hour ago, Greenbaum said:

An RFE is a second chance to correct missing documents or make a section of the application whole. If you get this wrong there is no approval. Starting a new relationship this way is not healthy. It's time to sit down with him and require the WHOLE RFE and why he is not cooperating with this process. There could be something deeper and YOU want to know about it because USCIS already knows. 

He makes me feel fool. I'm asking for RFE, I got crazy thinking about it and reading over and over again  and I realized that I'm just reading an instruction and a front page of RFE.  He made me jerk! ☹️ I'm so hurt! This is not the first time. I'm so mad!

4 hours ago, Sparkle Sparkle said:

🤔 What could he be hiding that you will not find out sooner or later?.. K1 is designed to reveal secrets.. Just make sure you ask him about it so you know what to say at the interview if it comes up. 

He makes me feel fool. I'm asking for RFE, I got crazy thinking about it and reading over and over again  and I realized that I'm just reading an instruction and a front page of RFE.  He made me jerk! ☹️ I'm so hurt! This is not the first time. I'm so mad!

[Greenbaum 12,259]

13 minutes ago, Gummybear said:

It's about his previous marriage but he can't tell to me and he doesn't want to send it to me. I don't know if I will continue this process. 

For me that's a deal breaker. If you can't share everything with your partner, you don't have a partner. Sorry, but you have a hard decision to make but better to do it now then get to the States, if that will ever be, and find out his dark secret. Something doesn't smell right here and you are smart to have figured this out early. Remember, the fish stinks from head to toe. Find out now.

[EllaC 190]

2 minutes ago, Greenbaum said:

For me that's a deal breaker. If you can't share everything with your partner, you don't have a partner. Sorry, but you have a hard decision to make but better to do it now then get to the States, if that will ever be, and find out his dark secret. Something doesn't smell right here and you are smart to have figured this out early. Remember, the fish stinks from head to toe. Find out now.

@Gummybear I'm sorry to hear that! I am the petitioner, when I met my now fiance I was still married, living in the same house with my now ex, although separated, and was going to get a divorce after going to therapy on my own and having achieved nothing. When I started talking to my now fiance, I was afraid to tell him about my situation, but did nonetheless in the very beginning because I decided that I was going to give him the chance to walk away if being with someone who is going through a divorce would be too much for him. I set my rules straight from the very first day: TRANSPARENCY, no matter how small or big an issue may seem. That has served me so well and is the basis of our relationship: trust, honesty and love. Don't rush into something if you don't have the full picture. I FULLY agree with @Greenbaum, absolute deal breaker. Rules of engagement should also be discussed early in a relationship: things that will strengthen the relationship further for both AS WELL AS deal-breakers for both. Very important. I have learned valuable lessons from my previous marriage in which we both made mistakes and I will not stop preaching how important it is to build each other's trust in each other.